Cheating Partner in Dream

If you catch your partner cheating in a dream, it can mean one of several things. Maybe your mind or physical being has seen your partner and caught them in an act, but is suppressing it, for the sake of not upsetting yourself. This is very common because people usually try to repress memories in hope that if your mind doesn’t allow it to exist, you really will believe that it doesn’t exist.

It can also represent the lack of trust you have in your partner. Maybe you’re afraid that they will, or that they are cheating so your mind creates a scenario where you can satisfy your accusations and satisfy your lack of trust in your partner.

Another possibility may be that you’re in a bad relationship, and you’re looking for a way to get out of it, your looking for a reason or a tangible accusation for you to get out of a relationship.

Either way, it’s only a dream, and if your partner didn’t cheat on you in the “real world’ then it shouldn’t be of much concern, but the idea of a cheating partner should raise the question of how you view your relationship with them.

396 thoughts on “Cheating Partner in Dream”

  1. I’m told to sit at home with her family. She even tells her brother to look after me because I’ve had some bad news about my family in the day. So I’m told to sit in her house and chill out while she goes to pick up her friend Ilaria from the airport or something.

    I feel something is up and I tell her that. I’m not interested in staying at her family home so I tell her I’m leaving. But whilst I’m packing up to leave she leaves before me, tears rolling down her face full of makeup. She’s clearly meeting up with someone if she’s all dolled up like that, right?

    I see on an Instagram story that she’s with another girl. They’re pretty handsy. So I pretty much appear at the aquarium and confront her. The ticket lady at the aquarium comes over to ask if everything’s fine. As I’ve appeared out of no where I ask the ticket lady if she’d like me to pay for a ticket. The ticket lady confirms.

    I turn to my partners date and tell her that there I am sat at my partners family home whilst she’s here on a date with you.

    – then I wake up –

    * NB / I’m not confrontational. Normally in real life if I found out cheating was actually going on I would just pack up and leave. No questions asked.

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  2. I dream that my gf is marring with somebody else and i am going to attend that marriage party but afraid of that That her father will see me and thinking that am i invited or not

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  3. I always dream about my Boyfriend cheating on me.! And I don’t know what to do.! And I don’t know what is all about that dream.But he told me In real
    Life that He Loves me he will never leave me or cheat on me etc. But why I’m almost dreaming about he always cheating on me leaving me and then one time I dream about he sex to another woman.I feel Broken everytime I woke up and thinking about that dream makes me feel Crazy all the time.

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  4. I am having persistent dreams about my loyal partner of two years, not necessarily cheating but emotionally hurting me in all manners. It is persistent and happens every night. I’ve no idea where they are coming from. I’ve no worries of him being unfaithful and being in university I am surprised my subconscious isn’t focusing on that… Weird.

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  5. I had a increbilly vivid and realistic dream that my boyfriend cheated on me. In the dream it is set in the future when me and boyfriend are ready to seriously settle down, and we had just bought our first house together in San Francisco. Neither one of us has been to San Francisco so I have no idea why my dream picked that location since we live in Texas. In my dream we are moving because my boyfriend has been offered a once in a lifetime career opportunity in the fitness industry (he currently is a personal trainer) and I decide to follow him even though I will have to start over. I can’t remember why, but we begin fighting and out of anger he deletes all pictures of us together on social media and we both don’t want to be around the other. The next day I seek him out in my dream because my anger has passed and he tells me he has decided to go back to college (he finished 2 years and left), and that he slept with another woman the night of our fight out of anger and she is pregnant with a full term baby (which defies the typical 2-3 days is takes for conception to occur, & the 9 months to carry a baby full term). When I hear this news I collapse and cry and scream uncontrollably in the parking lot and I feel a deep pain that wakes me up. How should I interpret this?

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  6. Lately it’s been a little weird. I’ve become anxious and on my toes when my best friend is around my boyfriend. Now I recently had a dream where I had gone to my best friends house and it was just us two, and in the dream I turned to look away from her and when I looked back she was laying with my boyfriend. Her head by his feet and his by her feet both looking at me. I asked them what was going on and he replied with an “idk” smiling as if nothing was wrong. I need this dream interpreted, what does this mean?

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  7. Hi,

    I’ve had a dream a few times and would love to get some insight. I keep having dreams of an ex partner, who I haven’t been with for well over a year now. In the dream we meet again through mutual friends, and are going on a journey or weekend away (as a big group) and prior to this, I have found out that they cheated on me (i never find this out in the dream, just seem to already know).

    Anyway things are all fine until we spend time with each other with only one other person present where I get extremely angry because I say I know what happened and they just confirm it but don’t give any sort of explaination or show any remorse.

    I’m now in another, very happy relationship, and have never had my current partner feature in these dreams. However I wake from them feeling very angry and resentful towards my ex, even though I’ve never found our in real life that they cheated.

    I’d love for someone to shed some light onto the meaning as I wake feeling tense and confused, I’m happy with my new partner and don’t have any contact with my ex but this recurring dream just won’t stop!!

    Many thanks!
    Saff

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  8. I dreamt that it walked into a house that my fiancé and I were living in(didn’t know the house), and he was upstairs on our bed with a beautiful dark haired petite prostitute with large breasts and he could have cared less if I knew she was there. She didn’t care either and was bragging that he hAd been playing her songs on the guitar and he was walking her to her car still without regard to me and she was so happy and then fell into her convertible where her dress flew up and he saw her gorgeous naked bottom and then he jumped in behind her kissing and laughing with her and fondling her breasts. I was crying and saying I needed to call my mom and he just didn’t care about me or my feelings about what he was doing w this stranger who he was clearly intimate with besides the fact that he was paying her for sex. It was like he liked saving her.

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  9. I had a dream my girlfriend sucked her brothers dick he’s 19 and she is 25. Not only that but I caught her and she defended herself like she wasn’t wrong. I also dreamed that she sucked a bunch of other guys dick and they were discussing how slutty she is. I have dreams of herb heating on me all the time and it carries over into real life and makes our relationship suck someone please help

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  10. Hello dream master

    I just recently woke up from a horrible dream, my boyfriend left while we were in the middle of doing Something, I went to go look for him, I saw him with a blonde girl I have never seen before, They went off to a secluded area, they could Clearly see me but my boyfriend Preceded to fool around with this girl And they started talking about how Much they Want each other so I told my bf he could have sex with her because it was over between us And I left, he didn’t seem to care…… And then I woke up, it felt real 🙁

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  11. My boyfriend said he doesnt wanna be with me after the dream he had it seems too real..This time he f****d him over with his uncle (dreams are constant) and he was fingering me while we jst got in a arguing. Then i laid on his (my boyfriend) bed next to his uncle …while his uncle was “fingering ” me . His uncle was facing the other way so my boyfriend wouldnt figure it out and I was letting him and everything that I liked it to…Things jst poping into my boyfriends head and he checks and uncles hands was between my legs thts when my boyfriend started hitting me (he isnt violent in person) and kept on going and going and then his uncle started laughing saying oh sh*t and with anger in his blood shot eyes he crushed his jaws with his bear hands and he went back hitting me I told his uncle to stop him and he wouldn’t stop until i fell off the bed…his sister went to go call his mom and let her know wht was goin on and he spat on me and beat me more and finally someone came and took me away .his dream didn’t let him see the persons face… When they took me away i was letting him know that we were still together.. he was crying hid eyes out in the dream and he woke up crying…he doesnt know about us any more and thinks there is something im not letting me know ,he thinks the dreams like this its a sign tht says leave the girl while yu have the chance she not wht she seems to be she a pretender . Which is not true , I love my boyfriend more than anything else in the world and he knows it . I tell him every day every hour . Please I dont want to lose him . I told him it was a nightmare that hes scared he’ll lose me that hes probably insecure . HELP ?

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  12. Hi Dream Master,

    My dream was about me taking the time to take two friends to a bakery to buy us sweets. My good friend tells me “by the way, I slept over at your house last night. Your husband let me in” I knew she meant in the same bed, but I didn’t get upset. It wasn’t a big deal for some reason. When I returned home, my husband was lying in bed when I realized that my friend actually slept in bed with my husband. I became furious! He didn’t deny it. He then begins to make this action as if he’s making love to a woman, and I kept screaming “did you have sex with her”. He doesn’t answer me. I’m trying to choke him to death in my dream before I wake up. I’m pregnant, and in real life they do not know each other. What could this mean??

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  13. Well in my dream I always catch my wife sleeping with a bunch of guys from her work and when I walk in she acts normally and I would would b mad and try to beat the crap put of the dudes but her voice just calms me down and I just go to the bathroom to take a shower, at which a random girl from my work place would b waiting for me to get in, but also talkin all casual and nothing sexual happens, like the weirdest thing, and we both get out and give each other a good bye high five and wen I walk bak into my room there’s like even more dudes pounding my wife and at this point I’m like “fvck it” and then tell her that her boss has aids (as a way to scare all of the nasty dudes giving it to my wife…) and walk out and fall asleep on the couch, and that’s wen I usually wake up, but recently it stretches out and more people are knocking on my door asking to “see my wife” and for sum reason I let them in and don’t give two shyts about any noises they make until I actually wake up. But I do love my wife alotttt and of she cheated on me I would probably join ufc jus so I would b able to get all the anger I would feel and not kill the poor guy who was dumb enough to sleep with my wife…and also I do very dislike the lady co-worker tht would appear in my shower in the dream, so the fact that I give her a high five is enough to confuse me..

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  14. Hi. I had a dream last night where my husband, my 4 month old son and I went to this woman’s house. There were little women everywhere who seemed to be this lady’s friends. Well were all inside and this woman, she was older, asks me how close my husband and I are, he instantly replies not so close before I can get a word in so I mumble not too close I guess. And then I leave, get in the van with the little women and my baby. They take me to their house, where I beg them to take my home. I had no diapers, bottles, nothing for my son and they tell me over and over no, you don’t need to go home because they’re having sex (my husband and the older woman) I figured out from these little women that he left me and we would be getting a divorce and never seeing each other again. Then I feel this thing on my back and turns out a snake. One little woman takes the snake off me but leaves it on the floor. I woke up and my first thought was they were trying to kill me. This isn’t the first dream I’ve had that my husband not only cheated on me, he left me.

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  15. I dreamed that my husband( common law ) been together since 2006 was touching a girl right in front of me saw that I was looking at him we were like right next to each other and he still keep touching her I keep stabing my finger in his face and slapping him and he would kust laugh I told him I was going to leave but yet he still wouldnt stop touching her and our son was there too but he was sleeping really close we were all on a bunk bed

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  16. I recently found some messages and pictures on my husbands phone between him and other women. These were sent 3-6 months before we were married. He’s apologised and deleted all messages photo and phone numbers of women from his phone. I’ve just woken up to a dreamt of my husband declaring his love for me. This is my first dream of him. In my dream he is him and someone else. When he tells me he loves me the last time he says it he says another woman’s name. The name is of a woman I saw in a Thai movie. Even though in our lives she does not exist, He explains his love for this woman. We make up and finds out a deal he carries out goes wrong so he tries to get away from from friends. They find him and he gets beat up I run to get help but he gets away but on the end he’s standing up laughing. What does this all mean?

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  17. I. Had a dream my boyfriend was rubbing his ex’s pu*** right in front of me. I couldn’t believe what I saw. It was like I wasn’t there. But I was I flew to fl to stay with my aunt they were everywhere I was. I couldn’t escape them.

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  18. Dreammaster,

    I had a dream that I cheated on my boyfriend of two years. As I was with the other guy, his sister came in the room and found us. I was so angry that she had inturupted. I continued after she left even though I felt bad.
    What does this mean?

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  19. Hi dream master I had I hurtful dream about mt husband cheating I caught him out on the laptop talking to a girl and went through his phone he had been texting her aswell and when I confronted him (in my dream) he said I’m leaving u for this women I was just staying with you for kids sake my husband has cheated in real life twice both times I was pregnant what goes this mean ??

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  20. Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend and I walked into a party and after we walked in, this older, scruffy looking man(who I didn’t know, but it seemed like my boyfriend did) starts yelling at my boyfriend. He was yelling, “You are a cheater! You cheat! You cheat on her!” My boyfriend and I were very embarrassed and I was very upset. Next thing I know, we are walking into this very trendy bar and I look over and see the man seated right at the bar. He starts yelling the same thing at my boyfriend again. This time, I walk over to the man and I say, “Look, I do want to know what you are talking about, but please stop yelling this out in front of all these people.”

    The man then begins to tell me that he has seen my boyfriend out on several occasions with a dark haired woman. He then explained that he wanted to let me know because I deserved better.

    I woke up at that point, very upset of course because it seemed so real.

    Please tell me what it means.

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  21. Hi, I had a dream my partner & I were at a friends get together. I’m not sure if we arrived together but it would be a first if we didn’t. But I was out on the balcony by myself, smoking & I happened to hear his voice thru the nearby open window. I peak around & see him with some fat, blonde hair, shimmer eyeshadow wearing chick bent over the toilet! I walk back into the party, thru the commotion straight to the bathroom & open the door. He stops looks at me clearly caught in the act & I swing hit his face & turn around an leave…everybody’s around Watchin he runs after me & catches me in front of the elevator of course apologizing and then I wake up..I’ve had the same dream 3 times & I wonder if its a sign or means something..

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  22. I had a dream last night that I received a phone call from Denny’s, my fiance’s place of work, which I have also applied at probably 12 times and they wanted me to come in and work that day. So I agreed. My fiancee had to work that same shift just come in an hour later than myself. Well, the day was going normal, I was getting trained, received my schedule, was excited about having a 2nd job. Then I went looking for my fiancee and couldn’t find him anywhere. So I went looking in this upstairs room, that doesn’t exist in real life, and he was up there with our manager making out, so I said, “What the fuck, Dylan?” and ran out of the room, expecting him to stop and follow. But he didn’t. So 5 minutes later I ran back up there and they were full blown having sex. Then I got him to stop. I was pissed, obviously. So I went back down the stairs and started asking the other cooks if hey knew if he did this before. One of the male cooks said he had sex with my fiancee. My fiancee is a man, and in real life is 100% straight. I didn’t understand this at all, but still haven’t told him about it cause it did upset me. What does this mean??

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  23. So I had this crazy dream… And I woke up scared, sweaty and with my heart beat racing…

    I subscribed to a new gym(this gym is the one a man I had a one night stand/affair with goes to in real life), signed up for zumba classes and there I met (the man i had a one night stand/affair with’s wife in real life). So we become Zumba partners. My husband is also in the dream, and every so often he and the OM work out together. So in the dream, me and the OM move on from what we did and pretend it didn’t happen (like we agreed in real life) but the wife’s sister, in the dream tells the wife she knows her husband cheated but didn’t know with who and asks for my help to find out. So I tell them it has to be someone from work and at a party/bar the wife confronts her husband and tells him she knew he cheated. Then she said I know so too, she lies and says I told her I knew who the person what when I only suggested it could be someone from work, so he looks at me like very scared and stupedied and I try to explain that It was just a suggestion that I didnt know who it was. So he’s getting a shitload of arguments with his wife in the bar, and another friend of his grabs his cellphone and tells me he knows who it is too because there’s pictures the the OW there (me!!) so I chase him for the phone, my husband is astounded with the drama at the bad and demands an explanation. I manage to grab the phone and delete a picture of myself with my husband on the phone, the only picture of me there. So I tell my husband what’s going on and tell him we should leave because we don’t want to get in other couples arguments. The OM is infuriated but i gave him the look of please dont rat me out. So his wife breaks up with him and the bar begins to empty out. Right before me and my husband leave, the OM wife goes to my husband telling him I cheated on him with her husband. My husband lets go of my hand doesnt say anything and leaves me for good. I go crazy and begin to cry and attack the OM’s wife, and the OM tells me to go with him that what we did there’s no trning back and I just ignore him and run after my husband but he just told me “you mean nothing to me from this moment on” and then I wake up.
    I love my husband and would go crazy if anything about thats stupid past ever comes up. Me and that OM was a one time thing and I regret it every day, and we agreed it was dumb and have never spoken since and I have so many dreams like this one. Then my husband tells me he also has dreams which I cheat on him. But of course I never tell him my dreams.

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  24. I had a dream last night that has me all upset. I am married for 13 yrs and have two boys. In this dream my husband, after me forcing him, admitted to cheating on me when he went aout of town for his yearly meeting. He said it wasnt planned that it just happened. So I started to scream at him. I asked him if it was worth it since he was losing me and our kids and he said Yes! He said she did things and knew things and it was worth losing us! I am sitting here in tears but it seemed so real!
    My husband isnt one to share his feelings but I want to go wake him up and ask if its true!

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  25. I had a dream that my boyfriend just turned around and said I don’t want to be with you anymore I went to my friends and said he will want me back after a while but instead he told me he didn’t through text and he texted me every now and again to tell me what he was doing with other girls, I then went out to college to find another guy to see but I kept checking my phone to see if my boyfriend had texted me but he never did, I then told him about the guys I was seeing to try make him jealous but he wasn’t and I was really upset

    What does this mean? I have them almost every week about girls I know he used to talk to or some I don’t even know..

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  26. Dream my boyfriend dancing with another woman. A friend gossip to me this and I ran and caught him dancing with her. She had two kids from another man and I had one for him and pregnant for him in d dream and he did like her but like me too and he us confused but I left him and he came running to me begging me he can’t leave me.

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  27. Every single night i dream that my husband is cheating with me and every time i dream that i know the ladies that he is with! Before we got together he had been seen my best friend which i call that cheating on me! so now from now and then i have those dreams i wake up and always look at him and i tell him what was i dreaming but he only tells me that there are only dreams and why do i only dream that he is cheating on me? what does it mean when every single night i dream him cheating on me???

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  28. I recently received a Facebook message from someone claiming my husband is having an affair with a coworker. They said its been going on for about 6 months. My husband denies this! We have been together for a long time (15yrs.) And I’ve never dealt with this. I asked God to let me know the truth.

    I had a dream my husband told me he DID have an affair. Do you think its a sign or just my worries coming through in my dreams?

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  29. hi Dream master me and my husband are married 2 years now and we have one daughter, last night i have a dream that im having an romantic affair with other man in real life i know this man we are not that close friend and we both have own family what does mean?.

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  30. I woke up with my heart racing this morning. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years and we’ve had our problems and he’s cheated in the past but we got through it and we have 2 beautiful children together now. Last night I dreamt that he was leaving me and our children for two other girls, and he was having babies with both of them. One of the girls I’ve been friends with for years and the other is just an aquaintance I talk to from time to time. But I havent seen both of them for quite a while, So i thouht it was so weird that I dreamt of them and on top of that my boyfriend and my friend dont even get along, they just tolerate eachother. Back to my dream…My boyfriend was so set on leaving me for these other 2 girls and i couldnt stop him or change his mind, I was mad but i wanted to work it out and i could see in his eyes that he was sad and didnt want to do it but he was still leaving me to go be a family with them. The next thing I know i was looking for a witch or someone who did magic so that they could cast a spell or something to make the other girls have miscarriages. What does this mean? It was so random and so much was happening I dont quite understand.

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  31. I had a dream that a woman was staying with my husband, kids and I. My husband ended up calmly telling me that he thought he loved her. I told him I would move out, he said no. He didn’t know if these feelings were true and didn’t want me to go yet he wanted to pursue his feelings and see what happened. I was calm through the dream yet I felt the emotions and my heart sank into my stomach. I spoke to the woman in the dream and she was super in love with him wanting me to leave so they could pursue whatever it was they had. She didn’t care that we had been married with kids. I was still calm. When I woke up next to my husband who at that time pulled me into his arms. I was still in dream mode LOL and the feelings I was feeling when I woke up was weird. My husband and I talked about it.

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  32. ok i keep having this reaccuring dream that my fiance is cheating on me with a guy, in my consious life me and his mother do not see eye to eye on things i was wondering if this had anything to do with that we have known each other for 12 yrs we grew up as friends and neighbors and have just started seeing eachother now for about 2 yrs we have a beautiful son together and i have a daughter from a previous reltionship could you tell me what it means to have a dream that your fiance is gay???

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  33. I’m 37 weeks pregnant and ever since I was 6months pregnant I’ve been having the same dream that my husband is cheating on me. The thing that bothers me in the dream is that it all happens so naturally. As if there’s nothing wrong with what his doing. We always in a crowd and the people there all know that in his wife and his cheating partner also knows me. Where the ‘other woman’ is concerned I always gt the feeling that I know who she is but her face is not that of the person I know. My dream always ends with him leaving me to go with her and I end up crying in the dream and I wake up literally bawling my eyes out!

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  34. Ive been with my husband for nine years but only married for three we had a ricky relationship at first he was a cheater but i never dreamed it before until last night i have a friend.that lives wit us n her.boyfriend stays to off n on well neway i dream i caught them together well actually someone told me but i co.frontdd them n they denied it but i said i already new n they confessed but wjat frealed me out was that we.just bought a house n everything that happened happened.in the new hoise n new car i beat him to a pulp when he cobfessed n im not a violent person at all but i have never dreamed of him cheating before even when he was should i be wordied

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  35. Hi Dreammaster, I would love to hear your interpretation of my last dream. In the dream, my husband and I shared our house with his parents & a young Asian woman(I know in real life he has flippantly mentioned the appeal of Asian women). I was aware in the dream of this woman being like a mistress or 2nd wife if you will, but I gradually became more and more upset at their relationship resulting in me punching my husband in the face many times, which I then felt really bad about & ran away feeling devestated

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  36. My fiancé and I were out to dinner and we were walking to our car, he received a text so I playfully grabbed his phone (as we both have agreed no secrets). Without skipping any portion of dream we end up in a bedroom o a house I loved in years ago as a teenager. I look at the text and it was a video. He casually told me not to play it but I did of course. At first it showed just a fluffy blue stuffed animal, then a few seconds later it was a girl showering and saying his name and everything! I of course was really upset calling him all kinds of terrible names and throwing stuff at him. Then he grabbed me and pushed me against the dresser and was almos lifting me off the ground. He grabbed a deodorant and was going to mark on my forehead disgusting and mean words. Then I started to kick and push him off me and woke myself up actually pushing him off me. What could all that mean??

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  37. My husband and I have been married for 3 weeks, but have been together for 7 years. I had a dream I saw him cheating on me with a hotel employee. She had changed into a red bikini and when I walked up, I saw her and my husband get out of the pool and start making out. She saw me and attempted to tell him, but he didn’t hear her. I just kept watching them. When he finally saw me, I told him we were getting a divorce. I went to a hotel room shared with a lady who was also divorcing her husband for the same reason. I unpacked his items from a bag i had. I was crying a lot. A man came up to our room location looking for his room. He found it across a street, and it was a very old rustic cabin. Then I woke up.

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  38. I’ve had a few dreams where my husband was cheating on me. It really upsets me & I’m so angry when I wake up. The last dream I had we were at a party together. Everything seemed like it was going great but then these 2 people showed up. After they showed up, my husband disappeared. Come to find out he had sex with another woman. I gave him my wedding ring back & took his but he didn’t seem like it upset him at all. What could this mean? I really would love to understand why it is I have dreams like this.

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  39. My husband dreams of having oral sex several times a night.His breathing changes and then he has a full erection in seconds.There all the moans and movements made as if we were having sex. Yet his erections are not as fast and full when we have sex.I have feelings he is cheating.I cannot stand the effects of his dreams that I moved out of our bedroom to another room.He wakes up exhausted.I’ve purchased herbal sleep aids to help calm his mind but he still doing it.I offered to take care of him during one of his dreams and have been told I’m oversexed,he need his sleep.How can I stop him

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  40. Hi Dreammaster,

    I just hada very vivid dream that my partner was somehow working with or involved in the police force. He told me he had been cheating on me with a ‘filthy slut’ who worked with him. He told me her name and that they had been having sex at work on lunch breaks and smoke breaks.
    When I got angry he seemed a little remorseful and that she had pursued him. I was devastated and so angry! I knew he only told me because he thought I would be ok with it but I really wasn’t.
    I went to his work and we were in a lift together when a girl came in. She had dark curly hair and some how her name was said. I said ‘I know who you are!’ and she looked guilty.
    There was another man in the lift and I started raising my voice ‘you are treacherous, cheating…’ then the man leaned over to kiss my partner! My partner said ‘you weren’t supposed to do that yet’
    I was dumbfounded and my partner explained they had only kissed a couple of times and it was because the sound of his voice.
    I knew my partner would keep cheating on me with the girl and I wanted to break up. He was like there wasn’t really anything wrong and I would get over it. He kept trying to touch me which I hated and said he could never touch me again and I got so angry when he tried that I tried to hit him in the face but he blocked me. I said ‘all this time and you haven’t wanted to touch me but you’ve been having sex! Ice been so lonely and unwanted!’
    Our kids were with us in a car, I could tell my eldest sort of understood what was going on but my youngest was oblivious. I told my sister and brother that we were breaking up and then I was posing in a family photo with them and our kids.
    I felt a taping in my legs and my partner was behind me with bright orange/red drum sticks tapping me. He seemed happy. Then he did it to my daughter but just a bit harder than necessary and I said ‘you have no right to touch her or me anymore!’ but my daughter want so angry, she tried to take the drumsticks and do it back to him.
    I felt so angry and upset/hurt in the dream. I woke up.
    I have relatively frequent dreams of him being angry but never one of him cheating and he seemed actually happy, what does it mean??

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  41. Hi dreamaster, I’ve had this dream for the last 2 years in my 7 year relationship, and I’m at the point where I’m about to loose it even though its not real.
    In the dream my partner and I are out in the car, its stormy and we pick this girl up out of the blue cause she was at the side of the road freezing to death.
    We get home and make her a coffee and tell her to phone her parents and my partner gets her a towel to dry off, suddenly he gets really over friendly with her and for some reason in my dream I get angry and say if he really wants her he should ‘do’ her.
    I go upstairs and have a shower and when I come out he’s in our bed with her, she smiles at me and I get really upset and cry my eyes out, my boyfriend dosent chase me downstairs for at least 5 minutes and I say to him (the same thing all the time) if you love and care for me so much and think I’m so special, you’d have never gone through with it and he just hangs his head in shame..

    We’ve been together for 7 years and this dream is tearing us apart.

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  42. I had a dream of my husband flirting with a blonde woman right infront of me and they wouldn’t stop even though I said to them stop.

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  43. Hi,

    I’m 5 months pregnant, and keep dreamin that my partner is cheating on me, I also dream that I’m cheating on him but with him.. or someone who isn’t him.. but looks just like him. What does that mean? It is really upsetting and starting to effect me in real-life.

    Thanks~

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  44. Normaly my boyfriend loves to take pictures and sends them to me. In my dream, I dreamed that he had token a pictured n edited it to b blurrry around him. Then I took of the blurry and saw that in the background his 2 best friends where havin sex with their partners and my boyfriend had some girl next to him. What does this mean??..

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  45. Hi, so this was my dream last night. My fiance of 3 years and I were out hanging with my sister and her friends at a bar and my sisters friend showed interest in my fiance. My sister was actually incouraging it and my fiance was into her. He didn’t even think.twice about leaving me for her and seemed very happy. I left the bar to a different room which happened to be an old classmates wedding about start and as I was walking down the hall, I passes many old classmates, I headed to the bathroom but each stall was so disgusting with feces everywhere. I look in the mirror and next to me I see the girl my fiance left me for but she no longer looked like my sisters friend, she was completely diff looking, much more beautiful. I then go outside and see her and my fiance holding each other , laughing, kissing and smiling but my fiance looked like a completely diff person as well. Looks wise they were not the same people but I knew they were my fiance and my sisters friend. What does this mean? Thank you!

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  46. Here’s my problem; The last 2 times I dreamed my husband cheating they were very clear with name of the female and everything. Well it was true. Both times he was cheating or planning on cheating. Well this time it was different. I dreamed that he and a very close friend of mine came close to cheating and one of them called it off. The problem is, I have had my suspicions about them, but kept it to myself, and now since I have asked him to tell me if something like that has happened, he got really sick to his stomach, and did a few other things that were weird towards her, for example there not talking like they used to. I just really want the truth. Should I chop it up as a dream, or go with my gut feeling?

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  47. Had a dream that my baby father came to visit me while I was still pregnant, so that we could have sex. Well, he left to go see his ex who coincidently worked at a bar called the North Star in the same city. After a while, he didn’t return so I called him & told him to come back, he begged could he stay a little while longer i kept saying no so he hing up after he wouldn’t, I put on clothes, asked for directions to the bar. It was closed when I got there but someone left the door open so I walked in & she was sitting in between his legs & they were talking amongst other couples.

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  48. I have this dream where me and my boyfriend go on a trip together but he runs into someone we both went to school with and he has sex with her I walk in on them and he doesn’t care. He doesn’t try to hide it he just doesn’t care. Then he tells me he loves her and likes me. Once I get him alone I tell him please stop you barely know her we have been together for so long and I tell him to think about that. Again he doesn’t seem to care and he says this girl and I should share him!? I tell him I want nothing to do with him and so forth. Then later in the dream he wants me back this girl that he is with isn’t like me and he doesn’t like that. What can it mean?? It really kinda freaks me out..

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  49. I had a nightmare my ex boyfriend who I’m still involved with disappeared with these girls that I used to be friends with in real life. After I caught the girls trying to drive off in my car, my ex insisted on driving them and ran off with them before I could do anything. I tried to follow his car in the parking lot but I kept coming up to medians and road blocks. Next I decided just to try and call him. Right to voicemail. I called her, also right to voicemail. I didn’t know the other girls number. In the dream I’m shaking and crying and extremely anxious. I finally try to just look for them at the resteraunt where one of the girls works. I find them huddled together in the freezer in the kitchen on the floor. Of course my ex says they were just trying to keep warm but his lies make me furious. “you must think I’m so stupid!” I yell. Then I become violent with the girls. I’m beating them up and smashing their heads into the concrete floors and the metal walls of the freezer. They are unconscious but I’m angry that they just.. Won’t… Die. I’ve never gotten into. Physical altercation like this nor am I a violent person. In the dream I didn’t hurt my ex, instead I thought if I could just kill the girls then he would want to be with me again. I’m pretty sure this dream is a metaphor for all the mistrust and issues in our relationship that I wish would just go away. Subconsciously I must feel that if I could “kill” our past problems that me and my ex could work things out and get back together, although it is very clear in. The dream our problems may become dormant but I can not make them die fighting them on my own while he sits and watches. In the dream he didn’t seem concerned for the other women I was trying to kill. He stood by and just said “it’s not what you think..” I woke up during the beating, there was no resolution to the dream as there is no resolution to our current on and off again relationship.

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  50. Last night I had a very vivid dream that my girlfriend cheated on me whilst on an all-female holiday with a guy she met there. In the dream she said that she had been feeling lonely and missing me when she had got talking to this guy, which led to them kissing and touching each other before my girlfriend felt guilty and stopped.

    I’ve been with this girl for over two years now and I love her a lot, but this dream is worrying me because it is not the first time I have had dreams like it, and in 6 months time I am to start training in the RAF and she has said that she is going to miss me a lot.

    Is my brain trying to warn me about something that is inevitably going to happen when I leave her alone for months at a time, given the link between her saying she is going to miss me in real life and her using loneliness as an excuse in my dreams, or am I just being paranoid?

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  51. My next dream I walk in a old style WALgreens n I’m hurt from geting hit in da leg with a car. So I walk in to get medicine I walk up to the counter n there is this black gurl my age n look just like me n she has da phone on speaker n I hear him telling her all about him n his lil boy n how he need a good women.. so I take a ballon n pop it by da phone he didn’t hear it but she ask me do you know him I said yes. She rung up my stuff ad he contiue to talk n Wen she finished she ask how do you know him I.said that’s my boyfriend well now he is just my ex thank you you can have him now .. n I walked away she staerd at me with a blank Look n took a big gasp..

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  52. I keep haveing dreams of my boyfriend flirting with other women. One dream we were in my home town . N I over heard him talkin to a women name Sarah. She was a phone operater for a car place .the whole time they talk she is giggling n he just keep makeing her giggle not worrying about me standing there so he says when will meet n she said any time he got her number n I.drove off I back up into his car n drove as fast as I can away from him… Then I started hhinkn n I turn around to go back n there were millions of ppl in front of me and I couldnt make it thru so I had to get out my car n walk . I kept pushing thru all these ppl to get to him but it was so hard it took for ever to get thru Wen I finally made it I did not see him I looked all over n nuntin then I hear a faimilr voice coming from behind me and its him he’s asking her if she had a good time n were dey going to do it again I crashed. To da ground n tears

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  53. I recently had a dream that I was back with my ex. boyfriend after us breaking up from his cheating and he was trying to make things right. He said he wanted us to do something and could I come pick him up. I did. We ended up at a cemontary in the IE. he gets out the car kisses me and ends up going with some chick that it was obvious that they were more than friends and he just laughed, as I cried. I we broke up 2 years ago. Why would I be dreaming about him now out of the blue?

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  54. I had a dream this doctor told me to have sex with separated husband a lot, and give him a peel. As we are having sex in a position he enjoys we get out of that position my accident. He then ask a friend of his to have sex with me I was shocked he would say that. So I did at first when I tried to have sex with his friend I couldn’t because he was to big for but eventually we did. I saw myself pregnant but the baby was my separated husbands.

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  55. I had a dream last night that my partner of 17 yrs was cheating on me..he had jst cum bak from a trip and I was in the toilet I also had my period..wen walking out of the toilet I went into our room and Thea he was with another girl who I’ve Neva seen before jst about to pull the blankets ova then and he looks at me as if to say get out of the room..after that he walked out and said he had enough of all the mess that goes on around the house that we were in…and this girl walks around as if nothing’s happened…it was weird cos Thea were friends in Thea that were very close to us and they jst sat there…we have six children together and moved to Perth ova a yr ago…wat the hell does this mean..I use to have these sort of dreams all the time and I knew the person he was cheating with..

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  56. I keep having dreams that I’m cheating on my boyfriend, but while its happening in my dream i start to cry and say i cant cheat on him no what am i doing, the people i have cheated with are my friends that are boys, i have no sexual attraction to them, but even when i wake up in the morning i have such a lot of guilt i have to tell him. I know i shouldnt because there dreams and no need to upset him but i have to tell him and he now thinks i want to explore sexually as he’s been my only partner.

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  57. I had a dream last night that I caught my husband cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. I walked in on them she jumped up like she was surprised and they where both drunk. I kicked her ass and threw her out the room. Then I go to ask my husband whats going on he wouldn’t say anything! That got me so frustrated that I hit him in the face and he still didn’t say anything. Then I go on cussing him out about your gonna hear from my lawyer and I’m gonna take all your money and you will never see your daughter again! (we just recently had our daughter 3 mons ago) what could this dream mean?

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  58. First I would like to say that my husband has never cheated on me (not that I know of). I had a dream where me and my husband were asleep in bed, I wake uo to go the bathroom as I walked away I heard a noise so I look back and I saw my husband having sex naked ontop of a woman. I didnt see the woman, but immediately I yelled and got angry at his betrayal. Told him it was over and that I was leaving him, started packing my things to leave and he tried to convince me to stay but I really didnt see him try hard enough, like he didnt care if I left. I was crying but trying to hold it in, so he wouldnt see how hurt I was. I left went to my moms and in my dream a day later he just didnt care if I left him and was like “Ok if this is what you want to do, then do it, leave” I was hurt and betrayed and started getting my stuff out of our house that I had left behind and he was just looking at me, I was expecting him to hold me back (even though I wouldnt have stayed) but al least some kinda of desire of him fighting for me, but none whatsoever, I was hut, it felt so real I dont know what to think.

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  59. So I keep having dreams that my husband is cheating on me and will leave me. They happen all the time. Last night I had a dream that he cheated on me and got one of my old high school friends pregnant and got me pregnant too. But all he cared about was my friend that was pregnant. He left me and our daughter to go be with her. What do these dreams mean?!?

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  60. i had a dream that we were celebrating my boyfriends birthday and he invited a friend over he said he knew for a long time. well we were hanging out in the living room and i fell asleep only yo wake up hear the girl he invited over asking him to draw her and they were having sex and when i woke up in my dream they were cuddled together.

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  61. I dreamed my mother was sleeping with my husband and I somehow found out. in the dream neither of them acted like it was a big deal. my husband asked me if I still loved him and my mom tried to have me kept hidden away. in reality my husband and mama can’t stand each other. please tell me what this means. it was very upsetting and I was extremely upset and hurt in the dream.

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  62. Dear Dream Master,

    I had a dream last night that I just can’t shake. I dreamt that my husband and I was back in my home town and at my mother’s. I was heading out with my best friend to have some dinner then drinks. Well, at dinner something funny happened at dinner that was hilarious so I was going to stop by and tell my husband before I met my friend at the bar. I remember feeling extremely happy up to that point in the dream. When I went into the house, I found my husband having sex with my sister, but it wasnt my sister just a gorgeous skinny blonde. They stopped and he stood up while I was screaming how could you. He kept saying that I shouldve thought about that before I got fat and he wasnt in love with me anymore. The girl kept saying it will be okay and you can forgive him and get thru this. He told me he had divorce papers anyway and that I could just keep the kids and find them a new dad. At the end, i was sitting on the porch crying and he sat next to me and finally apologized and said he didnt really know what to say when i caught him because he knew that was it. I remember feeling like the whole time all of it was going on, the room was spinning and it was so much chaos but i felt like I was standing still watching it all happen with tears streaming down my face. What does this mean?

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  63. I have vivid dreams every night but this one was particularly disturbing. It was my fiance and my wedding day, but before we could get married, he had to divorce his current wife. My fiance has never been married before, but in my dream he was. The strange thing was, they had to have a normal wedding to do it, and it was right before mine. So im standing in the back of the church in my dress watching this other woman who I did not recognize, but she was another nationality, standing across from my fiance. The say their “vows” and the preacher says, “you may kiss your ex-wife.” I was infuriated. The dream kind of blurs out there and skips to my house..

    We are grilling out and all of a sudden a car pulls up. Im fully aware of who is in the car, but no one gets out. My fiance starts acting strange and he can tell that I notice. Then I see him packing up these boxes with stuff I recognize seeing before. And when I ask him what its for he says its for his ex girlfriend, and that she was in the car waiting for him to give it back to her. Just then she gets out and I do recognize her.. shes not the same woman from the wedding, shes his real Ex…And they begin talking like im not even there. Talking about things i never knew about, like classes they had together and trips they went on. The he says, “i’ll see you later babe”, and turns and kisses her, right in front of me. Not like a peck, but like a series of kisses.

    I was so shocked that I woke up, and did not sleep for the rest of the night. So here we are and im confused as ever. