The concept of “to disappear” from someone’s dreams is related to them being bothered or not wanting to feel the pain being in their presence. As a result of this “dream fading”, the dreamer can feel more in control and more powerful while they are experiencing this intimacy. This disappearing is done to avoid any embarrassment because they are believing that it is a sign their situation has gone awry and their patience will be stretched too thin so they want to cut ties with them.
Imagine being forgotten in a dream, where the only way to bring back a loved object is to forget it. This bizarre phenomenon can often be thought of as anyone’s worst nightmare.
Many dream about disappearing generally signify fear feeling neglected in intimate relationships and look for attention elsewhere. With a lack of fulfillment in their partner’s love for them, many “lose themselves” and feel detached from reality. There may be feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem, shame, embarrassment and little confidence.