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Dreaming of a boyfriend cheating means you are finding signs to lose trust in him. Are you communicating less and less? Do you find him doing activities that are outside the normal routine? Some times, it is you changing, and the other party has to change and go their separate ways. In the waking hours, confront him and see if things can be fixed. Otherwise, make the hard decision and move on.
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My boyfriend and i have been together for about a month, so it’s pretty new. In my dream, he told me that he had to be honest with me, and that the whole time we’ve been together he’s been sleeping with a girl called Sid who works at a surf shop (my boyfriend is a surfie). I didn’t know what to say to him but i was so hurt and he told me he was sorry for it happening, she meant nothing to him and that he was in love with me. I woke up from the dream crying and felt physically ill, it seriously scared me and i felt really hurt by it. I text him about it as soon as it happened and he promised me he’d never ever ever cheat on me, and I believe him.
Please interpret this for me, it’d be much appreciated.
Having dreams about your significant other cheating can also mean that you have a deeply-rooted trust issue. You may have had trust issues in the past, feelings of abandonment might be stemming from past relationships.
Don’t stress about your boyfriend cheating on you now; it was good you talked to him about it, but just know that your dream is not a premonition or a precursor to future events; it is simply a root of your own insecurities. I’d go to counseling and talk about why your may be feeling so insecure? It really helps me:) Good luck.
i had a dream that my boyfriend slept with this woman who is a customer at my job??? Can someone tell me what that is about PLEASE??? Plus i can’t stand this woman at all.
“Can someone tell me what that is about PLEASE???” Are you kidding me?! All of you are crazy!!!! It’s nothing more than your own insecurities getting the better of you in your subconscious mind. It’s not REAL!!! It’s just YOUR hang up. So, grow the up and get over it!
maybe u do think this is crazy, but it cant just be coincidence that since my boyfriend has started going to his pals house, non stop?, ive started having more and more nightmares about the girls he talks to. we’ve been together for 2 years, and im afraid to say that he has changed, not me. and he has met up with girls when he’s with his pals, flirted with them…and then tried to hide the fact he even saw them…when i know that he has. so yes, this is suspicious and yes, my dreams get worse. i cant leave him, i just want the old him back.
The dreams ARE nothing but our insecurities. I just woke up from a “cheating dream” and I looked up the meaning and symbols on there and it just proved that we are insecure about the relationship, things changed in our relationship that we feel aren’t right. I know for sure my boyfriend isn’t cheating he just works a lot and since we don’t have much time to talk I feel bad about it and my dreams point out he’s cheating, meaning that what I would think, worse case scenario. When in reality it’s just me not use to his new changes.
i dream that my boyfriend and my best friend are cheating behind my back- me and my boyfriend are having troubles and my best friend is georgous so i know its just insecure but i cant stop them…. i wake up hating them both…………
i had pretty much the same dream except he was cheating with my best friend and other girls from school. i still dont know what to take from this, but tell him about your dream and how upset it made you, and be reasured that he loves you. that helped me a little.
I have been having the same dream as well. I was in my room and walked to the livingroom and same them both having sex on the couch. I was completly shocked and hurt. When I couldn’t look at neither of them the same way as the day went by. I can’t get the dream out of my head, this really bothers me. I would really help if someone can tell me why am I having these dreams. This is not the first time I have a dream of both of them having sex/kissing.
I feel the exact same way. I live with my boyfriend and my best friend and I keep having these dreams where I catch them together. I give him another chance to stay away from her, but he always choses to go back to her. Waking up, I can’t get away from either of them. And when I try to explain what happened in my dream and how hurt it made me feel, they both tell me it would never happen, but I keep having the dreams. I think I know why it happens, becuz I have issues with trusting people, but I don’t know what to do about it. I just want the dreams, and how they make me feel when I wake up, to go away.
my boyfriend wouldn’t reassure me, he would call me silly and tell me to stop being obsessed, ive told him before..
I feel that sometimes! My nest friend & my boyfriend gets along so well! That’s great but at times I Thu.k they get along a .little ‘too well!’ I asked them both if they be flirtting. My boy friend said no & my nest friend said yes! WTF!
My “best friend” happens to be my boyfriends best friend too and it seems like he’s always WAY more excited to see her and to hang around her than me. And in my dream, we were all in one room and he kissed her right in front of me. It broke my heart because sometimes I feel like I come second place and I can’t talk to her about it because she would probably just tell him everything….So I kinda have no best friend….
That’s not good. You should come first for the both of them and you should be able to tell your best friend everything and they shouldn’t say something or to be honest that’s not a best friend and to be truthful is he wants to hang out with her more then you then he probably does want to be with her more then you as well if it’s like that then you should leave both of them and have a great single party life !!
You should ask your girlfriend if she wants a three-way. See what her reaction is and look for anything that doesn’t look like a genuine rejection. (watch for a split-second smile, or other clues that may indicate if she does in fact desire your man). For your boyfriend do the opposite. Start up a conversation about how your girlfriend doesn’t like him . . . even despises something about him and watch if he makes any little smiles while you tell him. If he shows a smirk when he hears her disgust it may indicate he knows something different.
This is good advice.
