Cheating Partner in Dream

If you catch your partner cheating in a dream, it can mean one of several things. Maybe your mind or physical being has seen your partner and caught them in an act, but is suppressing it, for the sake of not upsetting yourself. This is very common because people usually try to repress memories in hope that if your mind doesn’t allow it to exist, you really will believe that it doesn’t exist.

It can also represent the lack of trust you have in your partner. Maybe you’re afraid that they will, or that they are cheating so your mind creates a scenario where you can satisfy your accusations and satisfy your lack of trust in your partner.

Another possibility may be that you’re in a bad relationship, and you’re looking for a way to get out of it, your looking for a reason or a tangible accusation for you to get out of a relationship.

Either way, it’s only a dream, and if your partner didn’t cheat on you in the “real world’ then it shouldn’t be of much concern, but the idea of a cheating partner should raise the question of how you view your relationship with them.

396 thoughts on “Cheating Partner in Dream”

  1. I have a constant dream of me cheating on my husband with and ex-boyfriend of mine. I dream that i still love him and he tells me that he does too and we reconcil.

    But I also constantly dream that my husband tells me that he love’s another woman, and he has no remors in leaving me. He tells me he loves her and that is why he cannot make love to me anymore. He always leaves with her in front of me, and leaves me crying.

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  2. I dreamt that my partner was in love with another girl, but he told me upfront! In my dream I didn’t want to lose him and agreed that I shall accept him dating both of us… But midway we are making love, he just finish his part and left to meet that other girl and said “what more do you expect?” and left… The next scene was simply I turn up at the place where they are both having a good time and I just couldn’t bring myself forward to say hi.

    I am unsure if this dream consider cheating?

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  3. Last night i dreamed that my boyfriend has been texting a girl he used to go out with (which in real life he does on occasion) in my dream they planned to meet up while I was working and he was going to take her out…
    I got off work early and went home… He was sitting in the living room with our roommate telling him
    How he cheated on me and felt guilty about it… I was FURIOUS… I went up stairs and starting throwing all my stuff down the stairs screaming how much of a jerk he was (in real life he is the sweetest man I’ve ever met)
    He sent me all the text message conversations they ever had so I could read them, was apologizing like crazy and picking up my things and bringing them back upstairs telling me to stay… But I was to mad… Told him I didn’t want him talking to this girl or even seeing her ever again because this was exactly the type of ‘friendship’ my last boyfriend had and I wasn’t tolerating it again… Especially not with him since he’s said he’d marry me.

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  4. I had a dream my girl went out and I stayed at home. Me and my sister stayed home. One of her friends came home early and was acting kinda funny. She was telling me watch your girl, I was like if something happened tell me. Finally she told me my girl was flirting with dudes at the club and the friend started trying to get with me. Next thin I know my girl walk in with a guys they head to the back room I walk back there and their hugged up, so I pull her off and me and him fight. I end up killing him. Them I start crying and throwing up. Then I woke up… By the way im a dominant woman dating a woman. What does this mean?

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  5. i had a dream that my wife has a love child even we were married. I confronted her because @ first she’s denying it, eventually she confessed that it was the doctor’s child with her. i am not familiar with the doctor’s identity though.

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  6. hi dream master,
    i had a dream of marrying a celebrity , but its like an arrange marriage, but then i remember, that i have a fiancee visa in pending and i should never get married in the first place coz im already engaged to someone. what does this dream means?

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  7. I had a heavy dream girl flirtting with my husband in front of me and he was flirtting back and I was very upset with him he didn’t care he still glirted

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  8. My first husband and I divorced 10 yrs ago, yet I keep having the same dream. I allow him to come back, but he tells me that he wants to go back to his present wife. I wake up so hurt. What does this mean?

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  9. Hey, I had a dream that my husband went out to chill with his friends came back in the house and phone rung. He answer and was about to lay down. So he’s on the phone like um um Yea I’m kind of business right now, but hold on. So I can hear a woman voice thru the phone. I automatically goes who is that, and keep asking. He says to me she likes me not you and walk out of the house.

    I often have dreams of him talking on the phone to women. I have had dreams that lead me up to knowing he was cheating over the years. When the dreams begin I didnt know it was happening, but the dreams keep coming and coming and after I found out I said I will never ignore another dream again. He came out and confess to me that he was cheating. So my dreams are real to me esp when they are stuck in my head all day and I cant dismiss them. What is this dream about?

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  10. Dear DreamMaster:

    I seperated from my husband over 7 months ago i caught him cheating on me i got very anger and stuff was said and done we no longer talk…..but recently in the past 3 weeks straight i have had dreams of him crawling back and asking for my forgivness. Even thou he says he doesn’t love me anymore i don’t know what to make of these dreams?

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  11. I had a dream that i walked in on my girlfriend having sex with one of my friends, and when she saw me she got off of him and started trying to talk to me, and i was so pissed i didn’t want her to talk to me or even touch me. we’ve only been dating for 4 months

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    • That’s rough man. My girlfriend had a dream that she held my friends hand and liked it. So I guess I cant complain about that compared to yours.

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  12. hello DreamMaster,

    I have had a disturbing dream of my long term boyfriend cheating and admitting to me with his ex-wife. He stated in the dream it was because they always had “it”, though I know in real life there was little desire. She then proceeded to taunt me trough a television, an old model like in the early 80’s and she had the same hairstyle from when they were first married. She recently moved back to the same town as us, and they do maintain a connection, although it is strained (no children at all). She has contacted me unneccessarily and in a juvenile fashion. I am disturbed by the dream, have not told him, and had very hurt and angry feelings in the dream. Am I correct to see this as a sign? we do have a very strong love and connection to each other…

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  13. I keep having dreams of an incident that happen with my husband and his sister friend. She told him that his sister and her wanted to visit him. He told me they are coming so he left a spare key for them to come in; they can wait in the house.While he is out bike riding. When I got home open the door I saw her with one of his shirt and both laughing. He never told me his sister did not show up just his sister’s friend. He asked me if we can give her a ride, I asked him how she got her and he said her boy who is a friend dropped her off. What does this mean when it keeps repeating that situation in my dreams?

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  14. I had a dream that I was at a girls house, I know this girl in real life but she’s not a friends I just know of her, I was getting changed in her room and found items of my boyfriends clothing in her wardrobe. I instantly thought he was cheating on my so I grabbed one of his shirts and shoved it into my bag so I could confront him. Then she walked into the room and the dream continued but I never saw my boyfriend. Could you help me work this out! Thankyou 🙂

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  15. i had a dream i walked in on my girlfriend in the bathroom naked with my brother and then in our bathroom she confessed to sleeping with another man

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  16. i had a dream last nite that me and my bf werent doong good and we broke up and then got bak together. then i got put in this jail ball thing where i was stuck and i kept looking down and seeing him with this other girl who he had cheated on me with in the past. he used to cheat on me all the time but now hes so different and i love him more than ever. but the past hurt me so bad. i just wana forget about all those girls but why do they alwaya appear in my dreams and why are me and my bf always doing bad and he is always with one of those girls.

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  17. I had a disturbing dream about my wife to say the least. My wife left me a few months ago, took the kids and left me. We had been fighting for most of our relationship due to trust issues on my part because I caught her in some questionable things on more then one occasion. She will never tell me the truth and I will never know. Anyway I dreamed about her being in her car speaking with someone on the phone and I assumed it was a man and confronted her as I was doing that there was another couple walking there dog but the dog did not look like any other it looked like a dog with and evil demon head. Well I went to the other side of the car to avoid that dog and spoke with my wife threw the passenger side and asked her is she talking with a new man she was very hesitant meanwhile the whole time this song was playing by Kanye west No church In The Wild. Saying will he make it out alive alright alright. Listen to the song. She was going to tell me then I woke up. I guess I still torment myself thinking she will come to her senses. She never will because she is the type that is always right and justified by everything she does. She lies so much I believe she believes her own lies and for that we will never be the same. Me and this girl went threw the world together we did everything together we had a life together then she got a job because I could not handle the bills all by myself any more she started to see that other men paid attention to her I am sure that got to her head and she made some mistakes and I felt those mistakes threw post to other guys Facebook accounts caught her talking to this guy and that guy. She thought it was okay to speak with other men because they were just friends or they were just coworkers or when that guy texts her its just a friend. The lies stacked up an up. I asked her on more then one occasion to stop and respect our marriage but she could not and kept up. Tearing up my trust for her is what she did by not respecting my wishes. She tried to take away who I was by breaking me down. We could not stop fighting and she made the decision to leave. Each day it is getting better but then you have one of these hiccups like this dream and it throws you back into thinking about her all over again. Ugh

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  18. Hi,
    i had this horrible dream where my husband was been so nasty and cheating on me right in front of my face.
    My brother brought these lasses round and my husband started getting really close to them and started doing stuff to them, i was crying and telling him i love him and hes my husband and he didnt care at all, he had a horrible grin on his face and so did the girls he was cheating on me with.
    I cuddled my children and cried and my husband just walked straight passed them and me to take these girls upstairs. it was a horrible dream and i know that he is not like that at all because i am a very paranoid and controlling wife because of what i went through with my ex boyfriend. this is not the first time i’ve had dreams like this!!

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  19. I had a dream last night that I found out that 2 of my ex-best friends and my ex sister in law were calling my husband and they were having inappropriate phone conversations. I confronted him about it and he readily admitted it. Not caring if I was hurt about it or not. I threatened one of the women and told them they better not ever call my husband again. But its as if they weren’t bothered by my threats at all. I felt helpless and extremely hurt. Can you make any scense out of this?

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  20. Hi, i had a dream where i caught my girlfriend cheatn on me wit another girl. in the dream she didnt seem remorseful but actualy seemed to be happy bought it, lyk it was al in her master plan 2 hurt me or something. Wat does this mean?

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  21. I had a very vivid dream about my wife who i drove with to the auto specialist, was having sex with some total stranger on the dark corner of a street while I was speaking to the car technician. First this appeared like beggar. Then, I couldn’t see both of them so the technician and I went to look for her. Only to find her being bent over and done from behind and she was enjoying it in a way I have seen before. Even when she saw me she told him to hurry up. I got to them a little late. He just came all over her. I jumped and punched him in the face. The auto specialist saw everything in dismay and was feeling sorry for me. My wife disappeared, I got home and found her still naked and packing her stuff to leave in fear. I was devastated. Woke up sweating.

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  22. I have a dream dawn dream my husband was so preoccupied talking to this woman..she had curly hair..they were so close together that i felt when I saw them there was something going ..a closeness…I finally concluded they were a couple..Days after saw his friends on facebook and saw the face of that woman..My husband is working in korea and that woman is also there my husband works in a danish company that is based in Korea..Is is coincidence?bt thats the face of the woman in my dream and havent even known her or talked to her…

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  23. had a dream my wife cheated, and never questioned my trust regarding her before. first time in over eleven years of marriage that my dreams ever pointed to my wife’s infidelity. It turned out that on that very morning she had gone to a motel to meet her boss. it was the first time she slept with him, and my dream’s prophetic truth was real and didn’t lie.

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  24. I had a dream that my man cheated on me on a dating website in my dream he was using a smartphone that he doesnt even have went on the internet and went on datehookup.com and was searching for females in our area in my dream i confronted him about it and we argued. i woke up numerous times in the dream scared crying nervous i dont know what to do. i love him with all my heart what does this mean?????? please help ive been having this dream for months straight

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  25. Hi I had a dream that my exboyfriend and my goof friend started dating n i didn’t like it then I told her to stop going with him n I told him she’s sleeping with other men aswell its so confusing I don’t know what it means please help….

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  26. I had a dream that my cousin asked me to be with my boyfriend while we were still together. I told her if he wanted to be with her then ok thinking he would say no. I went to tell him and he asked what I would do if he said yes and I said if you want to then that’s you. He told me hell yeah he’s does and he left me and in my dream I could see them having sex. This is weird because I have never thought of anything like this in real life and currently I don’t think he’s cheating on me. Please explain what this is.

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  27. I had a dream of my current boyfriend of three years. In the dream though he wasn’t my boyfriend, he was with his best friend’s slutty sister. In the dream, I was his mistress. He kept telling how he wanted to be with me and not her, but if he left her she would try to ruin our lives. How he would leave her and be with me secretly. I was crushed but oddly agreed. What does this mean?

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  28. I had a dream about my husband cheating on me with the neighbor and that he personally told me we weren’t going to work out so he decided to leave with this girl (our neighbor) and leaves me $75 dollars saying that’s for the kids expenses then I see the girl that is wearing new clothes and her porch is full of roses and I decided to move to a new city far away from him but he kept coming back saying he wanted to see the kids but wanted to spend time with me too I decided not to have anything to do with him anymore and then I woke up that was strange what does it mean?

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  29. I had dreamt of my ex husband..
    He’s still with his other girl.

    In my dream, he was very ugly and so as the girl. Ugly meaning, his face is deformed and have like skin disease. when he tries to touch me, i told him not to touch me because i might get infected or something. But deep down, i still love him though even in my dreams.. i wanted to help him but words are not coming out right. coz i know im hurting him even just not being wanted to be touched by him.

    What could this mean?

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  30. so i had a dream that my boyfriend was cheating on me with a man however he still wanted to be with me. i ran away to cry in a corner and he fallowed me no matter where i ran to. at the same time as being upset and not wanting him to be there while i was crying i wanted him to hold me and comfort me.

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  31. I dreamt that I was having my tarrot cards read to me, I was sitting there and this lady was uncovering my cards and when it came out to a man there was a woman to the right and the left of him, she started to say this is you which was on his right and this is another woman on his left, but I woke up. So, I never finished it.

    Currently, we are having some discussion of divorcing due to financial ambitions we both have but never get to together because we both over spend, he has been contimplating but discussed his concerns with his step mother before discussing it with me. I have so much anger with that, we (him and I) have discussed some of the issues and our goals we have for the remaining year, he is in Iraq and I am in AZ. He states when he comes home he wants to put everything out on the tabel before we actually decide to divorce. Money is the worst enemy in my marriage, we don’t argue, I have no suspision of him cheating on me and vise versa. I know that we both have ambitions but for some reason it has to do with money but I understand one income is hard enough and it is even harder bc we don’t have kids and we cannot explain what our money goes to other than bills we have created together.
    Please help me understand this. Everyone around me says, the our finances can’t be the only reason why he wants out but I don’t feel that he is cheating nor do I suspect it. Our arguements have always been he wants to have what his parents didn’t have at his age, and I totally want to take trips, do things together instead of e staying home like retired individuals because of our finances.

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  32. I have been with my boyfriend for over three years now and we are talking about marriage, but the parents do not approve of him. I have had a couple of dreams of him cheating on me. The first was a week or so ago and all I remember is walking up some stairs looking for him and the first thing I see as I get to the top is the door cracked half way open to a room with my boyfriend and a close friend of mine in bed. In real life, we have only hung out with my friend a handful of times.

    The second dream, which is far more absurd that I had last night, involved me in a car with my sister, who in real life lives three hours away and comes by once a year or so. In the dream, I just know that my boyfriend is cheating on me with my sister and then she confesses to it when she tells me that she uses my phone to contact him and to see him and shows me the texts and emails between her and him. Next thing I remember is me telling my parents about the situation and sobbing so hard that I can’t breathe because I tell them I intended on marrying him. They seem fine with it because they never approved of him. What do these dreams mean? I spoke to my boyfriend about them and he reassured me that he would do no such thing, but why have had two of these dreams? I trust him completely.

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  33. i had a very awful dream where my boyfriend of 16 months was cheating, i walked in on him doing the person doggy so i walked in to see if this ‘women’ was prettier than me, but when i got closer i could see the ‘women’ to be a man dressed as a women… what does this mean….

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  34. The first time I dreamt he was leaving me that evening to go on a date with this other woman, in the dream I feel so hurt I kept asking everyone around me when will he be back ? When he got back he said he has to drop the other woman home and again I felt hurt that he will or is about to have sex with this woman… The dream woke me up and I woke him up and felt the need to have sex with him which I did. Tonight is the second time I dreamt something similar, in the dream the other woman waits for him to drop her off but just before he does this he kisses me passionately as she watches. Again in my dream in the back of my mind I have that same feeling that he is going to have sex with her. Why do I keep having this dream ? I love my husband dearly and trust him completely. We are married 8 years now with two kids. Pleas help me understand what is going on.

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  35. I had a dream my husband was cheating on me…first his cell phone as ringing and I answered it and it was a girl who said she was his girlfriend….I confronted him right then. Then it came out that he had been cheating on me for a while with other women. One of them being a very close friend of mine. He stopped even trying to hide it from me in my dream.

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  36. I dreamed that my husband was in a wedding as a best man and his ex girlfriend was the bride maid and I saw her she was wearing heavy make up! and I was so annoyed in the dream… i have some knowledge in dreams interpretations, but it is hard for me to interpret mine, i don’t know why! but when I woke up, I was so tired and had a serious headache, until he came back from work and accidently opened his email from my computer and forgot to log out and found that his ex girlfriend had sent an email on the same day telling him that she wants to be friends with him again!!! I was shocked. Its is like I had some kind of a prophecy. I always trust my instinct.. please let me know what do you think. thanks

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  37. hi i had a dream that i was on a crowded place and i felt that my husband is there but he is not with me… then i saw a girl who is fair complexion, having a long hair, and she was sitting on a chair as if waiting for someone and suddenly a man came out the picture and it happened to be my husband. and my husband stood beside her.no other people seen there they are the only 2 person in the picture…what does it mean?

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  38. I had a dream that my mother was staying with us, and she really had come to visit for the week, but in my dream, I sat up in bed and my FIANCE is on the air mattress with her and she is naked. I screamed and made a big ordeal out of it and when I saw he was naked too I attacked and hit him and screamed and was just beating on him I was so angry. And when I went to his mother because it was clear I had no one else to talk to, she told me he couldn’t possibly do something like that. Even though the proof was right in front of her. I woke up shortly after. But now I’m angry and don’t want him to touch me. What does it mean?

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  39. Dream last night me and my soon to be husband are in a movie theater playing poker I am sitting on another mans lap and my before runs to another room when I go to this room he is giving oral to some girl and I wake up

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  40. I dreamed my boyfriend slept with another woman I watched, it has left me with a horrible feeling inside. I don’t know what to make of it but just the feeling like it was so real. He laid in a bed with her and was so passionate the way he is with me. Were going through difficult times right now.

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  41. I just woke up from a dream where, for some reason I had become sort of friends with my wifes ex boyfriend. I was on the phone with him talking about her when she called him. Previously in the dream I had called her and she didn’t respond but she called him. I finally got her on a persons phone who was near her and i heard her talking on the phone. (To him) I asked her who it was and she lied and said it wasn’t him. She didn’t know that me and him were speaking. I caught up with her and she seemed very disinterested in talking to me. After a few questions and confronting her about the lie, she admitted to having sex with him one day after he had visited her church with one of his friends. At first she seemed not to care, but as I was leaving, she followed after me crying. We’ve been married for just under a month and in the dream this had occured within the last month.

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  42. Dear dream master,

    I had a dream last night that it was very late a I came home from a long tiring day and got into bed with my husband, only I didn’t look at him. Because I am pregnant with twins I tend to sleep at the foot of the bed because it is mor comfortable. When I did look up I saw my husband asleep with a woman on top of him. They were still “connected” and both asleep. Like it was so good they both fell out. I wake them up and he tries to convince me that it was something else that I saw. A painting or something but the lady is still in the room. Then the scene changes and I’m no longer pregnant. I’m dressed in office clothes and arriving home to get things because I’m leaving him. He pleads with me not to go all the while he is still seeing another woman. In the end I leave in a brand new car. Any thoughts on this?

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  43. ive been talking to a really wonderful guy like altogether too wonderful. i cant find anything wrong with him other than being really weird about affection.. but i had a dream that me his ex (im guessing) and him are in the same room and and she is enraged about something im very confused about exactly what is happening or why through my who dream. he seems calm alomst amused. . i think in my dream he has been trying to see both o us but i am not sure. the only thing said in the dream is her telling me she doesnt even think hes atractive which makes me angry. but my guy disappears and his ex or whatever is chasing me i try to just stop her and get away but in the end i think ive killed her but i am not sure. im left with the feeling she is still out there somewhere. i tried looking it up in my book but im not sure what keywords i should look up.

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  44. If you have a dream that you kiss the person you love then someone else comes over and kisses them but the person you love doesn’t back away, what do that mean?

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  45. Well, I had a reoccurring dream of my husband cheating on me. I saw myself incredibly upset and physically changed (much thinner). I had children and it took me a couple of years to loose the baby fat after each child. I saw myself having a conversation with him where i said to myself “I’ll show him” thinking of my appearance and me being better. Now I was someone who never really valued myself as much as I should have and that was not how I thought in my wake hours. My husband and I had a very good relationship and were to envy as far as all our friends and I was concerned, so I did n t want to consider the cheating dream.. I though to myself I am going crazy, I have a wonderful husband, children, a house and we are doing well, now I am insecure and I am starting to dream such crap.
    The feeling of this dream stayed even more intense, it would not leave me alone no matter how much I tried to shake it off until one day I just came out to him and said”are you cheating one me?” What I heard I was completely unprepared for and it was surreal and life changing. He had a 7 month pregnant girlfriend, a whole other life he hid very well. Our youngest were 6 and 3. My whole world fell apart and i was not able to eat to the point of half a toast a day. My rib cage started to show, although i had a large breasts, my breast disappeared. I was destroyed. A year later he moved out and I went back to school and picked my life up and became independent. I can only say that all the feelings i felt in that dream I felt after confronting hm, including my looks and actual thought “I’ll show him” once I lost the weight and I was complemented by everyone. My life became hard and I struggled more than one should. I was crushed and devastated and I felt that the dream was a God’s gift. Had I not had the dream, I would have not known perhaps years later when I would be even older to consider going back to school and getting my own life..I just know that I could not have known as he had fooled not just me, but everyone, family,friends..everyone thought we were perfect and happy and I lived in his town where everyone knew him and no one knew me and no one would tell me anything so I could not have known if it was n ot for the dream. Once it was out, everyone was shocked and was unforgiving to him because he was so deceitful and so good at it. that was my experience with that dream!

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  46. I KEEP DREAMING MY HUSBAND OF 13 YEARS IS CHEATING ON ME WITH SOMEONE HE MEETS OUT OF TOWN. HE WORKS OUT OF TOWN, IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES MOSTLY. JUST LAST NIGHT I DREAMED HE WAS SEEING THIS BLONDE CHIC WITH TRIPLE F’S, THAT WAS A STRIPPER IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY. THE CHIC CONTACTED ME ON FB AND TOLD ME ABOUT IT. AND WANTED ME TO LEAVE HIM SO THEY COULD BE TOGETHER. SHE SAID THAT HE WAS ONLY STAYING WITH ME BECAUSE OF OUR CHILD AND THAT HE WAS GOING TO LEAVE ME WHEN OUR CHILD WAS OUT OF SCHOOL. ***AND HE HAS BEEN DISTANT TO ME AS OF LATE (IN REAL LIFE). AND ALSO, IN REAL LIFE, HIS CREDIT CARDS WERE OVER THE LIMIT. AND UNEXPLAINED MONEY WAS BORROWED THAT WILL TAKE YEARS TO PAY BACK. THIS PART IN REAL LIFE. BUT IN THE DREAM THE STRIPPER TELLS ME THAT HE GAVE HER $5,000 IN CASH A YEAR AGO FOR BIGGER BOOBS. SHE HAD PICTURES OF THEM IN MY DREAM. IT WAS SO FREAKING REAL. SHE KNEW HE WAS MARRIED AND HAD A CHILD AND DIDN’T CARE A BIT. BECAUSE OF WHAT HE TOLD HER, NOT INTO ME ANYMORE, AND HE WAS ONLY STAYING WITH ME CUZ OF OUR CHILD. JUST A MATTER OF TIME. SHE WAS READY TO GET HIM NOW. SHE DIDN’T WANT TO WAIT. IN REAL LIFE. I’M IN SHAPE, I KEEP MYSELF UP TO DATE, LONG HAIR, TANNED, I WEAR MAKE-UP, CUTE SEXY CLOTHS, BIG BOOBS-NATURAL ONES, MY TEETH ARE WHITE & STRAIGHT, WE HAVE SEX WHEN HE IS HOME. IF HE IS HOME FOR A WEEK, WE HAVE SEX 5 TIMES IN THE 7 DAYS HE IS HOME. EVEN IF IT’S A QUICKIE OR BJ. IF HE IS HOME 2 WEEKS, WE HAVE SEX AT LEAST 8 TIMES OR MORE. I GIVE HIM COMPLIMENTS, TRY TO MAKE HIM FEEL GOOD ALL THE TIME AND TELL HIM I’M PROUD OF HIM, AND WHAT ALL HE HAS ACCOMPLISHED. BUT I KEEP DREAMING THIS CRAP IN SOME WAY ABOUT HIM CHEATING. SO I’M NOT SURE WHY I KEEP DREAMING HE IS WITH SOME WOMEN/CHIC. UNLESS, IT’S THE FACT HE IS GONE SO MUCH AND THE UNEXPLAINED MONEY THAT IS MISSING. HE TOLD ME IT WAS FROM GAMBLING AND JUST EATING OUT AND STUFF WITH THE GUYS, WHEN HE IS OUT OF TOWN. BUT WHO REALLY KNOWS. I’M AT HOME THIS WHOLE TIME, WORKING, TAKING CARE OF THE HOUSE, THE BILLS, THE YARD, THE CARS, OUR CHILD-SCHOOL-SPORTS-HOMEWORK-ETC., HIM, ANYTHING THAT COMES UP, IT’S ME THAT TENDS TO IT, ETC. I JUST DON’T KNOW WHY I FEEL LIKE THIS ENOUGH TO KEEP DREAMING ABOUT IT. MAYBE HE REALLY IS CHEATING, AND MY SUBCONSCIOUS IS TRYING TO TELL ME TO WAKE THE HELL UP AND DO SOMETHING. I DON’T KNOW, IT’S MAKING ME GO CRAZY!!!!!!!!!ANY SUGGESTIONS OR WHAT DO YOU THINK IT COULD BE?

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  47. I dream a lot about my aunty …. i have a crush on her .. my dream was that she keep changing into a jilbab and then in to nude clothes were i could see her bra ….. and the another was i was chasing her round the bedroom and both of us were laughing and another was we were kissing each other in the shower

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    • it me again … had a dream last night that she had a shower in my house and when she come out we ended u snogging each other

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  48. I have been with my husband for over 4 years now and I keep having dreams about him leaving me. In the dream he gives me his ring and tells me he doesn’t want to be with me.. and I cry for a very long time (in my dream) and wake up feeling so very sad. He’s a wonderful man and we love each other very much but these dreams scare me to death. I have insecurities about my weight and the fact that i’m nothing above average looking and wonder if my mind is just creating these dreams because of it.

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  49. Hi,
    I had a really bad one about my boyfriend cheating on me with some girl who looked like one of his last lovers but it wasn’t her? And I caught them both in my room. An I confronted them about it, and they acted as if it were no big deal. And I felt so angry and violent, I started yelling at both of them and I wanted so badly to hurt the girl. And he started talking about how much he appreciated her body, although he also did mine, but hers as well..and he started mentioning about how we weren’t going to be able to see each other anymore because he was spending more time at school and work, and that it was better that way, that we break up. I woke up feeling so beat up. I started going into hysterics, and I called him to reassure myself that it was just a dream, but he was picking up and I felt like I was still dreaming and I couldn’t wake up.
    What could all of this mean??

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  50. I’ve been with my boyfriend over a year and a half. We live together and are very happy. Once we met, we’ve been together–like destiny or something. He’s never cheated on me, but I know he has in the past with ex’s.

    I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. With different people, some of his ex’s, some of his twitter friends and last night just some random foreign girl named Maria.

    The dream with his ex girlfriend, she was begging him to come back and I caught her trying to persuade him and I arrested her and put her in the back of my police car. On the grounds that she is a spoiled brat. (we had a good laugh about that one)

    The dreams of the twitter people are just him texting and emailing lots of girls and being sneaky and finding ways to mess around with them.

    But last night’s dream of this foreign girl really upset me. There was a big group of people, he and I were in the group, and then these 2 girls came in and were talking to him. Later in the dream I asked his friend if he had ever slept with either of the two girls and his friend said Yes, and they were supposed to get back together again now that she’s back (just for sex). So I went up to his hotel room and there they were. When I catch them together I go crazy and I beat her up badly. I question him in the dream about why does he want to do this to me and he seems to cool about the whole thing, while I’m ragging. Then I wake up.

