Former Lover in Dreams

People come and go in your life. Some may stay stationary, while others may fade away and become a distant memory. No matter what, it can not be denied that they didn’t have some sort of influence in our lives. We may think back to them or they may even appear in our dreams. To dream about a former lover, you may feel a lack of closure for the love story between the both of you. There may be some unresolved issues pertaining to your past relationship that you wish to find the answers to. Without answers, you feel restless and not at ease.

Dreaming about a former love may indicate that you are currently in a situation or relationship just like the past. You yearn to change certain aspects of your current relationship and not have it lead to the same outcome as the previous. On the other hand, it may symbolize you feel malcontent and disheartened by your current existing relationship.

To see a former lover in your dream may also represent you missing certain aspects of that person or the relationship with them as a whole. You may feel unrequited feelings towards your former lover whom may have moved on. Although he or she has moved on, you still yearn for them and wish to start over or give the relationship a second chance.

Therefore, it’s best to first sort out your feelings and see what you really want before making a move.

113 thoughts on “Former Lover in Dreams”

  1. My former lover is married .
    I had a dream that I became friends with his wife.
    I brought her some used clothes , we met at the gym were I gave the used clothes to her.
    Her husband , my ex lover came out of the bathroom I said hello,
    then continued to talk to the wife .
    Then woke up.
    I remember one time he said his wife and I would never be friends.
    Lately I have been thinking of telling his wife she is married to a cheater.

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  2. I fell asleep in my chair and woke up dreaming about my ex husband and I together and we were inseperable. We wouldn’t leave eachothers side. I woke up and went upstairs and got in bed and 4 hours later I woke up from a dream of us telling eachother how much we missed one another and he said he had horrible nightmares since we split up 20 years ago. And we were having our own wedding the next day in my dream. I am so confused about this myself. We have been divorced for 20 years and I have never dreamt of him till now. What does this symbolize for me.

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  3. i always dream about my ex..which makes me miss him even more every morning…its been 5 months and i kid you not, he is in my dreams every night…we dated for 10 months…

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  4. I have the same dreams a couple times weekly for over 30 years, I dream of a past love. After four years together he broke it off when I got pregnant. He tried to make up with me, but I would not have it. My sister told him I was pregnant only minutes after I told her. In hindsight, I think they slept together. I dream that one of us, either he or I try to reach eachother, because we have something so important to say, but in the dream family members keeps it from happening.

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  6. Today in the morning I dreamt of the mother and her twin sister (the twin sister doesn’t doesn’t exist in reality ) of my ex boyfriend talking with each other about my ex boyfriend in front of me. His mother was always ok with me but in the dream while her sister was talking to her, she was looking at me as if she was belittling me with her eye expression. (Me and my exboyfriend separated it got 5 months. Because he thought that i cheated on him with a fiancee who doesn’t exist infact. he was my first love. was serious about him. love him with a real heart. but he blamed me for cheating. And dishonored m the worst way possible on skype that i was unaware of being a in a group chat. break my in infinite pieces. later i came to know he did this with other girls and was just playing around. At time i also think that it can’t be true. But am ashamed and don’t believe that i still love him and to say that i can’t tell to people that i still love him but i can’t believe what he did and what he has done to me).

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  7. Last night I dreamt of an ex from high school, one of the only significant exes I haven’t kept in touch with (he dropped out of touch). We haven’t had contact in over 20 years. I dreamt that he was a successful restauranteur now and that I got to know about his life in the present day, yet I was also unsure how to present our reconnection to my current love. I should mention that I’ve long wished to have maintained a friendship with this ex, but I suspect he wouldn’t be open to it, as he has not responded to previous attempts to contact him.

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  8. Hi I am married for 4 years now and I have a daughter who is 3 years old. I was in deep love with a girl 10 years back when I was in college. We were happy for 2 years and suddenly the girl started avoiding me for no reason and I went through some serious depression . I cut my wrist and was in Hospital and went through a lost of mental tension because of which I flunked in my exams and was deeply hurt and once she called me after college days and said that her parents are looking for a marriage alliance and asked me not to follow her anymore. The girl said we could be friends. I was heart broken and agreed for her friendship but then because I got a Job in a different location I met her only twice after this incident and the girl spoke well to me as she speaks to a friend. 1 year later I got an information that the girl got married a to her college mate. I was further depressed and somehow came out of the issue with a lot of difficulty.In the dream the girl was asking me to take my hand of my wife’s shoulders and also the same dream followed where I was caught by a Saturn and I was helped by a good person the girl tells me not to worry and I will be saved. After all these years she came in my dream 1 month ago and from that day onwards I am again feeling that I should meet her. I sent her message in face book for which I didn’t get a reply. I am again depressed and feeling sad for what happened in my life 10 years ago. Can you please give me a solution and the reason why I saw her in dream after so many years

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  9. The reason I followed behind this white hair woman was because I asked her why and she didn’t answer and I wanted an answer as to why I should leave him alone.

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  10. Hi I have two kids with a guy I love dearly but we are not together now because he didn’t want my last baby and I decided I am not doing an abortion. I dream of him constantly that he is bonding with my baby but I know that could be in my subconscious thought. Recently I dreamt of a old woman with white hair told me to leave him alone, then walked up some steps into another room. I followed behind and she disappear. There was one other young woman in the room who I asked if she saw the woman, and she said no. What does this mean?

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  11. Hi I’m married but I sometimes not often, dream about my ex that he wants to meet me wants to talk to me and I’m just ignoring him and thinking about my husband and looking for him. Whenever I dream about him it’s always him making efforts to talk to me to be around me. Last night when I dreamt he was as usual following me and I wanted him to notice that I’m pregnant with my hubby and so happy in my life, but some where in the dream I kinda like the attention he giving. What does this mean. Reply asap

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  12. So its a long story I suppose some kind of repercussion. My current boyfriend and I had been through so much that I don’t even know how to begin. Let’s start with my ex, when I was still with my ex bf for a year plus, I was seeing my current boyfriend who I’ve dated for a year in high school. He came back to me after so many years, we shared a lot about the past and the misunderstanding we have in between us. Without a second thought, I throw myself into this relationship with him and I didn’t really break up with my ex bf. So this went on for 10 months till the whole thing was uncovered. My current boyfriend loves me a lot, he forgive me and still wants me back. But then lately, he have been dreaming a lot of those unpleasant thing in relationship. For one example was, he dreamt that one of his ex gf suddenly appear out of nowhere and claiming she still loves him and still wants to be with him. Then in his dream, I was there and I saw everything with him and that girl. I ran away and he struggled to free himself from his ex gf to chase after me. But I told him that I am leaving him, so I took a cab and left. We are in good terms now and things are so far going good. But why is the constant relationship nightmares haunting him? what does it mean?

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  13. I had a dream with my first baby father, we were in a long relationship but since we broke up we have both found other partners and are married. my dream was so weird he just wanted to have sex with me like where ever we were at.. he was so clingy, emotional and attentive in the dream. he would not speak when I asked him questions but just want sex… this dream freaks me out because I do not feel like that towards him, reason why we are not together.. please help

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  14. Its been 3 years since we broke up and I’ve thought about her everyday since. I had a dream where were walking through a valley in the mountains. I asked her what do I have to do for us to be together again and she replied I want you to go around the world for me. The dream didn’t show me doing it but I left taking giant leaps and returned carrying huge chains and her no where to be found.

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  15. Had a dream that my former husbands mistress and my one time friend (same woman) said sorry and tried to make things right with me. My mother in law was there and she said, “I’m glad you two are not trying to kill eachother.” The mistress told me that she and my mother in law get along gr8. She asked why I don’t get along with her and I said because of you. The mistress and I mended fences and for some strange reason I went looking thru her underwear and thought of taking some. After that my ex husband came to me and said hes sorry and he wants to fix things with us. Then my brother in law whom I dislike embraced me. The same night my daughter had a dream that me and my husband got back together and everything was gr8. But she got a package in the mail and we told her not to open it. She openned it and when she did a snake bit her and she nearly died. What do these dreams mean and is the fact that we had them the same night important at all??

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  16. It has been 10 years ago my former love appear in my dream, its like i’m waiting him outside the building and he told me to wait.This former love we have no closure, we did not talk till I got marriage.

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  17. I have had dreams of my ex every night, to everyother night, to once a week and not in that order for over 8 years. I’ve been married to my husband for five and have been with him for the whole 8 years that I have been dreaming of my ex. Most dreams include both of them but they all center around me and my ex trying to find a way to be together although we have very different lives now. I havent spoken to or seen this guy in 8 years as well. Why is he always there in my dreams and why does it feel so good to see him and be with him. This guy was a horrible boyfriend and my husband is unbelievably the most wonderful and loving man that I know.

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  18. I’m in a current relationship but last night I had a dream of this person who I once talked to 5 years ago. We liked each other and had major feelings for each other. It didn’t really with work out so we ended up being friends. Since then, he has made a huge impact on my life as I did on his. We stopped talking for 4 years then we started talking again as friends last year. It seems like he hasn’t left my heart and vice versa. He came into my dream last night. I found out that he got a girlfriend. I was really surprised that he finally has a girlfriend. What does my dream mean??

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  19. A former lover and boyfriend had a dream that I was wearing a white wedding dress, there was a groom, and he was on an iceberg with us. He said that I pushed him away and that he headbutted my chest and I fell into the water, but stayed in the water and didnt get out. Should I be concerned, Please help interpret this dream?

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  20. a childhood crush who passed away 8 yrs ago have always been in my dreams each. and there’s a story in my dream. what does this mean?

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  21. My husband and I have been together for almost five years. Our son is three. Last night, out of nowhere it seems, I had a dream that included the two of us and an ex-boyfriend from my last year of high school, but he was my first long term relationship. In the dream my husband and I are entering our apartment and I get this sense of my ex’s presence. I became aware that he lived in the place adjacent to ours. I look around the stairs until I do see him, and we greet each other with smiles and hellos. I look at my husband in a way that I am either reassuring him or that I’m looking for approval that I can be friendly with my ex. When I turn from my husband, my concern for him disappears and I am so happy to see this other person. We embrace and I kiss him even though I don’t know if I should. I felt so good, not like lust, but like joy. And he seemed happy too. Before parting I asked him if I could kiss him again, he seemed a bit worried about my behavior, so the second kiss was not as strong, and then he told me that maybe he shouldn’t be here if he was going to get in between me and my husband. I didn’t even think of that and was surprised by his response. The thing is I haven’t thought about this person in all the time since. When I ended the relationship I was frantic about just cutting it off. I didn’t want to be friends. He wasn’t horrible either, not perfect, sort of immature, but not mean. I just wanted to be let go. The other day I came across his picture on facebook and then I have this dream. It is so strange to me and it seems somehow meaningful.

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  22. i recently broke up with my GF about a month ago and i’ve been having strange dreams and nightmares, and am having hard time at the moment. today what i dreamed about was that, i was talking with my ex’s mom and i asked her do you think she wants me, but she told me that my girlfriend loved me but she believes she wont accept me back,

    what does that mean am really worried, i want to get back to this girl but i dont think its going to happen

    and also (few days ago i had dream about my crush from 2 years ago)

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  23. My first love and I still communicate, 27 years later. Althought I still have a soft spot for him, I realize that he would never have made me happy – due to him emotionally abusive ways. We both have moved on, but none of us seem to get rid of the emotional bond we share. I think of him daily. He claims to think of me daily. It is already tremendously difficult to put such a connection out of mind. To make thing worst, is that I have now dreamt about him twice in only 3 days. THIS is tremendously upsetting. In the first dream we were both seated on the back of a huge dragon, as I steered the dragon out of dirty water. In the second his little boy’s babay kangaroo was hopping all over the show, with my first love busy in the background – in the dream we both avoided giving attention to each other as we do not want to alarm our loved ones. In real life, we’ve only seen each other once in 27 years, and made love – and it was nothing special. I’m glad I didn’t marry him, but struggle to get rid of the emotional bond. For my dreams now also to contain hin really is not desired. Please advice?

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  24. I have been dreaming of my ex boyfriend and his relatives for the past 3 years, they are the only dreams I have. In the most recent dream I am sitting in his parents house when he walks in the house with his current fiance, they apparently drove long distance to get there. Him and I have a flirtatious conversation about the past and getting back together, but then he proceeds to tell me that his fiance is pregnant and they are getting married next month. Two people, one of them his brother, walks into his parents house and I confirm with him that my ex is really having a baby and getting married next month, he says its “yes, isnt it crazy? But what can you do.” then the dream ends. What does it mean. Everytime I dream of him he is telling me something about something in his current life. We do not communicate so I dont know if its true.

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  25. What does my dream mean? I had a dream that I waas sleeping and then had an arm around me and I felt safe and warm and…content and I turn over in my dream and I see my ex. I woke up crying to realise I was sleeping in the spot we used to cuddle in.

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  26. My ex had a dream and informed me of it. My ex is currently in a relationship but she had a weird dream about going down to Miami, celebrating my birthday, having sex, getting married, and settling down in Miami. Do you think she may want to get back together?

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  27. In this dream I was unable to speak the entire time. Towards the end I was unable to move and was stuck in a standing position. My ex appeared and tried speaking to me but his words were slurred and he sounded as if he were mumbling. I tried to call out to him but I could not even remember his name. No matter how much I opened my mouth nothing would come out. Finally I was able to say something but I called him by my childhood crush’s name and still could not remember his name.
    I freaked out because I woke up and could still not remember his name. What could this dream be telling me?

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  28. Last night, i had a dream about my ex bf that dumped me. In the dream I saw that my family was outside with him. My family called me to go outside. When I went outside i was looking at a baby concentrating on him. .then i looked at the person holding thebaby and it was my ex..what could this mean?

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  29. What does it mean when I keep dreamiing about my ex? It’s not every night though. It’s like once or twice a week. It’s either him rejecting me while I’m trying to get back with him or him saying he misses me and we get back together. Sometimes if I would find out he’s talking to a new girl, he would come into my dreams and I would ask him questions about the new girl.

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  30. Hi, I’m new to all this but I’m 30 years old and never remember my dreams but in the past 6 months I have.

    I dated a girl 4 years ago and really liked her but nothing happened due to her just coming out of a relationship. Well, I’ve kept this ‘soft spot’ for her but have tried to move on. In the past 6 months she has been appearing in my dreams (some flirty, some sexual etc) but I have always remembered them clearly which is really strange.

    Can you please help as I’m not sure whether I’m supposed to move on or whether make a move etc…very confused.

    Please help

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  31. I had a dream last night in which I was still with my current boyfriend, but I was also getting married in two days to my ex-boyfriend (who in reality is now married in a different state). I had extreme anxiety because I knew I had to either tell my current boyfriend or call off the wedding, but I didn’t know which to do. I don’t know if this means anything?

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  32. Why do People always say MOVE ON. If you truly love someone and you two were really hitting it off you just can’t move on. This Man and I were meant to be. He told me in a dream that once things were taken care of (family, finances, and other stuff) he would be back to marry me. I love him very much, it was love at first sight. I decided to break it off after 7 months together because he would joke at me once in a while about, he was scare because things were moving too fast, but he kept leading me on. So now, I decide to break it off. I keep seeing him in dreams. I don’t want to move on…

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  33. I’ve just had a drea about my ex boyfriend. The dream was him messaging me over facebook to let me know he was about to get married to his current girlfriend. The weird thing about the dream is that he doesnt have a facebook account, I don’t live in the same state anymore, and I’m about to get married in six months. What does this mean?

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  34. after my ex girlfriend broke up w/ me, we both had the same dream that i was telling her mother that i was going to take care of her, my mother was there as well, as if i was taking her away. then we kissed. later after a year, we are still separated however, she texted me she had a dream about us having our place and i’m hugging her in bed. by the way she’s pregnant w/ her ex boyfriend. does that mean something?

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  35. I was told a week and a half ago that my husband didn’t want to be with me anymore. He is four hours away and the “reason” is because a lady from 15 years ago told him he was a POSSIBLE father to her child that is 15. She told him that he couldn’t be with me and see the child… So no DNA or anything done he chose this kid over me…..

    So the dream i had was vague at best… it was him back here and he was trying to hug me and wanted me to take him back. I was trying to tell him that i couldn’t because of how bad he hurt me… but the emotion I felt was that i wanted him back but i knew i couldn’t take him back becuase he would hurt me again. I woke up broken hearted all over again.

    Someone please help… We were married for almost 10 years… I am trying to get over him, but it is hard to love and hate somone at the same time :'(

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  36. I have been having recurring dreams about an ex fiance that I was engaged to 40 years ago!! Why??? I haven’t thought of him, nor seen him .The dreams have been happening in the last six months. I know where he lives, etc. But, I’m not in the same city or state as he is. Can someone help me to figure this one out.
    Thank you.