MJ, l had a same dream as well. Take Garson’s advice it works. Well I did not suspect anything and my interpretation was that I needed to learn to trust him. But it turned out that I was wrong. Two days later I confronted him about it again and he lied but was so lucky because just a few minutes later the lady called. To my surprise, he was cheating on me all this time. All i can say is pray about it and ask for revelation.
All you’ll succeed in doing is planting a seed in your girlfriends head and get her to think about your man sexually. As for your man, telling him she hates him is dumb. It’s a mans natural instinct to get pretty girls to like them. If you tell him she hates him, he’s going to go out of his way to impress her and win her favor. So, now you’ve got her wanting him and him wanting to impress her all because of YOU! Bad advice! Use your head!
Wow that idea is pretty genius… you must work with many relationship issues.
Okay, so i had this dream that my very faithful boyfriend, My best friend, and i went on a camping trip together. In my dream i fell asleep, then woke up and those two were rolling around and making out. This dream left me 100% scarred and i don’t know how to handle it! Someone help me interpret this please!
I’ve had similar situations where my boyfriend tells me his cheating or just blerts out that he wants someone else.
This is because we are insecure, and don’t trust them like we used too. It’s best to talk to them, and try not to let your dreams fuel your insecurity, because it can create a void between the both of you that probably was never mention to be there. You make your own reality, so talk to him and if you truely feel he really is cheatig with hard evidence then end the relationship.
i had this dream that my boyfriend of over a year who is entering the navy is cheating on me. like with everygirl i talk to including my best friends. i broke up with him in the dream and woke up thinking we were done. it was horrific. what do i take from this??
hey my fiance is in the navy it will all work out in the end its hard to know that they deploy for long periods of time and that they have the chances but if he truly loves u he wont and the greaest part about being a navy wife is when u have a family like me and him its a lil backwords lol kid first then marriage but its so worth it and especially when they call u jsut to say they love u its great trust in him
Same here. My fiance is in the marines and is in the school and a couple of nights ago i had a dream he brought me there and i was like where is the girl who was flirting with you(real life) and he said over there and i started togo over to her he tried to stop me. I went up to her said did she know him and she said yea they go out. I said you swear etc. So i broke uo with him. Idk if its me hating that he is so far away and idk what he is doing. Then, a few hours ago i had another dream. He was staying with me and my mom and he was upset that he couldnt fo through my phone. So he tried to make himself throw up in our bathroom and i walked in there mad because it was making my mom uncomfortable and we started physically fighting(he is not of type of guy to abuse woman he is real sweet and respects me his mother and the woman on his familyside and ive witnessed it; he is totally against cheating he rather tell me first and totally against abuse. Why did i have these dreams?????;
Hello all. I just wanted to say… I had a dream that I walked in my room and my husband was cheating on me with a fat blonde chick. I was mad grabbing her and it felt as though I couldn’t even hit her like I was really weak for some reason. well about two weeks ago my husband confessed that he did Cheat on me with a fat blonde girl but I had this dream like 3 months ago and I told him and he laughed, he didn’t even confess then. hmmm so It is like my dream was trying to give me hints. it was sooooo wierd!
i keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend. me and him have been together for 9 months and i just started having these dreams. i keep comparing myself to her. because they are both in high school and go to the same school, she is blond, and actor, and a modeler….. i dont know what to do. someone please tell me what it means!!!
Ughhhh!!! I keep having the same dream my boyfriend and his x flirting and kissing…. now, I can’t help it but I’m always comparing myself to her ….it really sux
I been having dreams of my boyfriend making love to his ex. this went on 4 5 years.Turns out I found out he’d been lying to me. He told me she was just a human being, like a neighbor. He was taking her out to wedding invitations, dinners, and spending quality time together quite often. They both don’t work, they’d spend the whole day together watching movies etc.. to top things off he’d compare me to her. saying things like, she has friends shes slim, and good looking.
her name is carla and because of her I lost my job, as well as a lot of money. to top things off her boyfriend Benoit accepts this. I am the idiot supposedly. she beat me last year out of jealousy, all while my boyfriend watched. my boyfriend, benoit and carla all had turns assaulting me. All for her and his lies.
Ive been having dreams about my boyfriend of over 3 years cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. The dreams are very stressful and I always wake up crying, hurt and really upset. The reason for the dreams is definetly because of insecurities because I am always comparing myself to her. I am a heavier woman and she is tall and thin. He always tells me he loves me more than he ever loved her and he would never even go back with her(even of me and him broke up). I do believe him and he would never cheat on me or leave me for another woman. Unforchunately l, insecurities get the best of us! Its horrible!
i had a dream this morning that my boyfriend of 4 years was talking to another girl named mary and it had be going on for months and he decided to tell me because he wanted us to be over and wanted to be with her because he just didn’t want to deal with all the drama of having children(yes it different sH*t everyday) we have 4 kids and they would have none. he even gave me her phone number 444-5424. but i couldn’t dial it and then he took off in a black car with tinted windows. he has in awake life had been talking with other girls and i did confront him and he denies he did anything bad. i usually find out about them within a week or so. is this just a fear i have of losing him or is it a combination of both reality and my worst fears.
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