    What should I focus on?

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  51. Hi, I hope you can help. I had this dream where I was watching my husband have sex with another woman. She had cuts on her face and neck and in my dream I was just okay watching. I dont know what any of it means, I have no interest in sharing my husband, and he’s not abusive or anything and if it did happen I would SO NOT be okay with just watching and letting it happen. Thoughts?

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  52. I had a dream about helping somebody to cheat in a relationship, however i am very confused.
    As i’ve been cheated on before, i do not condone cheating in any way, shape or form, so for me to help somebody to cheat isn’t really me?
    And it was with a person who i don’t recall ever talking to, just somebody who i know/heard of in general?
    Would appreciate help thanks.

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  53. HI..I had a dream my husband was having sex in front of me with another women. In my dream I was okay with it and I just watched, but I would never react that way in real life. I also noticed she had cuts on her neck face. I don’t want a threesome or anything like that ever, and as for the cuts, he’s never been abusive or anything. What does this mean is there something wrong with me?

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  54. i keep having this reaccuring dream that my boyfriend is being really mean to me and cheating on me right in front of me, then i had another dream that he died. the last dream i had of him was that we were at this wedding and i was in the wedding party so i couldnt sit with him and my family, but i could see him flirting with this girl and saying he wants to be with her. and i confronted him asking how he could do this to me, especially right infront of my family, and he was being so cold to me and acting like he didnt care about me at all. these dreams are really stresssing me out and i dont know if its my gut trying to warn me

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  55. I had a nightmare that my boyfriend was going to club with his ex that same night I went back to the house to see what be doing and he was in bed with her I asks him what the fuck this is then I woke up crying what does this mean….

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  56. hi dream master, last night i had a dream carrying my wife over the flood and i can still feel that im wearing my shoes i used last night that is all been wet. i’m carrying my wife while my friend is along with us. then we stop because my wife is complaining about a headache and she dont want to continue anymore, so i let her sit on a bench, looks like we are on a park.. then this man came and sat between me and my wife and suddenly my wife put her head over his lap. then this man put his hand on my wife’s face and lift it up, and started kissing her. my friend at my back(as i was just staring at this man and my wife) keep making a silent sign to my wife saying dont or stop. but i just raised my hand to my friend looks like im saying to him “dont stop them” or say “let them do what they are doing”. then i walk up..

    Please i am begging you to interpret my dreams. thanks alot.

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  57. I had a dream that I walked into a room and saw my boyfriend on the bed under this tent they made out of cushions. When he say me he sat in a cornor crying and I kept hitting him telling him “how cud you do that to me”.

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  58. Wanted* to just push him off of me but I didn’t I jus kept feeling mad and sad about it after I woke up. Please help!

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  59. I am so scared! I had a dream my boyfriend cheated on me with his own cousin!. I didn’t catch him in the act but all three of us were in the car and as I was looking through pictures on his phone I found pictures and videos of them having sex! After that I remember I slapped him and I got out of the car and ran and just started to cry I confronted him in the dream and he was like speechless yet grinning at the same time … when I woke up I jus wanyed

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  60. Had a dream husband walked in on me in bed resting with a lover. Never saw lovers face. Lover was holding me. Strangily my husband layed in bed with me and lover. His back was against me and i was holding him while my lover was holding me. Morning came and his sister walked into room with clothes to iron. My husband started ironing the clothes and i got and was extremely jealous he was ironing a womans outfit. I accused him of cheating and told him I wasnt cheating on him with lover and his sister was like ” whatever we just caught you cheating” and he was about to walk out of room and i was trying to stop him. He repeatedly said he would make me feel pain. Then i woke up.
    I hav been married for many years so i know dream didnt represent anything i felt cause i.ve never had a lover and i dont cheat in my marriage however, my husband has cheated and is cuurently cheating with a woman that he feels he may wanna marry which means we will divorce if he”s serious with his decision. So far we’re still married.

    What does this dream means.

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  61. i had a dream that my girl was getting off with my best mate and shes having my child its both or 1st and was wondering if this is anything to worry about?
    🙁

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  62. Hi. I had the weirdest dream last night. It’s about my husband and I lying in bed together with my bestfriend. and my bestfriend started kissing my husband’s body while I was looking. I felt stunned and wasn’t able to react but just as she was about to kiss him on the neck, I told her to stop it. my husband seemed just as stunned either but he did not stop my bestfriend from what she’s doing.

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  63. I keep having a reoccuring dream of me cheating on my boyfriend. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I love him very much. For awhile, I was having the dream for weeks of cheating on my boyfriend with my ex boyfriend. I am obviously attracted to my ex boyfriend. I stopped having those dreams and now I am dreaming about another guy I know, who i also think is attractive. The dream I had lastnight was of me sneaking around with him and kissing him but never going farther for the fear of my boyfriend walking in. I knew what I was doing in my dream and still did it anyways, I was just careful. I know I wouldn’t cheat, I’d break up with him before I’d ever cheat but it worries me. My relationship does have a few problems. We’ve been dating for 3 yrs and I used to NEVER even think about other guys until recently. My boyfriend is very jealous and is convinced I am going to cheat on him so he can be controlling in some ways. i think this may be part of the reason for my dream..

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  64. i have had a dream for three days now….it’s about my boyfriend looking and flirting with other girls right in front of me.? so,i told him and he laughed…me and austen has been together for 7 months and we almost had a baby..is he falling out of love.? is it because i suck in bed?

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  65. Last night I dreamed that my boyfriend was cheating on me in front of me and I confronted him and he said that things I do make him feel rejected and he couldn’t look at me. I asked him to choose and he said he didnt love me and we were all in school (which isn’t the case) then after school I was watching him and her have sex I was looking under the bed.

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  66. I dreamt about my wife… we were together and she was gonna get her nails done at this apartment building looking place. When we go in we find this girl.. and then my wife leaves me to be with HER…. Im upset etc and even begged her not to.
    so fucked up

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  67. I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is with another woman. Last night, I dreamt he was in his military uniform and was crossing the street holding hands with another woman. I’ve never seen her before. She looks Hispanic and real pretty. They got into his car and he didn’t see/look at me but she looked directly at me. In the other dreams I seen him with other women but can’t see their face. Last night, was the first night I actually saw a face and it’s one Ive never seen nor met. Help me understand.

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  68. Lately I keep having this dream that I cheat on my boyfriend with a guy I know. I have never cheated and I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t ever. I always tell my boyfriend as we are very open with eachother, he dreams about celebs but I think it freaks him out that this is a guy we know. I have never slept with the other guy in the dream but I have wanted to. Does this just mean something is lacking in my current relationship or do I like this other guy. The thing is I don’t want to dream about the other guy as I love my boyfriend and want to be with him. Should I ignore these dreams or doea it mean something?

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  69. in my dream a friend or what seemed to be a friend was wanting to come over and hang out with me share a few drinks and she asked me did I want to have sex with her and I said ok but I needed to shower and told her so did she.She showered and finished firdt then acwent after druing taking the shower my husband came in and had her son come in and use the restroom he was only about 2-3 yrs old it seemed before making it out the restroom I seen her carressing his arm my husband and he knew she was doin it she was like giving him those secret eyes like they been had something goin on so I grabbed her and started beating her fighting demanding she tell me the truth about him and her I remember being in rage pulling her hair out and wantin and trying to destroy her she was bleeding I threatend to destroy her face if she didnt tell me what was goin on had she slept with my husband finally she admitted it they had slept together once and in my house it finally made sense to me she wasnt there to hang out with me or have sex with me… she was there to be close to him and have sex with him I was so effin pissed,betrayed,made a fool of I went to my husband I remember tearing up a bible and went to his face with anger he was replying you pushed me to it I wated to kill him and her I just remember feeling extremely angry I woke myself out of this dream only to turn around and slaped him demandimg him to tell me R U CHEATING ON ME U SOB!!! I was in conffussion mixed between a dream,anger, rage and reality WHAT DOES THIS ALL REALLY MEAN????????????????,?

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  70. Ok so my boyfriend has cheated in the very beginning of us but everythings been cleared up and we’ve moved on and are doing great. We even were married nearly a year back. I am not one to dream much but ihave had three crazy ones this. My first one, my husband (he did not look like my husband but certainly was) got on top of me and stabbed me in the neck with a knife and scissors and said something I could not understand and just left me, I also could not see his face it was all blacked out. My family took me to the ER but were treating me as if nothing big had happened. As we were leaving the ER I walked passed three marriages happening. My next dream my husband invited me to work to watch a movie on his break, in real life he tends to make the women at work seem plain and old but in Mt dream they were not at all, they were beautiful and unique and trippy looking too? After the movie his work was having a work party and all of his coworks admitted to me he’d been having an affair with a lady there and that’s why’s he been working so much overtime (he also in real life told me this was the only fairly attractive girl working there and he really has been working overtime). My next dream which was last night, we were outback hanging out with a close male and female friend we have bit both looked like women? He only wanted to hang out there with them and only talk to them. He kept ignoring me and every time I came out to see him he was closer and closer to the girls until eventually he was practically on top of her. Help pease!! What’s happening? Why? These are driving me nuts because I don’t want to tell hum my dreams in fear he’ll be upset and resort to thinking I do not trust him. I do trust him, I love him so much and these dreams are making me wake up really down on myself, I’m not a big dreamer so why all these three dreams within only 5 days?? Please help me, thank you – Nic

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  71. A few days back, I had a dream where my boyfriend asked me for a divorce.

    And then just this afternoon, someone sent me a text message telling me my boyfriend has another girl and has been sleeping with her.

    I’ve sent my boyfriend a message but he hasn’t responded yet.

    Was the dream some sort of warning? What does it mean to have a dream like that?

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  72. I have dreams sometimes where I am being emotionally involved with women other than my wife, but I never become physically involved. But somehow, even in my dream, I feel remorse and guilt. Then when I wake up, I feel guilty as well for having such a dream. I love my wife and I would never cheat on her. Why would I have a dream like this?

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  73. I was having one of my usual end-of-the-world, dark skies and burning buildings, dreams. Then a giant person who was drunk feel off a roof so I started walking outside to see what happened and my girlfriend had her legs round some mans waist, having sex with him. Is there any meaning in this mess?? Woke up feeling extremely depressed after.

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  74. I keep dreaming that my boyfriend is going to leave me.. Last night was really bad though. I dreamt that I called him and heard his best friends voice (who is female and I immensly dislike) so I hung up. the phone didn’t hang up properly and I could hear what he was saying. That he hooked up with some old friend of his at a dance and he’s waiting to see if she likes him so he can be with her….. As far as I know, he’s fine with our relationship but having these dreams is starting to create massive doubts within me, and I really love him so ei don’t know what to do. =(

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  75. Over a year ago I had started having drems about my boyfriend cheating on my with ppl from his past. I couldn’t understand why I was hving these dreams because I never thought he was being unfaithful. But about a couple months had past and I found out he was lying to me for most of our relationships and cheatin on me with girls he already knew. At that same time I found out I was pregnant. Attempted to stay with him but as time went on I found out more stuff he should have told me once I caught him. Its been almost year after that and I’m havin dreams about him cheating on me again. This time we were staying the night with his sister and her boyfriend and a mutal friend my boyfriend and his sister knew a girl. some how I fell asleep and he wasn’t next to me soo I waited then walked down the hall and saw a light on iin a room. So I tried to look under the door but it was a towel there. So I listen and it sounded like him him breathing hard. So I opened the door and too my left was my boyfriend layin down on a bed and to my right was him again. Under covers with a girl next to him. I woke him up and asked what the hell was goin on and he was shocked. Like he didn’t kno he was there. The girl said I dnt know. Then my boyfriend saw he was naked and ran out the room the girl said they were inlove. And ran after him. I over heard him saying I can’t believe u did this I was gonna tell her about us. Why did u Do this. I woke up in tears what’s could this mean?

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  76. My boyfriend has cheated twice on me and I caught him both times yhe first time he let another female spebd the night at his house and he claimed nothing happened I let it go. The second time the girl broadcasted that they went out but he never told me unitil I asked him he admitted now I had a dream this morning about him cheating again whadoes it mean dreamaster?

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  77. I had a crazy dream i found panties of a women my husband works with in his over night bag. Worst of it is in real life someone called me anonymously telling me my husband has been cheating for 2 years. My husband is NOT a cheater in my mind but why would i completely pin point a certain women from his work?? eeekkk how uncomfortable

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  78. Dear Dream Master,

    My partner and I have been together for 4 long years. We have a 3 yr old little girl who was a miracle from birth at 2lbs. 3oz. We have had an amazing relationship. Over the last year things seem to be falling apart. I kissed a man, (not my partner) in real life. I had a dream that he and his ex and him were riding in the truck. She was riding in the middle seat in the front which he tells me I can’t because of the things in the console. As I approached them, he made her move over. He made me ride in the back seat! This dream went on all night, with the two of them! I woke up several times to check if he was still there. Each time I would drift off to sleep, the dream would continue. I feel so worried that he is cheating. He works all day and doesn’t get home til late sometimes. He doesn’t call me like he used to, but yet he tells me its because I never have anything to say. I’m so confused!!! Is he really cheating or is it just all in my head?? Please HELP!!!!

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  79. Hi,

    I had a dream that my wife was cheating on me. This is the second time this month I have had this dream. I was looking though the window and she was with another man I was calling her and calling her she wouldnt hear me and then i broke the window I called her as i got closer and she just smiled at me and gave me the look like she did nothing wrong. I was heading twords her to grab her and i woke up. what does it mean?

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  80. I had a dream that I woke up in bed with my best friend.. I was looking for my boyfriend & didn’t find him.. but I heard the beep of his phone so I went to go look for him. I walked around this house & found his phone on the floor..
    I heard my friend laughing so I went back to the room to find my boyfriend & her in bed together… I freaked out & hit him, asked him how he could do this when I am carrying his child…
    than my phone rang woke me up and it was my best friend who was in the dream …
    she told me that it’s only a dream, to laugh it off.

    I know neither of them would ever do that, I dont know why I would ever dream such a thing..