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  37. I had a big crush for about 9 years. A friend broke the news to me that he had found the perfect girl-not me of course. A brave n up, face him and told him I really liked him, loved him admire him. Yet I was letting go, he deserves it. He is now happily married. She is so sweet! (Almost 10 yrs go by… Since I expressed my feelings) I just had a dream. He was with his wife, yet he held my hand, he gave me high fives, we had friends around us casually talking. Then just as they where about to leave, he gave me a hug held me tight and told me it broke his heart to let me go, it broke his heart every day. Then he said “thank you for loving that much” it felt so real! In the dream I also held him tight in my arms. I didn’t want to let go of his hug. But I let let go and weeny to wash my hands, I had chocolate all over my hands. I returned and there he was talking to another friends of mine. What does it mean? It’s been so long I did know I could even have such dream. Or even feel that same feeling towards him.

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  38. I just woke up from a dream about m ex-girlfriend. It was strange because it wasn’t a past memory or from the past, it was from the future. In the dream, it was like she had amnesia or something, it wasn’t specified, but somehow she had forgotten how we had already dated and had been together for almost 2 years and had a baby girl, etc. Instead she acted like she did while we were dating, she was trying to sleep with me and showed kind, loving feelings toward me just like she did when we started dating, and in the dream her current boyfriend was telling me she has forgotten everything and the Dr.’s don’t know why. In the dream her and I hung out and did everything together and showed interest in each other, it was just like it was when we started dating, but in the future with her having amnesia and acting like this towards me, it the future twist that really gets me for some reason. In reality we barely even get along and constantly fight… This dream has me messed up now because we haven’t been together for over 2 years. I do miss this person she used to be, and wish the things that happened between us never did, then again I’m still to this day not 100% sure what really happened, or why she went from loving me so much to almost completely resenting me overnight. I dream about her now and then, but it’s the way she is now, I have never dreamed about her this way, and now I can’t sleep, I’m feeling lonely and feelings of missing this person she used to be, to me, all of a sudden. What is going on…..?

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  39. I had a dream that I saw my ex in the hallway and he said hi, then I asked why he was talking to me. My ex then said why don’t you talk to mike I see you guys are pretty close now (mike is one of his best friends and someone I talk to everyday) my ex then disappeared into a ground and mike appeared and walked with me and asked what’s wrong asy ex watches us from the crowd what does this mean?

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  40. My girlfriend was married by her parents to a rich family though we loved each other very much. After her marriage she talked to me sometimes but she was not happy she told me. We haven’t been in touch for a long time because she does nt has anything to communicate. I always see her in my dreams looking sad? What does does this means?

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  41. A few weeks ago, I had a dream where my current boyfriend was present, but not around and was becoming distant and I could not find him even if I searched and asked around for him. As this happened in my dream, a past boyfriend kept showing up more and more. I was becoming devistated due to not being able to find my boyfriend in the dream and kept rejecting my past boyfriend as he followed me more and more. What could this mean?

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  42. What does it mean when I repeatedly confuse my current boyfriend with my ex-boyfriend in my dream? For example, recently I had a dream about being in some sort of camp and we were having lunch and i see my old friend from college, and in the distance i see my current boyfriend. I then tell her that she should meet him, but when he comes in close proximity, his appearance turns into my ex-boyfriend but in my head still registers as my old boyfriend, and i introduce him to my my friend as my current bf. He’s appeared in a few of my dreams recently, and it is weird as his qualities as a person are very much different to my current bf, and i much prefer the current relationship. I also never think about my ex in a conscious state. Help explain?

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  43. I recently have this dream i am on a beach where i jus bump into my ex but jus avoid talking to him but from a distance keep on staring him n den i see his wife n he goes n hugs her n says i lv u n i woke up.i dnt undrstnd y am i geting such dreams dt hurt me

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  44. sorry for language mistakes, I am from a non-English country. 4 years ago, I met this man online. he was my first love and the deepest love I could imagine. He confessed his love for me but left me after 4 month and his excuse was some difficulties in his residency (he lived in a very far country) that he couldn’t get visa for me and take me to his country.
    ( Besides, I am a commitment-phobic and relation- phobic, have trust issues with men. Also,I love my family alot and can’t tolerate separating from them.)
    I don’t know how I could survive after he left me. I experienced severe depression and loneliness and missed him so much. I started a long distance relationship (LDR) via email and understood that he was suffering too without me. After 1 year of LDR, I decided to end the relationship and forget him because I felt so much pressure. But at the same time I continuously had dreams about him and me, like: I was sitting on the back of a huge eagle flying toward his country;
    His mother came to my house for marriage proposal and brought me so many gifts and chocolates and gave me a baby milk bottle asked me to feed the baby;
    In another dream, I was lying on a bed taking care of our baby and he was watching us happily;
    I had so many passionate sexual dreams about him. that I was being pulled toward him like 2 magnets and we were uniting and becoming one;
    Once I had a dream that he was kissing the back of my neck. I woke up with a heart piercing feeling in my heart I couldn’t tolerate that missing feeling in my heart for him;
    In another dream, I was in his wedding party, he was marrying someone else but I was happily dancing, whirling and rotating with joy and ecstasy;
    We were sitting in a bus in his living country. he was holding my hand, my head was on his shoulder and all of the girls in the bus (who were his classmates and coworkers) were watching us with jealousy;
    One night again I missed him alot, I dreamt that he is in my house sitting on a sofa, I was sitting on his knees and my family was sitting around us. he was hugging, kissing me, patting my hair then he put the palm of his right hand on the palm of my right hand and transferred energy of love and peace toward my hand. when I woke up in the morning, I still could feel the energy and warmness in my hand;
    I had dreams of going to his country, searching him everywhere; or met him in the lobby of a hotel, then he left me to go to his room, I asked the receptionist to write his room number in a piece of paper for me to serach his room;

