Dreaming of bending means you are in phase of wanting to please that may be derived from a fear of disappointment. Wanting to please is okay, but don’t sacrifice your integrity and your self worth in the process. If your irrational fear of disappointment forces you to bend over backwards for others requests, then you need to start rethinking whether what you are doing is healthy or detrimental to your self being. The dream is telling you to develop some backbone to start defining yourself.