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  81. I had a dream that someone told me I sleep with one of my husbands friends. I kept saying that I didn’t, Nothing like that ever happened. Then my husband drove up to pick me up and when I looked at him he was so sad, truly sad and he couldn’t even look at me and he knew what they were saying. I was trying to explain to him that I didn’t do anything and there was nothing to worry about. this dream freaked me out it seemed so real. What does this mean?

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  82. Hi I love my husband,but last night I dreamt that we were in a car and my husbands riends was driving and his girlfriend was in the back with us. Everything kind of jumped and all of a sudden my husband had his arms around this girl,kisses and that nothing more. So I got angry and started hitting out at them crying and screaming,as I could see it all in front of them. The girl had move across opposite my husband and started to spread her legs to him and he was obv trying to look there. I’m really confused what does this mean?

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  83. I had a dream that my current boyfriend/baby daddy admitted to me that he had cheated on me even though he swore on his late uncle tht he didnt. A similar situation happened in reality. A girl told me that my boyfriend had been sexually intimate with her for the past 5 weeks. When I confronted him, he swore on his uncle and our son that he didnt cheat on me. I forgave him but I still have that doubt in my head. Help!

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  84. I had a dream last night that my new lover was flirting with a girl and he knew i was watching….then after he went into the room across from me upstairs and i heard the girl say to him “are you sure its okay?” my lover said “yes she doesn’t mind”. Then later i talked to him in the room that i was in and he said to me “that we can be lovers but I’m still going to be with others” can someone please tell me what that means?

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  85. Hi, I had a very vivid dream last night. I had a dream that someone at work who works above me was considering cheating on his long-time partner (they’re in a civil union) with me. I have developed a bit of a crush on this person, but these feelings I find are mostly childish because he is about 27 and I’m only 19. We have a lot in common and seem to have the same sense of humour. I dreamt that we were all going out as friends to eat after work, and he initially didn’t want to come out. I convinced him to come because at the end of the day, he is a friend of mine. We work in retail and he asked me (in the middle of our work shift) to go help him find something to wear. I said yes, and we looked at a few different stores. There was a lot of flirting taking place here, and at one point, our hands met. I remember thinking maybe I should pull away because this is clearly inappropriate of us, but he held onto my hand. He spun me around playfully and we sort of embraced. I kissed him on the cheek. Nothing overly sexual occured in the dream, but I’m finding it hard coming across any websites that describe you being the person another person cheats on their partner with. I would never do this in real life because I respect our boundaries. But sometimes when I’m with him I think we have so much in common and if only he weren’t taken and our ages weren’t so far apart, we’d be a good match. He says sometimes he sees a lot of himself in me, and I do flirt with him from time to time. I’m not sure what his reception to it is, but he seems playful from time to time. Please help me interpret this dream!

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  86. I just had a dream where I was visiting my boyfriend at a new flat he shared with 3 girls, all completely different. They were going out and while getting ready one asked me about my relationship. I was telling them how long we’d been together when she cut across and said to my boyfriend “wow that’s amazing how long you’ve been together, how did you get out of it for 9 months?” I didn’t understand and all the girls tried to stop me following him but I did and he was in his room. The room had two single beds and turned out he shared the room with one of the girls but hadn’t cheated with them. I asked him what the girl could have meant and he wouldn’t answer me so kept asking then started packing to leave. He wasnt trying to stop me just sitting on the bed watching me. Then the girl that said something before came to the room and said “I hope everythings ok now you know the truth” then my boyfriend said he’d cheated ages ago in our relationship. I asked him if it was drunken one night stands and he said yes. He said after that time he felt that he knew he loved
    me and stopped. But the thing is that I don’t get about the dream is that he’d cheated ages ago in the dream and we were happy when the dream was set…

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  87. I want to say firsf off my husband and I have a great relationship. He spoils me and gets me whatever I want. We argue once a month maybe. I don’t like him looking at other girls bc I am not skinny by all means. But I have constant dreams about him cheating on me. Like 1 dream a week over the past years. He cheats on me w my sister in law. His own brother wife. I have had that dream 2 times. My sister in law is very skinny and pretty. Now I don’t want my husband going near her. The other dreams are with random skinny girls I don’t know. I have these dreams all the time. I love my husband and he loves me. He is really good to me. He doesn’t go out w his work friends without me. He goes straight to work and straight home. He wouldn’t have time to cheat on me in real life. But y do I have these dreams. What do they mean?? Is there some kind of meds u can take for them ti stop??

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  88. I had a dream that my husband and I went into a building and each door we opened had different things, some doors had people doing drugs then we went down a different hallway and we opened one door there were two girls having sex we closed the door and walked on and opened another door and in this door there was a girl naked and my husband said let’s go in! So we went in and shut the door behind us! Then my husband told me to get naked and he got naked and he started having sex with this woman in the “doggy style” position, and she was quite so he looked at her face and I said he don’t feel that good and she said oh I think he’s great and he had this look on his face like it felt so good and he said to me she’s so tight so much better then you! And then that girl started “licking” me [no offense to anyone but that grossed me out]!!! then I woke up!!! What does this mean?? Because the hurt I felt in my dream feels so real!! 🙁

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  89. I had a dream that my husband cheated on me. He like threw it in my face with no remorse. We argued and he began to pack up his stuff to move out. He was saying with a laugh in his voice. Two nights before that, I dreamt that he died and I went to his funeral. I dont know why he died but all I kept saying in my dream was 3rd times a charm cause in real life my first husband died and now the second one in my dream. What is the reason for this? Its weirding me out and need to know why my brain is sending this stuff to me. thanks

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  90. I have been having dreams recently of my husband cheating on me with multiple people, in the dream its raining and im holding our 2 month old son and im going through his cell phone and i see that there are pictures of other women half naked. I also go through his contacts and recent calls afterwards and see numerous female names. After I start to cry, his best friend comes up to me and tells me to just forgive him because its his fault, because he allows him to meet these women and get drunk and have sexual relations with them.. in the dream i tell my husband its finally over and I want a divorce and he starts to cry and tells me those women didnt mean anything but then goes on with his life… What does this mean?

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  91. I’ve recently just got my heartbroken from a 2yr and half relationship….but I keep having dreams of him telling me he cheated he was sleeping with another girl and so on, also of them kissing and all….it so bad I cant sleep….when we broke up we both understood it was for the best but I still wanted to be in it….still do …..i dunno what this means but it hurts….

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    • i dont know much about dream interpretation and analysis but i can kind of generate some meaning from this dream. wat i think about this dream is that u had this dream, maybe, because u were thinking too much about this relationship, and because u r heart broken. but this dream might be a message for u conveying that it was probably for the good that you guys broke up. because he might have cheated on u later and it would hurt you, just liek its hurting you right now by even having a dream like that.

      i hope u understand wat i mean.
      nd im sorry for wat happened. i hope u feel better 🙂

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  92. Every night for about 2 weeks I have had the same basic dream, that my girlfriend is flirting and getting too close to other guys. It’s always different situations but it’s the same… Plot… She is pregnant with someone elses kid. He dumped her a few months before we got together. She says she didnt want to stay with him anyway blah blah. It’s not always her ex it’s also random guys. I wake up mad at her which isn’t fair to her

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  93. I really hate to bother you but I can’t fall back asleep after this dream I had. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and have been through really bad stuff with men in the past so I have major trust issues to work through. So anyways in the dream he meets this girl and says I remember you we used to hang out and hookup and then they talked about how excited they were to go to the bar. Finally at one point he tells her he wants to do stuff with her and the whole time for all of this I’m standing right there! I run out out of the house with my dance bag (wierd) and he chases after me and I’m like crying saying I would never do that to you and he’s like I know your not that kind of person and I’m like well obviously you are and then he didn’t say anything and I woke up. Please help me!! Is this any indication of anything I should look out for?

    P.S If this helps he went to the bar yesterday and I’m never comfortable with this.

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  94. i had a dream that i woke up and my husband wasnt in the bed so i walked in the hallway and asked my mom in law where he was which at that time i looked down the hall and in his parents room he was laying with a fat blonde chick under the covers and when i seen them i punched the window that was next to me and instead of me yelling at him he yelled at me saying i can do what i want and you dont have a say about it.

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  95. I had a dream i was at a party with the boyfriend and we were there for awhile….. then when we both started to get abit intoxicated and i lost him, couldnt find him anywhere so i ran around the house trying to find him.. I yelled out his name a few times and still nothing. I then heard a creek of a bed and i look up (it was a bunk bed) and i see him and as i get closer theres another girl and i go “what he hell are you doing??” Hes says nothing, i go to grab the girl and take her off the bed and shes goes excuse me…. Im hot and your not, thats why hes with me. so i pick her up and throw her off the bunk bed.. i say to my boyfriend what are u doing? lets go home now.. and he says no.. how about i never message you or call you again? And i say what, why? And he rights out a list but i dont get to see it… all i see is 4 ticks and 1 cross… what does it mean ><

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  96. just want to know the explanation of my dream, one morning my husband crush came to me and ask my permition if she can say to my husaband that today is her birthday, i dont want to show to her that i am jealous so i said ok, and she went to my husband and say, Hey today is my birthday, and my husband said to her that yeah! happy birthday, and he gave her money, big amount to spend her birthday, my husband thinks that i didnt saw him giving that a girl a big amount, and i get pissed, cause in reality, he didnt give me any amount on my birthday and then i will saw on my dream that he would give that girl a money,.. i was just confused, cause i know that in reality, that girl likes my husband too. pls i want the explanation on that dreams hope u can help me.. thanks

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  97. I had the most disturbing dream about my husband cheating on me and want to know what the interpretation of it could mean. We were in our apartment and I walked out into the living room and my husband was sitting on the couch with one of his friends(a girl obviously)from high school and she was on top of him and they were goin at it having sex right in front of me. I sat down on the couch and just looked at him like “why are you doing this?” But i didn’t yell or try to break it up or anything. I just sat on the other couch watching in complete pain that he was cheating on me right in front of me and it was like even if i would have said something they weren’t gonna stop anyways. It was sooo weird and painful to even think of that dream. Why would I have a dream like that??

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  98. I have this dream on a regular basis. The senario is always different but the girl my husband is cheating with in the dream is always his ex gf from almost ten years ago. Who I have always disliked due to personal reasons. We went to school together and she was always a complete B**** to me.

    So now since my husband and I have been together for 5 yrs I have dreams that she comes back to town and takes my husband away. The scenarios seem so real and it crushes me. Sometimes I even beat her up in my dreams.

    Sometimes my husband denies her attempts of taking him from me but other times he will cheat right infront of me and not even care that hes just hurt me.

    I just find it strange that my dreams of my husband cheating are always with the same person.

    If you can give me an idea as to why these dreams keep reoccuring it would be great so I can address the situation.

    Thank you

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  99. Hi lastnight i dreamed that my boyfriend was cuddling with my sister in a motel room they had clothes on but they were kissing i was really jealous and crying and so mad at them and i told them to leave, after apologizng they left holding hands

    In real life they hate each other my sister cant even look at him

    What does this dream means? :S

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    • I dreamed last night that my sister asked my husband to help her up off the floor as I was walking into the bathroom. I didn’t close the door all the way as to see what was happening. He helped her up but lifted her up as to hold he on his grondand the started kissing. I busted out of the bathroom and he lied to me that it didn’t happen even though I saw them. It beat them up and for a divorce. They don’t even really know each other because Im not close to my sister. So that was strange.

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  100. I had a dream last night that I was looking through my partners phone and I found texts from all different girls and there was one from this girl and I was trying to read it all but my mind kept going blurry and all I could read was that she was asking him to move to a different country with her to get away from it all, and then I confronted him about it and he says that he is moving away with her because the world is going to end soon and he wanted to be somewhere else and not with me becuase he didn’t feel happy with me.

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  101. I keep having recurring dreams of my best friend laying in my bed. Each time I have this dream it intensifies sexually. First dream, she is laying in bed with me on my husband’s side of the bed. The second dream she comes on to me sexually. The last dream, she’s in bed with me and my husband having a threesome. This really grossed me out because I don’t think about her like this!

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  102. Hi dream master!
    I had this dream that my bf was giving big allowances to the other girl, then there was a common friend that confirmed that my bf and that girl was in 4 yrs relationship already…i was crying and i did break-up w/ him in my dream… what does it mean? please help1

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  103. I had a dream last night that my brothers two ex girlfriends who cheated on him came and told me that his current girlfriend is cheating on him… He accuses her of cheating but she is faithful to him… what does this dream mean

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  104. My boyfriend has cheated on me in the past. I pretty much knew so at the time but the truth didnt actually come out until a year later after we broke up. When I found out I really wanted to fix our relationship but he immediatly started seeing someone else casually and then me at the same time. Now its just me and him and I have dreams about him cheating on me with multiple people sometimes five in a night and then I see myself doing whatever he wants and begging for him back. I think its kinda pathetic. What does this mean?

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  105. Hi DM..

    I have this dream where im pregnant . . I get home and go upstairs to the bedroom and i find my boyfriend (we’ve been dating for 3years), , having sex with another girl.. I turn away and run but trip on my dress and lose the baby.. What does this mean?? It scares me ..

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  106. My boyfriend had a dream that he cheated on me with a girl he knows. He hardly ever speaks to her in reality and if they do talk it’s only small chat!
    Now, he said she was in the bed with him in the ‘nightmare’ but they never had sex and he told me it happened a week ago and he can’t really remember what happened but they definitely didn’t do the deed.
    He said he finds her ugly!
    I suffer with paranoia and anorexia and depression so hearing this didn’t sit too well with me and the fact that we are in a long distance relationship means we don’t get to see each other in person often!
    We talk all the time and most of our evenings are spent on Skype so I know he wouldn’t be cheating on me and he wouldn’t pay half of my flight fare to go over and see him and I don’t think he’d pay a lot of money to come over and see me, if he were cheating.
    He has apologize so many times and he really felt bad and he was crying over it too.
    So, I really would like to know why he had a ‘nightmare’ about this chick if he really does find her ugly?

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  107. I had a dream just now that my partner was leading me on just to tell me that he was cheating with someone. I didn’t react well in this dream because I was also 7mths pregnant in the dream. He did not care nothing about me anymore, or my baby! So my reaction to that was to grab a gun. I went looking for him but I could not find him, so I killed his new lover (get this, she had a name I never heard of. Mrs. Andrea)
    I felt so justified but I was still so devasted that he did this to me, left me with his unborn, and moved on. So I put the trigger to my head…..and I awoken before I had the chance to pull the trigger. That the heck is going on!!!!!