    During these years after our separation, I am still single and in no relationship and don’t think that I can love any man as much as I loved him. I don’t know if he has married, has girlfriend or like me he is alone. Recently, I am feelling in my heart that I have been tired of thinking each and every minute of my life about him, talking to him in my heart, missing him, waiting for him. this love has really made me tired and drain of energy. then I had a dream that he is again kissing me passionately to make me love him again. and is holding me in his arms, doesn’t let me go and leave him but I am begging him to make me free and let me go, saying that I am really tired and want to fly like a bird, go somewhere to rest but he grabs me tightly and wants to keep me for himself. then he takes me to bed, cuddles with me in bed, hug me, babying me to satisfy me in order to stay with him.
    These are most of the dreams I saw during 3 years. Most of the time I am wondering why so much dreams about him/us. Is it because I couldn’t stop thinking about him during day? Or are these predictions? Or is that because we are really close in heart and our hearts are connected. and he has also been thinking about me during these years?
    I don’t know. please help me. I am really tired of these feelings and so many dreams. sorry again for bad english and long comment. thank you.

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  45. Im living with my ex, its just like we’re in a relationship tho no other guys or girls in our life, he has a son with his first love they had him early around 16 years old & now im seven months pregnant by him, we was together along time and he left his ex baby mom for me, now i keep having dreams and shes always in them or about him and her back together and it really upsets me i really feel like he still has feelings for her and i just dont know what to do about it all.

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  46. I’ve been having a dream about this one guy who was a really great friend of mine years ago. He ended up wanting to be my boyfriend and confessed to me but i had no further feelings for him. I’ve been happily married since but he keeps coming up in my dreams. This past dream was about me kissing him. What does this mean i haven’t seen him over 12 years ago.

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  47. I was seeing this guy for a few months. We were never really official, but it sure seemed like we were boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re not seeing each other any more and we barely talk to each other. But last night, I had a dream that him and I were married (nothing in the dream told me we were married, but I just knew) and we were arguing and I told him that he’s not ready for this, etc. Then I had quick flashbacks of us just hanging out and having a good time. Then today, in the “real world” he told me he had a dream about me too (but never told me what about). So I feel like this dream has meaning to it.

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  48. i have a dream where im having a party and all my ex’s are there along with many girls i never dated but wanted too, my current girlfreind and my mother and my therapist but my therapist and i were the only males at the party. Towards the beggining of the party i hooked up with one of my ex’s and later in the party i walked in on my current girlfreind and the same ex in my bed togther. what the hell does all this mean???

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  49. I had a dream last night where my best friend and I went to see my first love in his new town. While there I saw all of the significant males I have dated. I awoke questioning a lot of things, and I cannot seem to find meaning in it.

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  50. Ok me and my ex broke up after 7 years he started cheating on me while I was working 2 jobs trying to support us well after the 3rd chance I couldn’t take the heartbreak anymore but he was the 1 to break up with me we were engaged to be married in a couple of months and he said he never loved me and didn’t wanna marry me.. Well later on I found a great man and ok happily married and my ex is still single he can’t find anybody but y do I have dreams of him and there good dreams well last night I dreamed me and him had a beautiful baby boy together. But while we were inna relationship we were trying to have a child but y do I have a dream like this I’m confused.. Bc me and my husband r so happy and so in love I don’t wanna let my dreams ruin our marriage.

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  51. I had a dream last night about my fiance and his brother. I was dating the brother rather than my fiance, but in the dream me and the fiance still had strong feelings for each other, but yet we never spoke to eachother. It was more of me and the fiance being in close quarters than me being with the brother in the dream. In real life I don’t mind the brother but he is not someone I would date, he kind of annoys me.

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  52. in my dream, my ex and i are laying int the bed, fully dressed, on top of the blankets. we are talking about our lives and what has happened since we have been a part. he begins discussing his current wife and the news that they are expecting another child (in reality they aren’t) I react to this impassively (in reality for some reason the fact that they have children together bothers me greatly), and he makes a face. the crazy thing about the face is that it is an expression that my current boyfriend does when something is disatisfying or irritating to him. i always wake up at this point. this is the 4th dream this month.

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  53. I had this dream two nights ago. It took place outside with 9 girls including me. We went up in groups of 3 to see our men. We were all wearing what seemed like wedding gowns but there was no preist so im guessing it was an engagement?? But when the last 2 women and I stepped forward, our men drove up in front of us in their big trucks, got off and approached us. The guy I approached was a guy I dated for a short period of time. Anyways, he came up to me, pulled a napkin out of his pocket and got the ring out of the napking. He then proceed to get down on one knee and say “marry me”… of this part of the dream it gets all hazy cuz I was waking up but I want to know WHY I HAD THIS DREAM… What does it mean?!?!

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  54. I always dream of my husbands ex-girl friend.This dreams start after i came to know that she tried to keep relation with my husband lately. Please can you tell me why m dreaming this all the time.
    Thanks

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  55. I had been friends with a guy for years and I ended up loving him, finally told him and he turned me down, but we remained (an awkward state) of friends. I’ve been over it for a few years, but now I had a dream that he said he loved me, cuddled on the couch and talked enjoying the company, it was like being a new married couple. I woke up confused and wishing both it was and wasn’t true. What does this mean?

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  56. What does it mean to dream that you are back with your ex and then in front of him a blue eye police offiecer comes up and gives u a kiss? What does this mean?

