Rape in Dreams

The act of being raped in dreams is a strong sign of a bad relationship. You are most likely with some one you feel inferior to. Instead of being in a partnership where you and the other person, listen and help one another, the other person most likely dominates. You feel insecure and unable to make them listen to you. There’s a feeling of being tied down and not being able to defend, or protect yourself. You’re in fear that your partner can hurt you and that you’re not safe when you’re around them. It’s a sign that you’re not being taken seriously and that your partner doesn’t really care much about you.

This is the time for you to re-evaluate your relationship and talk about it. You can’t just live in the shadow of someone else for the rest of your life. Stand up, and be strong, because you’re the only one in control of yourself.

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  1. I dont mnow how to feel about my dream. It was that my boyfriend was trying to rape me, what was unsettling was that i did want to but I wanted to shower first but he wanted to have sex now. I said no and he wouldnt stop and forced himself on top of me and i kept screaming no, no but he would just say let me put it in. And i was trying to cover myself so he wouldnt and said this is me saying no i dont want to and i woke up before he actually went in…. Ive been with him for way over a year but we have been on and off because of his cheating and lying. And i did always feel used before because whenever i wasnt in the mood he would get angry and turn cold towards me. And it made me feel so bad i often would have sex with him just so he woukdnt get angry… We are in a better place now but I dont know what to think about this or how to feel about it… Am I just scared of him? Sexually? Ive always been very scared of rape and i hate to feel scared of it from him. Someone please help me understand.

  2. Hi can someone please help me. I have just woke crying from a dream. In my dream I was at a girls house from work, I was there with my 8 year old. We was watching TV when her friend came over .I tried to call a taxi to go home but it kept saying I have dialled a wrong number so I called my partner. During this time 2 more girls appeared and banged me and my son on the head . I woke up to us both being tied up and I looked at the window and my partner was there banging on the window . He couldn’t get in. I was then rapped as my son and partner looked on . In my dream I am telling my self to wake up . One of the girls shot my partner through the door thwn brought him in side and just as the man grabbed my son I woke crying and shaking. Went to check my son and phoned my partner .

  3. I dreamed that I was in the backseat of a car that Chris Brown was driving. He was pulled over by police I pulled out a gun but didn’t know the police were already by his window and saw the gun. The officer snatched the door open pulled him out of the car, pulled out a huge erect penis and violently raped him. I then politely handed the officer my gun when asked…

  4. last night I dram that me and (I think my older brother) were in this apartment (2nd floor ),I don’t remember exactly what we were doing but I herd this weird scream I went to the window and saw this guy causing it(the apartment has front and back door- noise coming from back part-)when I moved the curtain enough to see him he spotted me (like I was the one he was looking for) I got scared and went back to where I was before a few minutes later I felt somehow insecure and locked myself in a pretty big closet; then I remembered I didn’t lock the door to the room but I was to scared to go out again (I have no idea where my brother was at the moment). I had my hands in my ears so I wouldn’t hear the person outback but a few minutes ago he(looked like a total phsycopath) pretty much barged in to the closet pined me to the floor and started unbuckling his belt (reflecting upon it now I have no idea why I didn’t run at the moment)the weirdest thing is that I was wearing a skirt or dress (I don’t ever use one-only special occasions-but I was just at home) if I try really hard to remember I think it was my 8th grade graduation dress (I only think this because of the skirt color ) and then suddenly the person who was with me at the house (brother I think) had a kitchen knife and stated the guy three times (1 back 2 in abdominal I believe) I ran to the phone and tried to call the police but it took very long for them to answer then I realized I dialed the wrong number, so I hung up and called the police it still took a while but they answered and said they were too busy to come… I was horrified ;I went back to the closet room and find the attacker on the floor. I have no idea what happened next but the next thing I knew we were on the first floor with my parents. Talking to this guy who works in the police department I explained everything to him then he asked why I hadn’t called the police and I explained; I think after this we went back to the apartment and I went to go check on the attacker and relived everything with the dead body (no idea why I did that I think trying to remeber) then when I was on the floor he suddenly woke up and I had no choice but to stab him again with the kitchen knife & so I did and ran out the weirdest part is that when I stabed him from behind I saw my little sister being the one stave I didn’t stop though (I don’t remember anything else except I woke up to go to the restroom and had another dream about running away from someone who wanted to rape me) then I think I woke up again because my mom was going to wok and had another dream involving my friends and acquaintances where we were in some kind of park or fedtival ( weirdest part is I got myself a boyfriend that day -never would have thought of that-but it was one of my friends ex) I only remember one of my other friends asked me something and I responded like I would in real life( I said I would punch or slap him if he did whatever my friend said) it’s weird that I was pretty much hugging him while we were walking ’cause I would never think I would do that ( I was hugging from behind around the neck-not choking him-) its also weirs that he didn’t say anything when I said I’d punch or slap him but my friend (his ex) told me that was so like me. I don’t get any of this please help.

  5. So I had a dream I was walking to the store, seen four guys sitting in a car so I turned around to go back home they followed me, I tried using my phone to call my closest friend coco they started damanding they rape me or get money from me I didn’t want to do either….. Than they let me go I went back to the church we were at and told coco what had happened and then I woke up crying….. What am I having this dream?

  6. I had a dream about getting raped by one guy from my school band. My best friend and i had a sleepover at a random hotel and while my friend was asleep he came in and raped me. The worst part for me is that i liked it. I woke up confused since i know this guy in person and although he can be really mean to others he’s a cool guy. I wonder what that means and i reeeaally hope i don’t have any secret desires for him.

  7. I had a dream that I was raped. I was calling my boyfriend, my mom and my aunt. No one saved me. The same guy came after me again this time my boyfriend was there, my boyfriend pulled a knife and was slashing him. I took the knife and pushed it in his heart.

  8. I had a dream that i got raped but I don’t know where. my aunt was at home when the guy came again but she didn’t try to help me and he broke in and I ran for the knife I keep in my room n he came tackling me. The face of the person in the dream is someone I know and is genuinely creeped out by bcas he looks n seems like a rapist to me 🙁

  9. I dreamt i was raped by some one i let stay where i lived ( i dont really know the person) , snd after that he wouldn’t let me leave, he was guna do it again but i was able to go outside and i told my ex, a bit later on my ex killed him.. It was kinda wired if anyone knows what that meens pls share

    1. Checking at your life spiritual, in seems nothing is moving according to your desire. Your finances, relationship,carrier wise, everything is a mess. This is a spiritual husband attacking you and messing around your life, you need to contact a Christian Pastor who can do deliverence to pray for you and deliver from that spirit. Then you will see things will change in your life.

  10. I dreamt that I was being raped by an old man. I fought him off with everything I had but it still wasn’t enough. When I told my fiancé about it, he did nothing! Passed it off as if it were something as small as a bug bite. What does that mean?

  11. I’m male, about 26 years of age. In my dream I’m in somewhat a market place that looks like a middle eastern/India-ish. I saw a tiger approaching me and it is purring while coming towards me. I became scared when it got close because it bit my left leg a bit, just as how dogs play with their owners, then it started licking my crotch and tried to mount me. A sort of American/caucasian animal trainer arrived and managed to get the tiger to go away. I thought it was finished but a mangled/deformed reptile or alligator or large lizard and a big white coat wolf did try to mount me and I was saved by the same trainer. After leaving the area, I was walking away from the market and counted my money but a thug tried to rob me, I stole his knife and tried to run away. As I ran away I looked back and see that he pulled 2 knives that were previously impaled on him and tried to throw them to me while he is calling for reinforcements. Just when I arrive on a dead end, I was surrounded by those gang members and I fought using the knives and a very sharp and large rake.

    This dream sequence sounds crazy but I need to know what this means.

  12. I’m 20 and have almost been raped before but that was when I was 11 and he was a close friend. I have a best friend who is also my ex, and both of us have a close friend that we share. The friend that we share messages me quite often and he recently asked for nudes. Anyways, I had two dreams now. The first one is that I’m in my best friends car and I look up at him but its our close friend and he’s smiling at me.
    In the second dream I had, all of us were going out to dinner, and when our close friend arrived at the house, he locked up my best friend in his room. He brought a friend and he was running naked through the house. He locked up my door, and lifted my skirt, pinned me down and was choking me and forced himself on me. And I was repeatedly saying his name no stop please don’t. But he continued til he came in me. I was forced into the bathroom to clean myself up and he used me again, but this time, I let him and was falling in love w him during the dream. I feel so confused….I woke up from there

  13. First I’m a woman. The past month I’ve had 2 dreams where I am the one raping someone else. The first dream I was in my childhood room and there was a girl my age (26) in my room. She was a police officer and I’d done something to break the law. Unlike most other dreams Ive had I got a really good look at her face and she didn’t look like anyone I knew nor did she remind me of anyone. She was yelling and I knew I would be arrested and sent to jail soon. I grabbed her and started raping her. I never saw my penis, I just knew I had one from the way I was thrusting. I ripped her clothes off and stuffed part of the shirt in her mouth so nobody would hear her scream. She fought hard but I was too strong. I remember feeling a lot of violent feelings towards her like I enjoyed hurting her. I could hear people on the other side of the door, I was mildly worried they might come in but it wasn’t a big concern.

    The second dream I was in a living room I’ve never been in before. I was there to visit with a friend, we had snacks with her mom then went upstairs to her bedroom. My husband was already in her room and we gang raped her. We forced her to her knees and he made her perform oral sex while I rubbed my penis around her butt but didn’t penetrate. This time I actually saw my penis but I didn’t have any specific feelings about it, I wasn’t shocked that I had one nor was I proud of it.

    Neither dream ended with an orgasm, the main goal seemed to me to be about power of some sort. It’d be great if someone could figure out more specific things about what’s going on. I’ve never had a dream where I’m the rapist before now.

  14. I’m 17 and last night I had a dream that I was at my friend Derrick’s house (he’s my bestfriend) and my ex-boyfriend Tyler was over there hanging out with Derrick because they are bestfriends. I didn’t want to hang around Tyler because he’s a horrible human being who would force me to do sexual things with him while we were dating(that really happened), so I was hanging out in Derrick’s room by myself and my friend Jack came in and me and Jack started cuddling like we usually do(we’re just close like that, we don’t like eachother in a romantic way) but Jack started touching me below the belt area and I got upset because I didn’t want him to. He didn’t know why I was upset, he didn’t think he was doing anything wrong until I gave him a note telling him that I didn’t want him to touch me like that and then he stopped and I started crying and he tried to comfort me but I just wanted to be away from him then I woke up.

  15. Ok so im 16 and i have a boyfriend that i love dearly but last night i had a dream i was at his house and i was taking a shower when a guy busted in and raped me right there and left i didnt know they guy but afterwards i was able to crawl to my boyfriend where he hugged me and cuddled me telling me it was going to be ok. Wtf does this mean??? Im so confused.

  16. I had a dream that I was at my house in my garage and me and my daughter decided to go for a walk… this guy grabs us and takes us to his place… (he has a boston accent) He says things to me like im his forever he loves me and to not run away ever again… I don’t understand it because ive never met him before…All I keep thinking about is my daughter and a cell phone I have but cant find in the minutes he walks out of the room… this continues for a day or so… Finally I grab my daughter and run for my life… I get away. Two days later im in hiding in my own house me and my boyfriend go to the gas station and there is a girl somehow she gets my boyfriend to let her drive us somewhere… I get confused and I look at him and he says its okay to go on. The girl begins to talk about taking me back where I belong and I panic bash her over the head open the car door and push her out… I go home and these three little kids show up and give my boyfriend a phone and to call the number in it… he does and the man is saying give him back whats his and my boyfriend can hear an echo on the phone and screams for him to get out of his house, then the man walks down the stairs laughing and grabing for me and I WAKE Up…. The dream is weird I just want to know what it means because I rarely remember my dreams

    1. Judging from what you have said it seems like someone is out to get you or something and you need to be careful. So at the start your boyfriend is tricked by a women. Then you realise she is bad news and kick her out. Then it seems like your boyfriend could be blackmailed through that last phone call or something, realises you are in danger but it is too late. Just be careful with who you are friends with. Bad omen I think or something

  17. I have had 3 dreams now within the last 6 months about my ex boyfriend rapeing me. I have a new boyfriend now but I still keep having these dreams about my ex. This last dream pretty much went like this.. we woke up in this bed with 2 other gay guys and he started to rape me. I was thinking that he wasn’t going to get away with it this time but the 2 guys didn’t do anything for me. All they were doing was making out. I kept on trying to scream and get away but I couldn’t, so at one point my ex got so mad cuz I was trying to get away, he picked me up and put my vagina on one of the gay guys faces and kept on shoving me into his mouth. I eventually woke up but I don’t know why I keep having these vivid dreams. Can someone interpretate this for me?

  18. I had a dream where I was tied down and raped by myself… Well, the male version of me… I was saying really awful things and the male me seemed like he enjoyed himself and like he punishing me for something? I wasn’t fighting back, either… I ddn’t want it, but I wasn’t preventing it. What does it mean?

  19. Hi my boyfriend had a dream that I got raped, and I now who raped me but didnt want to say who it was. Does anyone now what this means because it kindof scared me? Thank you

  20. I had a dream in which my boyfriend tried to rape me and ended up breaking my leg, and my mom was sitting there watching and told me I had to learn to defend myself. Then everyone in my house was acting like it wasn’t a big deal and wouldn’t take me to the hospital to help my broken leg. I’ve had a couple of these dreams about my boyfriend and other people. Could it be related to me having negative sexual experiences at a young age and not telling my parents about it?

  21. I keep having this dream of this older guy I like and he is raping me, it is weird because my friends think he like me and he is just afraid to tell me. I looked on this other website and it said if this dream keeps happening it means the man has really strong feelings for you but he is afraid to tell you!! Should I trust the other website??

  22. Last night I dreamed that my husband was raping me repeatedly. The weirdest, most disturbing part was that his penis was really tiny and had a mouth with teeth on the end. He kept forcing intercourse on me even though it bit me painfully every time. I should mention that our relationship is in a really bad place right now, and I plan to leave him, but he has never physically harmed me in any way. If I hadn’t already planned to leave, this dream would definitely make me consider it!

  23. I had a dream lay night where I watched this girl being dragged by her tied arms in a green walled room and the walls were green tiles like a giant shower and a man, I didn’t recognize him, walked in and threw the girl against the wall and raped her. All I remember was the girl screaming ‘No! Please don’t! Please don’t hurt me! Owwww! Help!!’ and the girl was crying really hard and the man kept raping her … My sister told me that I kept saying ‘Nick,Nick,Nick,Nick Chamberlain…’ (my exes name)

  24. My fiance told me that he had a dream where he had a gun and raped me repeatedly. He said that he raped me vaginally, anally, and orally and ejaculated all over me. He also said that I was crying the whole time and the more I cried, the worse the rape got. When he was done, he put the gun to my head, pulled the trigger and water shot out. What does this mean? Should I be concerned?

    1. It really sounds like your fiancée is messing with you (albeit in a creepy way). Why would he tell you something like that?

  25. Lately Ive been having repetitive dreams about me being raped. The funny thing is , im currently in a relationship with someone that i feel totally comfortable with and I love him a lot. The people who are raping me in my dreams are always people i dont know in real life. It happens in different scenarios all the time. Could you help me figure it out ?