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  108. i dreamed that my husband says that he is meeting up sometimes with his ex-gf(in real life thats the girl that became part of his life before when we broke up when we are still young) , that they are seeing each other sometimes and in my dream Im wondering why he told me that infront of our children, I was thinking that he is just making a story just to make me jealous.. I asked him in private if what he said was all true and why..he just said that he is having another person to do that for him… so he’ll know all abouts that girl.
    Before, I dreamed also that he cheated on me..I saw him with a girl with long hair,sexy and tall. I went to them and asked him who is that girl..he said that they are tired of me so they are leaving..both of them!

    In real life,is it all going to happen?

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  109. i dreamt that my boyfriend was being friendly with an ex. He told me who she was and that he is just friends with her, and he too can have female friends. For some stupid reason i let him go out for lunch with her. When he came back he was eating from a dinner plate in his car which to that i asked ‘why didnt u eat while u wer out?’ he replied ‘she had to go so i left’ then i said ‘oh well u could have stayed with her for longer u kno’ he says ‘nah she had a flight to london’ (seriously why would i say that?)
    Im not sure if this is cheating because i never saw them together. The only time was seeing them off in the car, when i said bye to my boyfriend and we touched hands and slowly let go.
    I will also add that his ex and i texted each other a few times lauging about some other girl whom my boyfriend also knew…
    Confusion???

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  110. I have been with my current boyfriend for about a year now. We went to high school together (he was a senior when i was a freshman) and have run into each other multiple times, but never any fling or even friendship. I had a lot of “uh oh’s” in high school regarding hooking up (kissing, foreplay, sex, either or) and ever since we started dating (he had only one long relationship for 3 years with a model but also who had no personality and sincerely was conceited and dull. anyway, my boyfriend still has trust issues to this day, though they have improved a lot over time. he has been in afghanistan for 4 months now and is coming home in a month or so. a couple weeks ago i was drinking tequila..he was kind of enticing me..and bam. we had sex. he was also in his (my bf’s) grade and we had a lot of chemistry and had dated for idk, a month or so back 2 times in high school.

    my dream last night haunts me. i dreamt i had a date with the guy i cheated with and then went to his house to have intense long sex, then went to my house to have intense long sex. i woke up feeling a pit of guilt as i don’t want to break up with my boyfriend, i have sort of a sexual interest but nothing like EVER wanting to cheat again. in fact after i had cheated in real life that was my conclusion that (i was having doubts in how much i truly loved my bf since he is like a nun and i was the skank in high school, but i’m also an optimist, a biochem major and philosophy minor, and am a fan of forgiving but not forgetting. also, that the past is not changeable and it is the present we must focus on to determine our future. his realist qualities have been bugging me for a while hence why i had confusion. but when i cheated in real life the confusion lifted as i didn’t feel right at all and it came to me that my boyfriend, as polar opposites as we are, is a rare protective and (sincerely) loves me to death. he is so in love that he acts impulsively angry at a “wrong” action i had done recently such as “have a get together with the girls and got really drunk” and he does it because no one else has been able to drive him that crazy enough to care so much and in the end it’s out of love and he ends up apologizing.

    so, in conclusion, what the hell do i do?! i love my boyfriend, we are on rough terms right now and makes me anxious as hell as he returns in a month, but I HAD THIS DREAM…period. i still love my boyfriend and have no intentions of cheating..i feel i should let this dream slide. or should i?

    please help me, i am so lost and confused.
    your help would be greatly appreciated.

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  111. I had a dream that my girlfriend had a sex change and wanted to sleep with one of my female friends, what does this mean?

    Also in a different dream someone close to me was seriously injured and I called an ambulance and it wouldn’t come, what does this mean?

    Thanks

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  112. I really hope somebody can help me with this? My husband for several months now wakes at night with disturbing images. They started off as shadows of person/people not much detail but enough to worry/upset him and disturb his sleep almost every night. He was going through a stressful time at work and we both put it down to this. It got so bad that he would sleep downstairs with the light on as he was (typical man not wanting to admit this) scared of what he might see if closed his eyes/was in darkness. Originally he thought the house was haunted etc. Then they started to change to images of myself, his wife having sex with multiple partners and he couldn’t stop these images appearing as much as he tried so he reverted to going back downstairs and watching tv with the lights on to stop the images as obviously he is finding them upsetting. The latest one last night was me marrying somebody else and then participating in some dodgy deals with other men??!! I personally am worried sick that something is seriously/mentally wrong with him. He is also ‘off’ with me the following morning and I think he is starting to look into these images as some kind of sign/warning about me and it is affecting our life.

    Please note I have never cheated or given him cause to believe I have and I believe the same of him also, we are in a loving, committed marriage with two young children. I am at a complete loss of how to help him we have visited the GP and not received much help really do not know where to go with this please help.

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  113. i have a recurring dream that i discover my partner of 5 years has been cheating on me and concealing it our whole relationship with various women. what does it mean?

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  114. I had a dream that I dragged my partner into a shower and then I hopped into a spa with some of my friends across from him.. we were clothed he was naked…He was being an idiot in the shower across from us ( as you could only see the shape and colour of him through the screen)..anyway I started talking to my mates and turned around to notice he had an erection….anyway I sat there looking and admiring his shape through the screen when I noticed another person through the screen…she was grabing his penis…and he dide not do anything…I walked up to the shower and pulled the screen back and there was a blonde in the shower with him and when I confronted him about what I had seen he said he was sorry….I got really angry and started yelling and crying and walked out of the room yelling go see your new girlfriend…after a few minutes I went back into talk to him because I was trying to convince myself I might be able to forgive him and to let him explain himself..when I walked in he was hugging her in the shower naked….the same way that he hugs me when we are in the shower together….I asked him how he was going to get him self out of this on and he lifted her legs around his hips (I am not sure if it was for sexual purpses or to get her off of him) but in my dream my eyes focesed on his hand grabbing her legs and lifting them…after that I just remember grabbing the girl and wacking her head into a wall a couple of times… and draging her away from him and the room and threating to charge her with sexual harrasment…and worring that she was going to charge me with assult…then I woke up and I was really worried and upset..when my boyfriend asked me what was wrong i told him about my dream and he told me not to worry that it was just a dream and he loved me….and then he said he had a dream about him dumping me because I was telling everyone about our sexlife…and in it he said he got really mad and started trashing the room…I am really worried about this dream and his…I love my boyfriend and I know he does not beleive in cheating but that does not mean I have never felt insecure about it…please help as I am so sick of feeling insecure when I know I trust him

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  115. I had a dream last night that I was trying to leave school so I told my teacher that my grandmother was just rushed to the emergency room, even though in my dream I knew it was a lie (horrible I know) anyways while I was trying to get a hold of my mom to confirm.. by calling the wrong number… there was this boy in the office and he came up and started flirting with me. in real life, I know this boy from middle school but he doesn’t have any importantance to me, I actually don’t remember his name. anyways in my dream, I flirted back and then he kissed me and we began to kiss for a while and then my dream just ended with me laying on his chest. I wouldn’t really think too much of this dream if in real life I didn’t have a boyfriend but I do. it concerns me that in my dream he just didn’t exist. I love my man, even though I haven’t told him yet, and we are going through a hard time, I don’t want anyone else, I love him. but maybe he doesn’t feel the same and my dreams are telling me to move on… I don’t know.

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  116. i had seen that my husband gone to another city and marrying unknown girl, i cant see her face but my husband face was is in disharted mood with me and i am crying and thinking why he is doing this.
    Please interprate this dream. i am very much confused and worried with this dream

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  117. My husband has cheated one time in the past. No sex but still cheated. It was just 11 months ago that this happened.
    But in those 11 months, I have had 3 or 4 dreams that he is still cheating. We have gone to counseling and though I don’t 100% trust him again, I do not think he is cheating.

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  118. I had a dream that my wife called me the phone and told me that she had slept with another man and she gave his name but for the life of me i cant remember the name. Then she came home and started telling me in person. The funny part is my father and mother were there and my father was the more prominent parent in the dream. As I started to confront my wife i was furious i wanted to punch her in the leg or something cause i was so upset. My father tried to stop me and I lashed out at him and told him that we could fight if he interfered and he back down. Then i continued to confront my wife infuriated and crying and i asked her why she cheated and how could she when she promised she would never destroy the trust in our relationship. Especially when it took so long for me to let my guard down and trust her fully. I also asked what about the baby we where planning to have. I asked her if all the times she went out with friends while i was away was she seeing him and she replied yes. Then i woke up. What does this dream mean.

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  119. i dreamed that my boyfriend got another woman pregnant..though the girl isn’t after marriage, she’s just after the recognition of my boyfriend that it’s his..then when i came to talk to him about it, he was thinking if maybe he got another one pregnant too. the first girl, we both know them during our college days, but the second one, he has no idea who she is and she is my co-worker at the moment. what does this mean? it’s been quite a few consecutive dreams that someone is pregnant or im pregnant.. pls help.

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  120. i had alwyz a dream that my one shoe has been lost,whether i went any where ,when i want to put on my shoe ,i could not find that.it has been occuring since 3 years,i m married,having one son.but during pregnancy i used to see this dream many times,plz help m?i would b very thankful to y for this favour

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  121. in real life my husband and I are in jail. Weve had a crappy past where i dont feel like he cares about me or our kids. I told him I dont want to be with him anymore. As far As I knew he wants to be with me and our family when he gets out of jail but i cant deal with him anymore. I still love him though.

    Last night I had a dream that I saw him with his ex girlfriend (he cheated on me with her the first year we were together). I was so mad in my dream, I wanted to be with him and try to convince him that I am the one for him, but he told me he has no interest in being with me anymore, that he wants to be with her, and he never really wanted to be with me ever.

    I woke up and now I am in such a cruddy mood. What do you think this means? Why would I be desperate for him in my dream?

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  122. Hi, I have been having this recurring dream that my partner of 3 years is having an affair.
    In the dream he is with another man and they have been in a relationship for many years longer than he had been with me.
    In the dream he is very open about telling me and he tells me that he was just usuing me for 3 years as a cover. But now he doesn’t want me.

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  123. Had another dream that I was married to my cousin. I was living with him and his mother with my child. In the dream I was not working and stay in the house. I seemed to be very unhappy and sad but in a sense I was ok.

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  124. Hi dream master,
    My wife had a dream that i am in my parents home and my parents forced me to marry with an other woman, and she is in the bed room in bridle dress.
    After this dream she is very upset. There is nothing like this in real life. She had this dream repetedly and today i also saw in dream that i got married with other woman and my both wives are fighting each other.
    Please guide us.

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  125. i’ve been having this recurring dream of my boyfriend cheating on me with a different girl in my dreams every night right in front of me.

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  126. Hello, I think first I have to explain the sleeping stage I was in. It was around 9am when I woke up and decided to keep sleeping around 10am. So my dream didn’t happen on a full night sleep but some time in between falling back to sleep at 10am and waking up again at 11am.
    Basically in the dream; I walked in my boyfriend’s bedroom (he lives by himself and I stay over most of the time) and he was in his walking closet against a corner and I could see a girl’s legs kneeling in front of him. There were some clothes in the way so the middle of their bodies weren’t showing. A few seconds later she got up and they started making out! To my surprise also the female was this girl I knew from back in elementary school!! Weird. We were somewhat friends back then, but not since then. I’m 24 now and live in another state. Therefore I think me knowing the female from way back means something else. Please help, I know he’s a good man and his mother loves me too. I just wanna get these thoughts out of my head. Also this does not happen often, this is actually my first dream about him in that manner. Thank you!!

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  127. I had a dream that my husband cheated on me with this girl that comes to his place of work and talks to him for hours. that same day we were both together and i saw her in a car right next to me at a red light, what a coincidence i say. I ask my husband her name he says he does not no, her no or nothing about her but funny they can talk for hours.

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  128. omg, ! last night two my bf had a dream we murdered someone together, & then i cheated on him with an got pregnant. but he still stayed with me. then my best friend had a dream we were drivin around and the popo started chasin us and we fell into water but the car exploded and there was fire on top of the water and we died. does anyone think it’s a sign or am i just bein paranoid?

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  129. I’ve. Been having dreams of my bf cheating on me with my girl causin…me and my causin already envy each other…but he still likes her even though she has a kid…she shows out infront of him in the dream and he always fall for it and I’m the idiot that always give him another chance. Anyway I always wake up wanting to hurt him as much as he hurted me in my dream I hit him all the time and I get really upset that I cry and I will stay in the restroom for hours because of drfeams like that..and he always say that I would not do that she’s not my type and I’m in love with you and only you…it makes me cry I think part og the reasons I have these dreams is because as we were broken for a week in the past he say that he needs a break so he can gain his thoughts and I found a text message on his phone saying that he miss this other girl and he’s thinking about her all the time…you don’t knolw how that made me feel he was telling me to give him a week to think and we will get back together bugt he’s cheating on me withh sum other chick…but uhh I forgvave him and we leaved happy For about 1month then I caught him watching porno on my phone wtf that even made it worst with these friggin dreams…idk what to do everyday I feel like crying because of him…he’s the only boy I’ve been with in my whole life he’s my first boyfriend ever we have been together about 2years and 4 months now…oh yea I’m not his first girlfriend though he been in love 2 times before me but he was still a virgin because he was all about his money at the time…well idk feels good to get this out even if no one responds it feels good to tell people who understand and don’t judge me

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  130. Hi. I saw that my wife betrayed me and I divorced her. It made me really sad but eventually, my family introduced me to another girl and I lived happily every after with my new wife. I am very confused by this dream. What could this mean?

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  131. I had a dream where I was with my fiancee, and he was on this website, chatting ,well then he posted something like, “Anyone wanna fxck?” and a bunch of girls began replying,well I had asked him why he was doing that?And he just laughed and said it was harmless fun,then he got up,and I went through the emails there was multiple pictures of nude girls all over the place. He had left. I went and told his aunt and she was angry too, then all of a sudden my mom was there, and they both were angry, and I called my fiance and demanded he return to the house and he was like I don’t wanna deal with you right now. I’m busy. I’ll just go pick up your ring later. I was like don’t you owe me an explanation as to why you would do this to me? He was like no, I really don’t, I woke up crying after this dream. I had this dream while my fiance was in another state with family. What does it mean??