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  57. Last night I had a dream that my ex snuck into my house, woke me up to tell me that he was sorry or treating me terribly. He began to rub my stomach looked me in the eye and said he never meant any of it, that he wanted to get back together. I got out of bed and told him he better hide. So I rushed him into the closet and when he tried to kiss me i turned away and gave him a hug. Then I got into the car with my grandpa and drove away. I woke up at 3:30 crying.

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  58. I was with my ex for 3 yrs we had 2 kids togetther he ended up going to prison for 5 yrs we wrote each other from time to time by the time he came out I had a baby by someone else we tried things out for about a month then we went our seprate ways. Its 2 yrs later he has a girlfriend and there having a baby but I keep dreaming of him behind her back telling me he loves me and why am I with my current boyfriend what does this mean

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  59. I had a dream that me and my ex got back together and I bought her a scarf

    Recently, I had a different dream that my other ex was plotting to ruin my life like she did before. and she was telling maybe people about what “I did” in the relationship

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  60. I currently have a boyfriend one that I plan on stay with. I love him very much. But recently I went to my dads in another state and saw an ex who we didn’t really come to end or talk about it. He just stopped talking to me and answering me then two months later sends a message saying I don’t deserve to be treated this way. But of course I wanted answers. Never got them. But I came to terms with that. I don’t miss him don’t want to be with him at all don’t even care to talk to him. I’m not confused not tore between the two. I guess it’s something like I miss an aspect of him that my current boyfriend doesn’t have?

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  61. mine is a litlle harsh.. I dreamt my ex said he loves me and i slapped him.. Cus he can’t say that after everything eg him getting engaged. Lol whats up with that? I must say i liked the slapping him part,

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  62. i just had a dream that i saw my ex boyfriend at a party, he noticed me then walked down the stairs and told me i looked beautiful. I hung out with him a lot, then he said something to me and i felt the urge to kiss him on the cheek but resisted because i have a boyfriend. I woke up the next morning in a cemetery with him no where to be found and i couldnt remember a thing about the night before. he appeared with 4 different types of flowers. He said he wasnt sure which one was my favorite, he layed one flower down for his mother on a grave and it was purple and poison. i touched it, then left and went to the hospital, i told him later that i was sorry i had to go and the daises were my favorite. what does this mean? i am very worried.

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  63. I had a dream that my ex boyfriend he said to me that he love me and want me bk but i was pregnant with my husband baby

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  64. i had a dream about my ex boyfriend who broke up with me in august but we met about a year ago around this time, he had an erection, and i felt it and got excited and then he backed off and was like ‘i don’t like girls who are just all over it like that’ and i said something along the lines of ‘well thats what you want’ and he was like ‘no.. i want to be with you, my mom really liked you and everything, there are some things we just need to work out’

    we don’t talk often and he broke up with me, it was a mutual break up because both of us just became too busy for eachother, we didn’t break up because loss of feelings. i miss him from time to time ..

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  65. i had a dream that i was in school n it was time to leave and go home and than it was my friend walking with me one of them was my class mate and the second one was a girl and i dont know her name so we start walking and it was the time that the girl goes her way home and me any my friend went our way and i benn in love with the girl and i just wake up .
    the second night i had the same dream but this time i went and find where she lives and when i went there to see her because i couldnt want to wait to see her the next day. and i didnt even know that girl and i been in lover in my dream with a girl do you what this mean dream mean ???

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  66. i had a dream that my ex boyfriend perposed to at his house and I was thinking about the bad and good memories we shared, before I could answer, I woke up
    what does that mean?

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  67. My ex showed up in a dream I had about my current boyfriend cheating on me in my dream I came home and caught them walking down the stairs trying to get dressed I confronted my guy about it and he and his woman started slapping me and then my ex was there with his arms around me defending me and yelling at my current boyfriend, My ex and I are completely over with and I do love my new guy very much in reality he has shown no signs of violence towards me or my children, and to be honest my ex never trusted me and was not the nicest man to wards me or my children, Why is he showing up in my dream

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  68. I always see my former co-employee and a friend ( guy ) in my dreams. He was staring at me in a far distance then suddenly he was gone in my dreams. what is the meaning of that?

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  69. I dream of a guy who used to like me.In the dream,he keep avoiding me.In real life,I really love him eventhough I greatly knows that he falls for my own friend.I had this dream almost daily.Sometimes in that dream,he will love me but at times he will avoid me when possible.What does it mean?

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  70. heyy i hadd a dream that a boy i kno kept telling me somthing …then another night he told me he loves me wat does it mean does he hate me or he loves me ???…im so confused i just wanted to kno i dont want to love him or anything at all i just wanted kno wat the drream interpretation meant thnk u 🙂

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  71. my ex broke up with me a month ago as he realized that he was still in love with his ex girlfriend. last night in my dream he called me up and said that he is not committed and still comes too see me often as he. what does this dream mean? does it means that he will come back to me and leave that girl?

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  72. In my dreams my ex boyfriend keeps appearing, not always as my boyfriend. In one dream we were together and the rest, we has just ran into one another. The one I had last night was with him and his ex girlfriend (the one before me). They were living together and she was pregnant. I remember him telling me she wasnt ready to be a wife and me wanting to be alone with him and tell him I wanted hom back. I even cooked for him. Funny thing is, in reality, im not sure if i miss him, and im in a relationship, im pregnant and were going to get engaged soon. In the past month, Ive had many dreams with him. What does this mean?

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    • after 5 years past we have been together for 3 of the years and broken up for the other 2 years… I hate how I am not able to trust another man after him, he even comes back for booty calls, it’s sicking, he does not speak of no more commitment. Pray my strength in the Lord. that I tell him to kick rock! and that I will move on with my life, and stop looking for this LOOZER!

