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People come and go in your life. Some may stay stationary, while others may fade away and become a distant memory. No matter what, it can not be denied that they didn’t have some sort of influence in our lives. We may think back to them or they may even appear in our dreams. To dream about a former lover, you may feel a lack of closure for the love story between the both of you. There may be some unresolved issues pertaining to your past relationship that you wish to find the answers to. Without answers, you feel restless and not at ease.
Dreaming about a former love may indicate that you are currently in a situation or relationship just like the past. You yearn to change certain aspects of your current relationship and not have it lead to the same outcome as the previous. On the other hand, it may symbolize you feel malcontent and disheartened by your current existing relationship.
To see a former lover in your dream may also represent you missing certain aspects of that person or the relationship with them as a whole. You may feel unrequited feelings towards your former lover whom may have moved on. Although he or she has moved on, you still yearn for them and wish to start over or give the relationship a second chance.
Therefore, it’s best to first sort out your feelings and see what you really want before making a move.
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what does it mean if a ex-lover keeps recurring in my dreams every night? and whats it mean if she and her new boyfriend are broken up for me?
Your ex lover means a lot to you, and you continue to cherish many of the memories you shared together.
When they break up in the dream is your inner most desires coming out, but it does not necessarily mean it is reality. The best option is to move on and start giving new relationships a chance.
what does it mean for my ex to keep reappearing in my dreams. he was my first love.
Your ex will always be a part of you as that is a normal because you shared with them a part of your life. Try taking up new activities, and establish new relationships that will eventually replace those memories of your first love.
My ex broke up with me about 2 to 3 years ago. I haven’t thought about him for a long time, until today. Last night I had constant reoccuring dreams about him. I didn’t sleep well. I woke up at least 5 or 6 times during the night. I never give dreams much thought, but for every dream to be about him… I am just very confused. Is there any meaning to these kind of dreams?
The human mind acts in very random ways. Perhaps you did something or saw something that triggered these memories to resurface in your dreams. It is perfectly normal, because we cannot control our dreams even if we wanted to.
Treat the dreams about your ex as you living in an alternate reality which does not necessarily conflict with your waking life.
My ex cheated on me and we tried to work it. Eventually things ended even though he says he still loves me and feelings for me, he got another girlfriend almost immediately. I have accepted that it over and dealt with the fact he has someone..it has not been an easy process. Now lately I dream of him constantly, the dream seem to mock my pain and I am reminded in each dream how things didnt work and that he has a girlfriend. Why this mental torture? I’m fully aware he’s moved on. Sometimes in the dreams we are trying to kiss or touch but something always gets in the way. I’m so mad at myself for not being able to get him out of my head!
i keep having a dream about my first love…the father of my first child who i loved unconditionally and in my dream i am confessing my true feelings for him…telling him how much i love him and in some cases kissing him…but i am happily married now and have been going on 5 years so i wanna know whats really going on
The man that I fell in love with was getting in to trouble and eventually got in enough trouble to where he was put into jail and deported back to Mexico.. I have not seen him in over a year nor talked to him in over a year… But I keep having reaccuring dreams everynight. He never was able to say goodbye. And I’m utterly confused in what to do or what to think… I had a dream that he had came back and he found me.. i was happy in my dream and he told me that he love’d me and he was sorry and didn’t want it to happen that way.. Although this is what I desire most, seeing it in my sleep made things much worse for getting over this man….
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