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  132. i been hearing that my now husband has cheating on me before.ever time i ask him he just says that he never cheating on me.but the other day ask this girl that how she know that he cheat on me.than she started saying she dont know but one day her boyfriend was mad than when she ake him what wrong her boyfriend wont tell her but he was mad beacause my boyfriend was in the room with some other girl he like, and when i asked my husband he say that it was a lay and he would neve do that to me.that he never cheat on me. so i went know should i beleve him.

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    • I’m sorry sweetheart, but you deserve better then some guy who would rather be with someone else, once a guy cheats he’s always going to be a cheater.

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  133. I have a lot of cheating dreams, sometimes it’s me and sometimes it’s my boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The dream I had last night my boyfriend and I were at home and a girl knocked on our door and she had dark hair and she told us that she was pregnant with my bf’s child. she was just a few months along. she also mentioned that it happened when he went on a business trip about 4 or 5 months ago. Please what does this mean??
    These types of dreams really get to me emotionally…

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  134. hi dream master,
    i dream that my boyfriend was having sex with a virgin girl on my bed. he seems mad at me and they both ignore me when i ask them to stop. (i don’t know the girl) we all were calm (no drama, no arguing) and as i realized that they won’t listen to me, I stared to organize my clothes (almost next to them).
    please help me, I’m really sad and i cant forget about this dream
    thank you

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  135. hello dream master.my boyfriend had an affair with a girl for quite sometime…and i confirmed that thru his cel. on that same day she called the girl and dumb her…and chose me instead. and now we are strating a new relationship.this is my real world and this happened aug 2010. just today…i had a dream of my bf. his mobile rang and this same girl called him. they talk but i grabbed the phone and asked if she wanted my bf back. the girl said that my bf wants her back and is planning to go to her place. so i said to the girl that i need to break up with my bf on that same day and if she still wants to have him, the girl can have him.
    while walking on the streets, i saw a couple newly wed coming out from the door and happy. i saw the wifes dress all in white, and i feel so sad that time, that i will not have my chance to get married and wear a wedding dress. i kneeled on the floor and crying out loud with pain, then i saw a lady in black dress kneeling crying also the same as me.

    on this same dream i had heart to heart talk to my bf…and i have asked him if he wants to break up and leave me, but he said “he doesnt want to leave me, he doesnt want me to get hurt”….

    please help me interpret my dream….what should i do next

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  136. hi, i had a dream where i saw that my brother in law was caught cheating on my sister.. i dont remember much but i think the other womans name was mentioned and they had an argument.. i did not actually see him cheating on her, but i think my sister did.. please help.. i am constantly thinking about it.

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  137. Hi. I need help I’m going crazy I keep having dream of my husband cheating on me with my sister and he admits to it in my dream. I’m going crazy its affecting my married life and my relationship with my sister. Please help.

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  138. Hi DreamMaster, I had a very disturbing dream that I can’t get out of my head I’m hoping you can help me.

    I dreamed that I was at my parents place there were about 4-6 people there, all family and 2 of them were arguing behind me, suddenly where I was standing turned into an outdoor area but behind me was still the the front half of the living room of my parents place, there was a guy in front of me, there was some sort of issue going on about him (i can’t remember) I started hitting so hard that I realised he went limp on the floor and that i had killed him! (This guy was identical to Adam Sanderland the actor who also looks exactly like my ex boyfriend). .. . .. I then chopped the top half of his body up in pieces and put him in bags!!!!!(I don’t know what happened to the bottom half) The place where i was standing then changed completely back to my parents living room. My parents were expecting someone to come over, I was panicking I didn’t want anyone to see what I had done there was a big commotion and they all promised that none of this would leak outside and to just relax. Then the thought of the police and jail came to me and I became VERY anxious and scared. I couldn’t believe what had just happened, but to my surprise I looked at my hands and there was hardly any blood only a drop or two and I no longer could see the bags with body pieces in it. I then asked myself did this really happen? then all around me changed as if my mind played a trick on me and the man that I killed was alive and was laughing at me, turned out that I hit and chopped up a mannequin. In the dream I knew that it was true and that I had infact killed someone, but in that last part of the dream I just accepted the trick that my min had payed on me that I didn’t kill anyone and that I misunderstood what had happened.

    Im not sure if this helps at all, but every night for the past couple of weeks I’ve been dreaming about people in my past, my yr2 teacher, school, school friends etc in particular for some reason. . . I’m in my mid 20s and I’m married – not sure if that helps your explanation, I’m hoping you’ll be able to help me.

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  139. i had 2 dreams last night. the first one was that we were having a work party at my friends parents house, and i was looking for my boyfriend. i was asking everyone if they knew were he was. and noone knew. finally my boyfriend came in the back door and he was very drunk. he looked like he wanted to tell me something. i knew it was about a break up and i dint want to hear it so i forced myself to wake up.
    when i finally fell back asleep, it seemed like the dream continued. except now we were at my moms house, i went down stairs to fall asleep and thought my boyfriend was coming in a few minutes. i let my pregnant friend sleep on the couch in the living room upstairs, and my boyfriend was watching tv in the living room with her. so when i woke up in my dream, i went upstairs and he was still on the couch with her.
    i told both of them to get out of my moms house. so they went on the porch i asked him if he cheated on me and he looked at me and said yes. i asked him why and he said it was because he felt like our relationship was too final. so i told him to walk home and never talk to me again. i also told my pregnant friend to walk home too and to never talk to me again. this whole time i was crying.
    i woke myself up again and i was sweating really bad. and started crying. and i had a headache.
    what does this dream mean?

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  140. hi, i had a dream where i was chit-chatting with my cousin (a girl) and i was sitting in my boyfriend’s lap while he cuddled me, but all of sudden he move forward to kiss my cousin, right in front of me, i was just like shocked, and shove him away, i said get out, but he stood still, then i yell outloud to make him away, then i keep continue chit chat with my cousin, but then the talking no more interesting both of us, she’s about to cry and ran away, then i realize i’ve got hurt deeply, i cried and sobbed my heart out, then he came again, i’m not sure whether to comfort or just like reach me, but i keep crying, then i wake up. i still felt like my heart crying and sobbing for the incident. it’s my first time i have a dream like this, so upsetting me, because the girl was the closest cousin i have.

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  141. I have been with my partner, well, for almost a year now, however, we have not been together since this past May. During the relationship I’ve always had suspicions of him cheating and it didn’t help reading messages or listening to voicemails of females that were expressing their like for him.

    A couple weeks ago I received a letter from one of these females, of course telling me of all the things her and boyfriend did..it really upsetted me. I hadn’t mentioned the details to him because he always denies the information. So why waste my time?

    Anyway, its a couple weeks down the line and he’s in jail for some past accusations. Just last night I had a dream of him sleeping with another female in my bed. I had came home from shopping and saw them laying in my bed. I didn’t yell or anything…I just told the both of them to get out. He wanted to call me but I just ignored his request and they left. I kept waking up throughout the night to use the bathroom (by the way, im pregnant) and everytime I went back to sleep, the dream continued. Except I was sleeping on a separate couch from him. We had not talked until I was about to wake up.

    What does this all mean because it is bothering me really bad?

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  142. I been having continue dreams of my partner being with this girl he use to date. The dreams are me either watching them kiss or her sitting on his lap and him touching her leg! The dreams have been going of and on.

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  143. i had a dream last night that my partner caught up with an ex he had not told me about before. she was an older woman who looked like his mother somewhat, and he used to work with her. (in reality me and my partner currently work together) in the dream they caught up and he showed me her they didnt cheat but i was angry i was lied too about this one ex. why was she concealed? i then met her husband and wondered in the dream if he knew the two dated i wanted to tell him but my partner got angry that i was going to tell him.
    i woke up very upset.

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  144. i had a dream that my boyfriend was going to marry someone else, i didn’t find out till the day of the wedding. i could see he didn’t want to do it but it was like he was pressured in to it cos it was his brothers wifes sister. he left her at the alter for me? (We are about to get engaged does this mean anything)

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  145. Hey dream master;
    I had a recent dream of a friend of mine that is very close to me. She and I go camping, hiking, skiing, fishing; etc…
    We have only known each other for a year and me and her boyfriends are also close we have known each other for a while. Any way the other night I had dreamt that me and her where having sex and we both loved it as well as after the sex she started to call me husband. And we acted like husband and wife for the rest of the dream living in a new house together that I’ve never seen before. If you could help that would be great. Thanks.

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  146. I dreamt that I was in bed naked with my husband and his ex sis-in-law. In that dream the ex sis-in-law lay in between me and my husband. What surprised me was that I was not upset in that dream, in fact I sort of told my husband to kiss her body. Pls interpret this dream for me. Thanks

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  147. Hi,

    I had a dream that my husband left me for a chinese woman that he met online. In the dream, he left to China for a week, then came back telling me that she was pregnant, and was coming to live with us, and we would all just have to get along. The worst part of this is in real life, my husband and I decided it was best to wait until we finished college to try to start a family, so the fact that in the dream he 1) cheated and 2) got some woman pregnant, really broke my heart, even though when I woke up, I knew it was just a dream. He didn’t seem upset about it at all, in the dream, and I felt like garbage….any interpretations to this?

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  148. i dream that my me and my boyfriend in a shower together with a young girl, the three of us are all naked..i went out to get something then i heard my boyfriend and the young wisphering and when i got inside i saw my boyfriend i saw my boyfriend doing down with this young girl…what those this mean..thank you

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  149. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and i keep having dreams that he is cheating on me with my best friend. In my most recent dream we (my boyfriend, my best friend, and i) were all laying down on the floor of a living room watching a movie. I felt very suspicious that my boyfriend and best friend were being sneaky. Suddenly i had to use the bathroom so i got up and went to the restroom i urinated and walking out of the restroom i felt even more suspicious of my boyfriend and best frriend walking around the corner i caught my boyfriend and my best friend messing around. My best friends shirt was off and my boyfriend was rubbing on her nipples, they where stil laying on the floor. I instanly became very angry and hurt i started to cry and yell at my boyfriend and then i tackeled him and repeatedly hit him in his face with all my strenght, my best friend just left out of no where while i was hitting him and i didnt say much to her although i felt betrayed my main focus was on my boyfriend. I woke up after hitting him for what felt like 5 mins.

    I dont have them very often but in the past 3 years i have dreamt of him cheating with my best friend 8 times. Every dream varies on where and how he is cheating on me. My most recent dream was the first time i actually caught them in action.

    My boyfriend and best friend where actually really close friends, i meet my boyfriend through my best friend. They recently got into a fight and are no longer friends. I have always been skeptical if anything has ever happened between them.

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  150. i keep having a recurring dream that my boyfriend is cheating on me and flaunting the other woman in my face, the other woman is nearly always his ex girlfriend. i spend most the dream trying to talk to him but he just keeps kissing and touching the other woman. i often wake up hysterically crying or shouting. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year but have been friends for about 10 years. i know that he would never even think about cheating on me and i trust him completely. does anyone know what this dream means and what i can do to stop it as it is very distressing for me and my boyfriend.

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  151. I woke up this morning in a rage and panic. I dreamt I unexpectedly came home to find a silver brown ford taurus in my drive way parked off to the side. I thought WTH who is at my house? My husband wasn’t home though which made it very strange. So I began to call and text him, but he wouldn’t answer. Finally, we were at a place together. I blurted out who is she? At first he acted like I was crazy and accused me… how dare you say such a thing. I laid into him and kept going at it until he started crying and said I was done before you were even gone. I picked up beer bottle and started beating him in the head with it until he fell bleeding on the ground crying. I was looking down at him watching him bleed and started spitting on him and screaming obscenities at him. Then I told him that’s what he gets and I hope he rotted in hell. I woke up terrified!!!

    Any suggestions?

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  152. I keep having this dream where my boyfriend of three years is cheating on me in different ways with his ex-girlfriend. She broke up with him and I know that when they broke up he was pretty messed up and then I came along do you think that has anything to do with it? Some times after I have these dreams I wonder if she wasn’t with someone else would he still love her? My most recent dream I had this morning, he was sad about something, and she just happened to be there. She started hugging him and comforting him and it went into a cuddle fest lol, I got pretty upset and I told her… I’m going to call your boyfriend and see if he needs someone else to cuddle with too! lol this one was pretty absurd, but it has been much much worse and sexual. What can these strange dreams mean?

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  153. So i have these dreams every now and then about my boyfriend cheating on me. and its always with different people. and when i break up with him (in the dream) sometimes he cares and sometimes he doesn’t. But just last night i had the strangest dream out of them all. Me and my boyfriend were walking through Walmart and our school councilor yelled at him and started confessing to me about how her and my boyfriend use to be together. i freaked out on him and ended it but he followed me and wouldn’t let me break up with him. Then my school councilor went on to mention that they had a baby together but it died. I remember being so confused and hurt. The sky was gray, and it was cold out. I went and slept in a tent but he found me so finally i pushed him away and i woke up to me pushing something off of me that wasn’t there…? I’m really at a stand still with my dream and i hope someone can please tell me what it might mean?

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  154. I woke up crying this morning after having a dream about my boyfriend picking up an old college classmate of mine, and bringing her home with us. He took her to his room, and they had sex while I sat on the couch, furious. The next morning, I tried to confront him about this, and he just told me to be quiet, and that we had already discussed having a three-some (which we have, in real life, possibly after being together for a few years). I got so angry in the dream that I stormed out of the door, and woke up with tears in my eyes.

    After calming myself down, and telling myself over and over that he doesn’t want to cheat on me, and that he is a firm believer of a monogamous relationship, I fell back to sleep, and had another dream where I was angry at him in a high school setting (we did not go to high school together). He had a friend of mine (not a real one, just a dream one), and together, they tried to talk to me on some steps, trying to make me feel better. Once I had calmed down, they hugged me, sitting close around me, and things started to progress into a three-some type of situation, and before too long, he started to have intercourse with the strange “friend” right there in front of me, in public. He never looked at me, or discussed what he was about to do, just went to it. In the dream, I got up, beyond angry, and walked off. Then, I woke up in tears again.

    We’ve only been dating for 8 months, but I know that he does not believe in cheating. He also never offers me information. Most of the time, I have to ask him questions to learn anything, even things about his past, or about him personally. Is dreaming of him cheating in front of me a manifestation of my insecurities about how he doesn’t tell me things? Of how sometimes, I feel like he is lying to my face with how he doesn’t offer the truth?