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  73. I have know this guy for 22 years. A couple years ago we reconnected and started a relationship but it wasn’t an official one meaning we could do whatever we wanted because we weren’t committed. Anyways I developed strong feeling for him then he never wanted to pursue anything so after a while I found my boyfriend who I am with now.

    I still talk to this other guy and he recently told me he cared about me more than I knew but never told me. So I had a dream about him telling me he wanted to be with me and to break up with my boyfriend for him. But this guy is not the type of person to express how he feels ever and he would never ask me to do this is person…what does this mean?

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  74. what does it mean if my ex shows up in my dream and is holding her child and is surprised to see me in the apartment we lived in?

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  75. I dreamed of me and my ex Arranging a marriage with my dad. I’ve been dreaming about him ALOT.

    and my feelings about him now is really confusing.
    Cause we’ve been hooking up lately. and we have the same set of friends and everytime we hangout he’s been so sweet to me always. 😐 what does this mean

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  76. My boyfriend passed away 11 weeks ago, on the day off his funeral i saw him in my dream. However, i didnt know he was dead but i did ask him if he was going to Pakistan ( he is burried in Pakistan). He wiped his eyes, it seemed like he was crying tears off joy, and he he said to me “No, im not going Pakistan” What does this mean?…& how can i see him again?

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  77. Hi, i never dream of my bfs or guys i love! i saw my ex whom im still madly in love with and still see him from time to time, he was sitting in a table and i was passing by, he turned around all smiles, and asked me if i wanted to get him a gift! i said sure, he said then get me a gold necklace with a pendant. i said ok and walked away!! please tell me what this could mean!!

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  78. i saw a dream that the guy i like was making out with me .. and he promised he would come see me at a station but he never showed , he also didnt look too happy when he was kissing me .

    i think a month later i had a dream about him avoiding me
    like he was in the same place as me n so were his friends he was being very rude.

    and jus the other day i had another dream that he deleted me of facebook and i felt like he want anything to do with me .

    does this mean he hates me ?
    and doesn’t want me in his life ?

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  79. It’s been 2 months. Last night I dreamt my former lover proposed to me at our work place in front of everyone but I said no because I wanted to get to know him better. When we split up I still wanted him but moved on. Then he wanted me back but i said no. He now has a new girlfriend. I believe I’m in love with him. I get hot flushes every time I see him and feel faint. Is this my inner desire or something else? I’ve tried to move on but he keeps appearing in my dreams.

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  80. ok, my ex girlfriend and i kinda seperated on weird terms. it just kind of faded off. well she has moved on and i haven’t. i’ve tried, multiple times. but i can’t get the image of us out of my head. the other night i had a dream about her where i felt like i woke up and she was laying next to me and we just laid there and looked into each others eyes. what does this mean??? i can’t stop thinking about it

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  81. My friend have a dream of me and my ex boyfriend. My ex boyfriend starts shouting “I still love me, please come back. I will leave my girlfriend for you.” Then I cry. I resist at first and then we hug. Can you please interpret her dream Thanks.

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  82. I had a dream the other night about an ex. I had been thinkin about him for awhile because I realized I was still in love with him. I decided not to pursue it…but then I had this dream…..

    I was kissing my ex and we were both laughing and happy. I wish I knew what it all meant.

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  83. Hello! I keep having dreams about the guy I’ve crushed on since 4th grade. We are both 23 now and Dated when we were 21. It was my dreams come true. Then he took my heart ripped it out, smashed into 1,000 pieces and stomped on it. I am not in a new relationship for the past 2years. They way things ended before w/ my other guy werent too great… it just stopped w/ no phone call returns from him or anything… I keep dreaming that I am with him in the future and he is protecting me in some way. my current relationship is shaky and unstable to say the least. We have a daugther together she is 1. I dont know where i am going..

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  84. I saw dreams about a guy whom I loved but who rejected me and did it very badly.

    First I saw my father wake me up because i was asleep, then I see that that there is some electricity problem, I woke up and my father told me that you knew a guy from other night, i correct him in that, my father says he has come, and my father is very happy(which is astonishing because he dislikes that fight), I go to see him and his mother (who was the main problem with our relationship, as he told me) where none of them looking at me or paying attention to me as if I were not present, I am thinking as to why he has come after all this and after humiliating me so much. I am unhappy and my father is very happy he says we accepted the proposal and he puts sweet in my mouth.

    I ignored this dream I thought may be i was seeing what i want in real life.

    But then again I started reciting kalimah and ayah’s before going to sleep and I saw him trying to touch me breasts and have sex with me.

    I am very ashamed because of all this I do not want to see sex in dreams especially with him,even though I recited kalimah I saw him.

    Does this mean anything?

    Please anyone help me I do not think about him yet I have dreams about him!

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  85. Its been almost a yr. since my ex and i broke up and in the last month ive been dreaming about him at least twice a week and if not more then that. Its wierd because we haven’t talked in months. I want to contact him after having these recurring dreams but i know he is in a relationship and i dont want to cause problems. Lately ive been having this one dream over and over again. I’m at a house, housesitting with my sister, the owner is unknown young guy who is on vacation with his family, im at the house and i start finding stuff that looks familiar to me so i start snooping , the dream keeps going on with me going into secret doors kinda of like a mystery and finding clues to remember how ive seen this place before. In the end i realize its my ex’s house.I find girls stuff and realize he is in a relationship. So i was trying to leave before he got home but he got there before i could leave so i try to hide. He finds me and he is suprised to see me there, he gets very upset, then is relieved i was there, and kisses me then i wake up

    I have had this dream before along time ago (months) and now im having it more often(back to back)

    i have dated other guys after we broke up

    I wonder what this means

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  86. well i went out wit my first love wen i was 13 till i was 14 1/2 and now im 16 bout to be 17 and my first love added me and is now talkin to me and i had a dream of him the very night he started talking to me and it was of a memorie that we did before but not exactly the same

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  87. i had a dream when my first love (going back almost 15 years ) was teaching me to play carol of the bell on a plastic recorder??? WTF

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  88. im a single mom,i got pregnent with my ex-lover which we stayed together almost 8years of relationship and living together without marriaged when he come to know im pregnant he is get married with somebody else so i left him and tooked my baby with me but for after been almost a year now we are separated suddenly i had dreamed of the father of my son that he was so eager coming back to me again but i was so angry at my dream and trying to chase him away from me wat does it mean ?

