Dreaming of a bonnet means your are sheltered and naive. You have not even begun to explore the relationships and possibilities available to you. In relationships, you always took what you heard or read as gospel, and avoided thinking for yourself. Stop everything and start opening up because it is the only way to leave your sheltered old self.
The ways of the world may be complicated, but your cup should always be half-full allowing you to fill it up whenever you wish.