    I really hope to not have another one of these dreams. They really suck, 🙁

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  155. I had a dream where I was having sex with a celebrity (Pharrell) in my room. he seemed slightly disinterested. When I left he went into the bathroom with a pudgy blonde woman and was having sex with her as well. She was using food to arouse him and he wanted to use a scissors. When the woman rejected the scissors he acted as if he was possessed and chopped pieces of her hair off. At that point the blonde woman was afraid and began running down a hall and I woke up. IDK what this dream means at all ! please help.

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  156. Me and My boyfriend are planning to move in together, we’ve been together for 2 years now. but recently I’ve been having dreams that I catch him cheating in our house with one of his female friends (he has loads). Its never a specific girl, I just know its one of his friends. What do you think this means?

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  157. I had a dream that my boyfriend of 8 years had a baby on me with his close friends girlfriend. In this dream, I searched for this other woman and found her. I held the baby that he created with her and everything! We had a fight the nite before, and i went to bed mad at him. By the way, we don’t have any children yet. Pls help me understand. Also, i noticed a rubber missing out of our stash but i haven’t approached him about it as of yet…..

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  158. In twelve days it will be our 10 year anniversary. 10 years ago I dreamt I woke up to use the bathroom and my husband was having sex with a female on my sofa. I woke up angry with my fist inches from his face and I was on top of him. Last night, I dreamt I was getting some kids (don’t know the relation-I am only 30 and mine are older than the kids in the dream). I went towards my bedroom and there was a woman wearing my husbands shirt, soaking wet, performing oral sex on my husband. He didn’t know I was watching but she did. The dream switched to me drowning in a river in India then it switched back to my husband climaxing. I burst through the door and proceeded to beat the girl and kicked her out of my house. I put my husband (who by the way is extremely strong) through my coffee table. After I beat him stupid he told me he had filed for a divorce. I woke up feeling crushed, betrayed, confused and crying for thirty minutes. I trust him. I know he would never cheat. He has never given me a reason to doubt him. We have 4 kids and I have only seen 1 relationship that could even hold a candle to mine in 10 years. I asked him had he ever had a dream like that and he said yes and he woke up angry with me. He knows I wouldn’t do it either. I think we work so much we just miss each other.

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  159. Ok so I am VERY confused about this dream. I have been with my fiancee for 7 years and we have 2 beautiful children. I also have a best friend I have known for like 10 years. Ne who my dream was that my boyfriend ended up leaving me for her, thats not what gets me though in real life thy actually hate eachother and have for years. I dont get why he would leave me for him in his dream and the thing thats most messed is that they both had no remorse at all and even kissed and everything in front of me even when i was crying so bad. I need to understand this dream please I am very confused and lost it has totally ruined me. Thanks.

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  160. I had a dream tonight, I was at work, got off work and got into my husbands big white truck (he doesnt have). We were driving and he was telling me about this girl he was dating (and i seemed to know about her) and I was getting upset (and knew i always got upset when he talked bout her) anyways, he gets mad at me for getting upset and says something like “Look, dont get mad, I dont want her any more than you – I kiss her and give her oral but I haven’t had sex with her. I like doing both things equally for her, just as I like doing them for you.” And I got upset and tried the whole time to pretend I wasnt and finally I said “can i see her?” and he goes “sure, get my phone out of my pocket” and that made me more upset to know he carries a photo of her around. Anyways I got the phone, I was upset, so upset I ended up waking up. I tried to fall back asleep to see her, but I couldnt. My nerves were too crazy.

    Anyways – I do trust my husband with women, I know he wouldn’t cheat. So, my thoughts are this means something else – Im just not sure what it means. Maybe, although I know he wont cheat I am still scared? I dont feel worried though, even when he goes and eats with girl colleagues. He is very open with me. Anywyas, I am totally lost. Please Help!

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  161. hi dreammaster i’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now and last night i had a disturbing dream that i was at a friends house, which i clearly did not know who they were but i left to kitchen for a min and all the girls were in the bathroom and my boyfriend walked in and showed them his penise and i walked in the bathroom very shocked that he did that i was so mad and i asked him why he did it and all he kept sayin was “caused they asked me to so i did it”. but the dream went on and we were having a cook out and at the end of the dream he showed me a pic of a girl he has a crush on what does this mean????

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  162. Hi dreamaster! im having recurring dreams of my husband leaving me for another woman, a few months ago he had an affair in real life and we are trying to work things out he is good to me and is always with me now, i still have the same dream every time the he comes out of nowhere and tell me the he is going to stay with her because he is more happy it feels soo cold when he tells me and in my dream i feel like is someone died crying so much and feeling jealous and epmty in the end i have someone else the wants to be with me and marry me and i stay with him just to make my husband jealous, when my husband cheated on me without me knowing yet i dream the he was cheating on me can this be the same like a prediction dream or me my mind because i dont fully trust him yet? please help!

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  163. i had a dream in which a friend who i didnt kno (he was high on sleeping drugs) came in my house to sleep and we let him and told him to sleep in my room. but then me and my girfriend started playing naughty and he was peeking and he saw my girl topless and i felt so jealous about that! after that we asked him to slep in the living room and when he was leaving the room he got on my bed and told my girl to go sleep with him whenever she wanted. and that got me pissed!!! so i tried to get a knife that i always keep under my bed for safety when she told me she had taken it and put it away… so i got a remote control and followed him as he went in the living room and threw it at his head, i was picking a fight but he didnt do anything. and then i asked him angril. how would u feel if i was flirtin with ur sister, and he replied that his sister admired him or something… but then i chased him outside but he transfored into a white guy in a black leather jacket,then i went back in to check on my gf and she was there with another friend of mine who had just got there, he was talking something about a gun or something, then i went back outside to check on the other guy and neighbors and my grandma were kicking him an punching him and then, i went back inside and didnt find my girlfriend anywhere! i went outside to look for her and she was comiing down the street riding her bike with my friend who was riding his bike! i asked them where they had gone as i started to cry and my gf said they had gone to the pond…(that pond has a lot of sentimental value to us because thats where we would spend the first days when we started going out) and then i told them in a sarcastic way “no its ok go to the POND again” an thats when she started crying and told me “no im going to my house to get something” and thats when my friend was telling me something about his phone getting connected or something like that and then i woke up

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  164. I had a dream last night I caught my boyfriend cheating. Then he confessed he stopped loving me months ago. He broke up with me. It was the most real dream I have ever had. I woke up crying and shaking.
    What does this mean???

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  165. I had the strangest dream that my boyfriend eas talking to someone else about sleeping with her in an explicit nature while mr and him were on the phone. She told him that he should have stayed with me. Then I saw him in a strange place and it didn’t even look Like him but it was and we began to argue I asked and he told me he had been with 5 different people during the 2 yrs we were together and that would do whatever he had to do to get some! He just told me a couple days ago that he slept with someone else while we were split up but wants to work it out now. What does this dream mean? Help please!

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  166. My sister thinks my husband in real life liked her. When she was the one instigating things in his head by saying things to him e.g (wedding day) why are you marrying my sister… you should marry me (apparently as a joke) and talked about the enjoyments of sex telling him that I am only like her friend so its ok for them to talk about erotic sex.

    Now after a year I am having a dream of my husband litterally having sex with her, publicly. Its truely disturbing… I was just passing them in my dream and woke up before I reacting to anything in my dream.

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  167. I have dreams of my husband cheating on me and when I catch him he tells me he doesn’t want me anymorrrr and I commit suicide.

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  168. I also had a dream a few days later that my partner was cheating on me with one of my good friends. he was putting our 5month old son to bed whilst i was in the garden having a cigerette. i happened to walk in wondering what was taking him so long, and i slightly looked through the door and he was kissing my best friend. they were both naked and (i think ) about to have sex. He opened his eyes and looked at me.. he didnt seem shocked, and he didnt say anythin. I asked him what he was doing, and he didnt seem to think that he was doing anything wrong.
    The rest of the dream seeemed to revovle around me constantly asking him why he was doing this to me, our child and the new one on the way. He said that we should still live together but not be together, as long as i could handle the parties and late nights he’d be having, that could wake our son. My friend also didnt seem to think that there was anything wrong with what was going on.
    I woke up feeling really deceited, and it really got o me and shocked me.
    wat does this mean?

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  169. I had a dream the other night, (i have just found out that i am pregnant with my 2nd), that i was going into early labour, around 15-20 weeks early. The hospital was a supermarket, and the checkouts were the cubicles where people were being seen to.
    i went into the cubicle and had the baby really quickly, i didnt get to see the baby as they took the baby away. It was a little girl, i wanted a girl for my first and want one now for my second. i walked round with another lady who had just had her baby to go and look at other newborns. I realised that my child wasnt with the others. I then went to look for my partner who was sitting in the canteen with a woman that i knew but wasnt too keen on. I shouted athim and asked him what was he playing at being with her.. he looked at me and walked off. a little while later my mum turned up at the hospital, i asked her ifshe had seen my baby then the nurse turned round and said, im afraid your baby died.
    what does this mean?

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  170. In the dream I was sitting downstairs with my partner, when he left abruptly, saying he had to get a drink. I sat on my own for hours and he never came back, so I searched the house for him and found him in bed with another girl, who turned out to be a real life friend of his. I had an argument with the girl, then my partner tried to break up with me, I cried and begged him not to. What does this mean?

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    • This is what a lot of women fear when their partners or spouses are hanging around old friends who happen to be women. Whether they act a little too friendly towards each other, there’s always tale tale signs of suspicion that surfaces – there may have been something between them before.

      The truth is that if you are in a stable long term relationship, then your partner needs to be honest. If they are not honest with you, then it is no more than a short term fling.

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  171. I constantly have dreams of my husband cheating on me. This last one really bothered me because I cought him cheating and went crazy and fought the girl, and he ended up filing for divorce. In the dream, I didnt want a divorce. In the real world, my husband doesnt give me any reason to believe he is cheating, but he has lied to me in the past and I have been cheated on with every man Ive been with. What does this mean?

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    • It is not healthy to have recurring dreams of your husband cheating on you. If these fears are unfounded based on the real life scenarios, you may need to occupy your life with the things you like to do instead worrying about your husband every minute of the day.

      An unoccupied mind will always think about what other people are doing, and what they are thinking. Avoid this pitfall, and simply focus on yourself.

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  172. Hi! i had a dream the other night that i was cheating on my husband. with my husband. yet i felt guilty in the dream even though it was himself i was cheating on and with. .we were on a date and i snuck of to meet my secret lover in an alley to cheat and it was him. started cheating and felt absolutley horible afterwards and went back to the date feling guilty. what does this dream mean?

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    • In your cheating dream, your mind is helping you satisfy the urge to experience something different and bring more excitement into your life. Only to find out that you really love your husband, and it would kill you internally if you did cheat on him in the waking hours.

      Don’t cheat on your partner for the sake of cheating. Make sure the person you are cheating with is worth it. Otherwise you will end up being back in the same spot with nothing changed, except a wreck relationship with your existing partner.

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  173. I have dreams all the time, where i see my boyfriend deliberately flirting, chatting up and trying to get sex, or having sex with random girls right infront of my face. Like he wants me to feel like i mean nothing to him at all. Sometimes, but not always, his friends are in the dreams too, where he is trying to pick up a girl or pointing out hot girls that he would like to bed. I’m not one for having dreams but i have been having alot of dreams like this, all the same but different senarios and girls everytime. Please tell me what these mean, I’m starting to really think about it, its really quite depressing.

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    • When a person is lacking in activities or hobbies to preoccupy their time, they will automatically think and dream about what other people are doing which may or may not be any of their business. Please keep that in mind.

      Do you ever feel that you two are not evenly matched in the relationship? Is he doing more stuff on his own, and simply enjoying life? You may envy him, but when your feelings become contempt, you will know the relationship is over. Don’t let your feelings get to this point of being cancerous.

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  174. Hi! i had diffrent dreams that my husband cheats on me all the time. Some time i see the girls face that i never see be for in my life. I even feel like if is really happening to me. I start to cry in my dream and when i wake up im crying in reall life. so, the next day i ask him if he is chating on me to tell me. what dose this mean? can it be true? could it be a sing? what? please help me?

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    • Are there tell-tell signs during the waking hours that your husband could be cheating on you that prompted you to dream of seeing him in the act of cheating? Is your husband generally an honest person or prone to dishonesty? Based on the true character of your husband, you can easily tell if your dreams have any truth behind it.

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  175. Every dream i have about him, we are always together. One dream me and him were at our wedding reception dancing and another dream, we were at the alter. Am i going crazy?

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    • It is normal when you miss a person when they are not there. Your mind will create dreams full of beautiful stories for you based on your desires and what you want.

      However, you are crazy for not learning to let go.

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  176. Hi, I had this dream that me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for year and he is also in prison for life. I had a dream that he got out and we got married. My thought’s are telling me he will get out and we will be married onday. What does this dream mean?

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    • Linda, if your boyfriend is away in prison for life, try your best to forget about him and move on. That is the reality.

      If you keep dreaming about the past and future while avoiding the present, you will turn old and eventually die without having lived your life to its full potential.

      Do things to better yourself.

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  177. OK I accidentally posted my dream where it doesn’t go…any who I always have dreams thy my husband cheats on me with my cousins friends and even my sister.its starts off me and him could be all loveable how we usually are but then a friend or cousin or my sister gets there and he checks them out and I start getting pissed and he starts having sex. Like today we were having sex then all of a sudden we were looking at some girls with big butts and he started saying how he would like to hit it then its weird but I catch him doing a fridge then my friends and so on its nasty and it makes me cry when I wake up cause doesn’t hide nothing from me. Besides when he’s checking out a girl. But I don’t know if I’m insecure of myself and that’s why I’m having these dreams? Help me please cause they occur a lot!!

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    • If your husband during the waking hours has not in any ways acted the way he does in your dreams, then you should not have anything to worry about.

      What is troubling is the frequency and the recurring theme of your dreams about your husband cheating on you. It is easy to point the cause to insecurities, but the images of him poking big butts and a fridge over you is crazy unless you are colder than a cadaver.

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  178. My boyfriend has been having dreams of me cheating on him he wakes up upset I tell him that Im not cheating cause Im really not. He always tells me thing like “if i ever catch you cheating, or i dont know what i would do if you ever cheated on me” we have been together for 5yrs im getting to the point of the accusations are really upsetting me. I have dreams that he chooses other girls over me i dont know i really want it to stop

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    • Spend time with your significant other getting away from the day to day routine that is boring you both. The sense of doing the same thing again and again everyday will prompt the mind to play tricks on you with what-if dreams of insecurity, infidelity, cheating, and hopelessness.

      The truth of the matter is that both of you are not doing enough during the waking hours to simply have fun.

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  179. I have a dream that my “guy” friend calls me over to his house, tells me to come down in the basement, and then we lay there and just cuddle….next thing i know i wake up and he disappears and his baby’s mom is sitting there looking at me, she always asks the same questions, “who are you? who is she?” and he always gets up and disappears i’ve had this dream twice now, and it’s starting to get on my nerves because i NEVER remember dreams..it’s upsetting me..

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    • Katrina, who’s cheating who when you know that your friend comes with baggage? Your dream is trying to help you determine whether you can handle or be involved in his baby’s life.

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  180. I had a dream where my husband left me for some younger wome, then the night after (yesterday) I also had a dream about him, but now he was with an ex-girldfriend and my daugther at Disney. Finally today I woke up really mad because in my dream he had told me he had more chidren. I’m really confused!!

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    • Jane, your mind is creating scenarios to help you deal with your own insecurities. These insecurities may stem from fact that you don’t know everything about your husband’s past relationships, and your own fears of growing older.

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  181. Alright so Ive always had strange dreams.. Sometimes i remember them and sometimes i dont.
    They’re always vivid as if its really happening.
    And alot have come true.

    But this one was off..

    I dont remember how it started but basicly I was naked wrapped in a shawl, and i wasnt aware that i was naked until half the dream later.. There we’re few random moments in the dream that didnt feel like they meant anything so ill leave them out…

    But in the dream i went to a young womans house and we had fooled around and she made sure i was dressed before i left.. But the strange thing is my boyfriend ended up picking me up from this girls house.
    Then as i was getting ready to leave he asked me if i was sleeping with her. I denied it . Then woke up to the phone feeling as if i was missing something.
    Can you or Anyone tell me what this might have meant.
    Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and had been with woman before i met him now im really confused.

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    • Your own fear of cheating on your boyfriend is being manifest from your past experiences with women. If you are hiding that aspect of your life from your boyfriend, then this dream may be a recurring one. Bring your past into the open if you are not hurting anyone.

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  182. i had a dream last night, ” my lady friend called me and said ” hi! i called ur boyfriend and asked him to come to see me… and i was hearing from the mobile that my boyfriend was talking… later on my boyfriend called me and i was hearing them laughing while playing computer games… In my dream i saw them together in a room, in one bed. But my dream never showed me if they had sex. what was the meaning of my dream?

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    • People don’t necessarily need to have sex to constitute cheating. When your significant other is sitting next to you physically, but their mind is thinking about someone else, that’s a form of cheating.

      Your dream is telling you your feeling, and it may be time to confront him.

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  183. i had a dream that my boyfriend had cheated on me and left me for the other girl.. and then today he just told me he had a dream that he was cheating on me, killing people and then killed himself because i left him…. what does this mean?? please help!

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    • Your relationship may be coming to the point where each of you are not enough for each other. Has the excitement gone away, where you have to think of something else to keep yourself preoccupied?

      Try talking this out with your significant other, and see if both of you can move forward thinking more of each other and less other other people.

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    • What are the qualities that you feel that your best friend has that makes her attractive to your boyfriend? As humans, we all want things to change rather than routine. Do you feel that your relationship is getting to a stage where it has become routine without the excitement? That will sometimes cast doubt into feeling out what your better half really wants, and keeps your mind preoccupied with the worst cheating dream scenarios even though it may never occur.

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  184. In my dream my boyfriend and I went to the doctor because of a positive pregnancy test. There I found out I was having twins. My grandma showed up to congratulate me. And I left to go to my friend Irmas house. When I walked in she told me my ex husband had been there and she walked in on him and a girl I went to highschool with having sex in the bathtub. Im very much in love with my boyfriend… what does it mean?

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    • No lover or significant other is cheating in this dream. Whatever your ex husband is doing is the least of your concerns. Continue to focus on loving your boyfriend, then your ex husband will be out of sight and out of mind.

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  185. I am losing my mind. I dream almost everyday of my wife cheating on me. I keep going online for answers and most say because you love them so much so you get afraid that they might leave. I dont seem to love her much anymore because I have been catching her lately emailing guys. These guys would call her when I am not home and seems to me she tries to hide it for me. I just caught her a few days ago with a guy who has been having phone conversations with her for about a year and a half. But the last email stated, I’m married now, sorry but we can not go longer. I had an argument with her about it and she said it was nobody. After the argument went on for hours she confessed that she has been talking to him long and did not seem to gain interest. If she had no interest why did it take so long? This also reminded me about a year ago where she had a relationship with one of my friend. She was going to marry him, but he went to Afghanistan and said that I was just some guy who was around at the time. I felt like crap after treating my friend this way and we are never friends since. A few months after being with me she still tries to have relationships with him. Her goal was to meet him in person. She also stated “he means a lot to me, it is very important if I see him.” I was angered and gave her a chance to be with me or him a friend to her at the time. After telling her this, she lied that she is going to sleep just to talk with him about a few hours on the phone, somehow my skills I inherited told me that she was trying to get back with him. Ever since this dilemma, there has always been 3 dreams, of her cheating, military callback with neverending combat experience, or getting chase by man-eating zombies. These dreams continue everyday of my life. I need help.

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    • As long as she’s married to you, she won’t cheat. But these are some serious situations that can easily cause any man to dream about their wife cheating on them.

      It will be hard to change her, but you can change until these dreams of infidelity, combat, and zombies go away by themselves. Change the way you interact with her. Spend more quality time with her where she’s no longer thinking about anyone else but you.

      Once you have moved on from your old habits, you’ll become more desirable to her and many other people. Then these semi nightmares won’t plague you in your sleep anymore.

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  186. hi dreammaster,i have two more dreams that i would like u to tell me the meaning,i had this dream 2 days ago that i was in the mosque and i told my aunt that my husband dosent want me anymore and i started to cry, and my sister in law dreamed that me and my husband was getting married again and we both are happy,i hope these dreams are a good meaning cuz i love my husband so much

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    • Everyone is sadden to see you upset over the turn of events as if your husband had ripped your heart out.

      You are seeking out the approval of your husband’s side of the family to help mend the relationship. It would help you tremendously to be nicer to them, and have them accept you fully.

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  187. hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months.. i love him dearly and he said he felt the same he would always include me in his future plans. untill one day i seen his ex girlfriend and she claimed she is still with him well on and off. it hurt me i confronted him he denied it and said she still loves him to ignore her so i did but i kept bringing it up and callin him at work which upseted him to the point where he was like i need space dont call me or anything if i miss you ill call you if i dont i dont.. it hurt me.. so i didnt call him or anything
    and yesterday i had a dream that i seen his ex girl friend and she told me she is with him and i told her i was also and she started crying and told me she is going to leave him wat does this mean?

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    • Your dream is leaning towards how you want the situation to play out if you were to confront his ex girl friend. No matter what happens in the dream, the situation is not going to change by itself. Plan on finding a new boyfriend who will be more honest.

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  188. oo i forget 2 metion last night i had a dream that i was in a little airplane with my aunt and my cousin taking me to the airport,but the little airplane was flying over the streets and eachtime the little airplance crosses the street,we see explosion ,lightning ,and fire eachtime we cross but then i got to the airport safely and i made it so i could see my husband and live with him ,what is this mean

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    • Obviously you love your husband very much. No matter what the challenges are now, you are willing to work it out with him. Even the dangers of explosions, lightning, fires and various disasters cannot keep you tow apart.

      Talk to him. If there are things you suspect of him, ask him why. And how you can help to change that aspect of him.

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    • Your dream is trying to help you determine how you want your husband to respond if you were to have some space apart for a while. It is unfortunate that you see him as unresponsive to you nor your friend.

      Sometimes it is important to re-evaluate why stupid fights are occurring all the time. Do you think it is healthy to fight all the time?

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  189. hi dream master me and my husband had stupid fights then it got too serious then now i came back and is staying with ,my family while he is back home thinking about whether he wants to make it work or not… my best friend had a dream that she was in this big empty room and she was on the phone talking to my husband telling him the following that he is selfish and is wrong for wanting space from his wife and that he is not going to find better if he dont come win her back. what does this mean?

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  190. Ok this one was a strange one but one of those that felt so real. It’s a long one too!

    My boyfriend and i are currently flat hunting as the one we’re in in small. We found a flat (which is the exact flat we live in) and proceed to make arrangements to move in. With all of our things in boxes i look into the hallway and see a gilr standing with my boyfriend. This girl looked so familiar but not someone i know in real life. She told me that she is moving in with him and that i should really clear off and get out of his life as no one likes me and he’s been trying to get out of the relationship for ages. She told me his family hate me! Then i had a real sence that she was his sisters friend. As i looked to him for comfort, he turned and way and shuffled his feet!

    I decided i needed air so i went to walk outside and there where people sat on the steps. I felt like i knew these people but again i didn’t in real life and the steps felt like our steps but there were many of them and we were on a hill! Just then a little badger the size of a cat runs through my legs, i pick it up as it’s so cute but then it starts attcking me!

    Then… (told you it was long) in the next instance i’m hiding in a run down out house with no roof behind the building where i live in one of the flats and this girl and my boyfriend in the flat above. I’m sitting on tall grass which is damp looking at the stars being comforted by a girl i don’t know but again feel like i know very well.

    I woke up feeling like my heart was breaking and in tears and i’ve not been able to shake the feeling of dread and heartbreak all day. It’s made me feel so upset i’ve been vomiting all day!

    Please help me with this one, i’m usually good at interpretting my own dreams 🙁

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    • Your heart may not be ready for change or moving because you are allowing outside things to influence the way you feel about your boyfriend. He may not be necessarily experiencing all these negative things, and yet these dreams are making you sick to your stomach.

      Talk to him, and see how he feels about making these changes to your lives together. If you are going to be living together in the new place, make sure he understands that you don’t want to see any baggage that may upset you in the future.

      You still have a lot of uncertainly in your relationship. Air out the dirty laundry in the open in order for you to get a good nights sleep without worries.

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  191. hi dreammaster, i had dream that my husband left and didn’t tell me anything. then i found out he went and got married. i heard from this lady i went crazy and i was crying but then i was like forget it im gonna get married too. but my heart was still hurting me, his new wife was fat and the one i was going to get engaged with appeared to me dark skinned guy like he is from Somalia but anyways then out of nowhere it was like a flash appeared in my dream.

    then i was walking in a path full of people and he came out of nowhere he was like hi and i was in shocked and said hi back to him, and then i was like is this true that u got married. and he was like no i just went away and then he goes that he loves me.

    so i decided to call off the engagement secretly and told him that i love u too and we walked with each other holding hands and smiling in the path of people, what is that supposed to mean?

    i meant to call off the engagement to cancel it. sorry

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    • Try to find out if your husband is lying to you, then confront him. Give him a chance to change.

      If he continue to go about his old ways and vices, then it is time to let him go. There’s no need for you to be stuck in a situation that only makes you sad until you really have no more options when years pass by.

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  192. i had a dream that both myself and my partner cheated on each other…but with each other? I consciously knew it was cheating, but it was with my partner, and I didn’t feel guilty…this dream has reoccured

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    • Your true desires to cheat resides in you. It so happens that your mind made it easy for you (where you felt guiltless) by substituting your current significant other into the dream.

      You are sitting on the fence of cheating on your partner. Chances are that you are tempted by opportunities that arise in front of you to become the cheating girlfriend.

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  193. Am I a cheating partner if I dream about another girl rather than my girlfriend? What does it mean when she is not always on my mind, instead it is of an old flame?

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    • To think about past memories is never considered cheating, and chances are that your partner does the same without feeling guilty about it. There’s no harm in fantasizing as that’s how the mind works.

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      • But i fthe dream keeps repeating, it might mean that you are falling oit of love with your current partner and wish you were still with your old flame. I had a situation where my boyfriend sleep talked, and i was sleeping in his arm and he kissed on my forehead and said “I like the dress you were wearing” I asked which one, and he said the green one ( while kissing my forehead) and I dnt have a green dress…the next time he slept talked asking this person if he can give her a massage…saying things which when I told him he admitted but denied the ladies issue…you ar eno longer in love my brother

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  194. I had a dream that i went to a bar/video arcade and I was looking for my husband. I couldn’t find him anywhere but I knew that he was supposed to be there so I called his cell phone and he wouldn’t answer like a hundred times and finally some girl answered and said that he didn’t want to talk to me and he was with her now. I was so upset! I couldn’t believe it.

    I saw a vision of this girl in my dream. She was very tall and blond and very thin. After about a week when I had finally decided to move on, I got a call from my husband saying that he had been out of town and that everything was fine and he wanted to know where I was. He just kept reassuring me that everything was fine. But, I woke up so I don’t know what was going to happen. What the hell does that mean???

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    • Dreaming of a partner cheating in a relationship always ties back to one’s own insecurities or a certain trait in the partner that is inherent and will resurface only to make your life miserable.

      Seems like you are very dependent on your husband that you looked everywhere, and called multiple times.

      Seeing how you describe the girl as “very tall, blond, and very thin” sums up your insecurities in the relationship; and will be likely to dream of future boyfriends, lovers, or husbands cheating on you from time to time.

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  195. I had a dream that i walked into a room and my fiancee told another woman he wanted her to give him head. He didnt know i was walking into the room. I broke up with him in the dream. In the dream he kept apoligizing to me and trying to get back 2gether with me. What does this mean?

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    • There’s one aspect of your partner you currently do not trust 100% yet. He may be spending time with woman that are friends which worries you to conjure up this dream of him cheating with another woman.

      Does he hide things or truths from you in real life?

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    • Dreammaster,

      I have had this same dream for years however the version changes with the same outcome. In real life my husband is currently in Afghanistan for 7 months and this is our 6th combat tour. We have been married for 16 years. I have dreams that wake me up and occur both while he’s deployed and at home. These dreams usually end with me finding out he is cheating on me with several women. The most recent dream I found out he had a facebook page and when I went on it I found pictures of girls he was with and when I asked him if he was cheating on me he said he had only slept with one of them. As far as I know he has never been unfaithful in our marriage and I have been faithful as well. Why do I keep having these dreams?

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