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  89. my ex and i have a baby an we were very much in love he smoke himself crazy on meth beat me and now hes i prison i miss him and still love him i have dreams of him and prison about him getting hurt his head getting dented in and its dark and red atmosphere i dont understand the dream

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  90. I dreamt about my ex and his current girlfriend,and i dont know why i followed them to his girlfriend’s house,and when i reach her house,they were happy together,and i was awkard at that point of time.i broke up with my ex about 4 years ago,when we were turning 13,now im 16,going 17. Can someone tell me the meaning of dream i dreamt?

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  91. My ex and I have been broken up for many years now. We first started dating when we were 14-15 years old. Hes always been so good to me and loved me so much, i think the only reason we broke up was because we were so young. He’s always wanted to get back together with me even after 5 years. We hooked up about two years ago when he was taking a break from a past relationship. I started developing strong feelings for him, but he went back to his ex. In anger, i started dating one of his best friends, whome he was living with at the time. I only started dating him because i was upset and wanted to get back at him. He soon broke up with his ex, and started dating this other girl. I was so jealous it made me sick to my stomach. Finally i moved away from that town to forget about him, and his girlfriend that i couldn’t stop thinking about. NOW im in a NEW relationship with a past ex of mine, and i’ve been having dreams about this guy again!! about him and i getting back together and him breaking up with his gf. I know my dreams mean that i still miss him, and want him to break up with his ex for me. Should i confront him about this? about my dreams and how i feel? Or should i go on living my life and try little by little to forget about him?

    It feels like i need closure? (but i dont want to make an ass of myself at the same time) HELP ME!

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  92. The man that I fell in love with was getting in to trouble and eventually got in enough trouble to where he was put into jail and deported back to Mexico.. I have not seen him in over a year nor talked to him in over a year… But I keep having reaccuring dreams everynight. He never was able to say goodbye. And I’m utterly confused in what to do or what to think… I had a dream that he had came back and he found me.. i was happy in my dream and he told me that he love’d me and he was sorry and didn’t want it to happen that way.. Although this is what I desire most, seeing it in my sleep made things much worse for getting over this man….

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    • If you believe in God, pray for your man’s safety and salvation so that he will not get into a more serious trouble wherever he is now. God bless.

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  93. i keep having a dream about my first love…the father of my first child who i loved unconditionally and in my dream i am confessing my true feelings for him…telling him how much i love him and in some cases kissing him…but i am happily married now and have been going on 5 years so i wanna know whats really going on

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    • In your sub-conscious mind, you do not want to let go of the past relationship. You still desire to be with your ex despite the fact that you had both moved on. It seems you love your ex more than your present husband. You must learn to let go and concentrate on your marriage, putting all you can to make it work. God can instill into your hearts that love that burns high enough to last you and your spouse a lifetime, one so strong that nothing can come inbetween. All you need to do is to ask Him. Do not allow anything to destroy the stability of your home.

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  94. My ex cheated on me and we tried to work it. Eventually things ended even though he says he still loves me and feelings for me, he got another girlfriend almost immediately. I have accepted that it over and dealt with the fact he has someone..it has not been an easy process. Now lately I dream of him constantly, the dream seem to mock my pain and I am reminded in each dream how things didnt work and that he has a girlfriend. Why this mental torture? I’m fully aware he’s moved on. Sometimes in the dreams we are trying to kiss or touch but something always gets in the way. I’m so mad at myself for not being able to get him out of my head!

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  95. My ex broke up with me about 2 to 3 years ago. I haven’t thought about him for a long time, until today. Last night I had constant reoccuring dreams about him. I didn’t sleep well. I woke up at least 5 or 6 times during the night. I never give dreams much thought, but for every dream to be about him… I am just very confused. Is there any meaning to these kind of dreams?

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    • The human mind acts in very random ways. Perhaps you did something or saw something that triggered these memories to resurface in your dreams. It is perfectly normal, because we cannot control our dreams even if we wanted to.

      Treat the dreams about your ex as you living in an alternate reality which does not necessarily conflict with your waking life.

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      • I had a dream I’m battling lover about a past relationship but I kept seeing the person who we were battling about in my dream and he was with another ex! I fought my lovers brother over it because he kept trying to get on my lovers head and everybody was telling me to leave him, I was walking around a hotel with a friend telling her what happened and how the relationship meant nothing and a rabbit attacked me n bit me!

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    • Your ex will always be a part of you as that is a normal because you shared with them a part of your life. Try taking up new activities, and establish new relationships that will eventually replace those memories of your first love.

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  96. what does it mean if a ex-lover keeps recurring in my dreams every night? and whats it mean if she and her new boyfriend are broken up for me?

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    • Your ex lover means a lot to you, and you continue to cherish many of the memories you shared together.

      When they break up in the dream is your inner most desires coming out, but it does not necessarily mean it is reality. The best option is to move on and start giving new relationships a chance.

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