Comments on: Losing Virginity in Dreams

By: Samantha

Samantha — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:54:12 +0000

A few nights ago, I lost my virginity in my dream. It was strange because there were these people with familiar faces (however, I KNEW they weren’t people I know) persistently telling me that I must lose it. HAD to lose it.
I could not have sex though…I wouldn’t. Woke full of confusion, and a bit distraught.
I am twenty now, and still a virgin, obviously..
What is with this dream?

By: Cass

Cass — Tue, 06 Sep 2011 04:19:08 +0000

I am a virgin in my mid 20s. I have had sex dreams before, but this is the first one I’ve had where I dream I’m losing my virginity. All the other dreams of this nature it feels like I’ve done it before and have tended to be rough. Also, this dream not only has me losing my virginity, but the sex is gentle, the guy (someone I know) is kind, gentle, slow, talks me through it. It’s not as vivid as some of the other sex dreams I’ve had but emotionally I end up feeling better about the act of sex and the loss of my virginity than I tend to feel about it in real life.

By: Jessie

Jessie — Wed, 23 Mar 2011 04:06:33 +0000

I woke up to a strange dream this morning. First off, I am a virgin. I don’t remember everything from the dream, it all kinda blurred. All I can remember from the “beginning” is that we (this guy and me) were in a canoe. We estimated wrong how much force and direction we needed to go and ended up landing in a river, splash and all. We got out and went to the edge of the river. There was another canoe, dark mahogany, with oars by it on the ground. They were placed like on display. The next thing I remember is climbing. The attitude between us was weird. I think he was wondering why I was being a bit bitchy/curt. We were at the top, my back against this wall, rock. I think we were talking about sex before it happened? I’m not sure, it might’ve been after. All our clothes were still on, except what had to be out of the way to have sex, of course. I remember him talking about how he didn’t want that openness and so other things. When he was saying this, I felt like everything was spinning, I was spinning. I grabbed the rock behind me. It didn’t hold, falling away from the entire rock I was leaning on, crumbling in my hands. It was an odd globe-ish shape, the rock I was leaning on. And for a second that I was spinning, it looked like a globe. I remember sensations and then him saying things. I felt stupidly idealist and rejected, embarrassed and regretful. I remember looking down and asking if we could stop. He agreed to. Somehow we were tied together and high up. I had to pull down the tie that connected us to get him to pull out. That was unsafe unless he held onto me. I tried to get it down, but he was holding on to the tie, too. He wouldn’t let go. I kept struggling with it, but he wouldn’t let go! I remember two people at the bottom saying how he wouldn’t let go of me. Tears were wetting my lashes, but I wasn’t crying yet. We were on the ground, later, away from where we were before. I remember hugging him tightly and shaking. He said that that’s why it shouldn’t have happened and some other things. I don’t remember his face. I just know that I was older and he was older than me. He felt comforting but distant. He was warm.

By: Anna

Anna — Wed, 05 Jan 2011 22:39:32 +0000

I’m still a virgin but I had this weird dream were I lost my virginity. I didn’t feel nervous or complicated at all, it was like I had done it before and just went for it. I also had a threesome, with two guys who I feel attracted to and vice versa in real life. It almost felt like I was dominating them.
I’m very curious since I knew I was losing my virginity to these guys but didn’t really care about it.
What does it mean?

By: Ashley

Ashley — Fri, 31 Dec 2010 18:43:54 +0000

Im only a young teenager but i woke up from a very weird sex dream this morning. My dream was about me loosing my virginity to Morgan Freeman. I dont feel ashamed or awkward but i feel kind of wierd for having a dream about a celebrity so much older than myself! What does this dream mean?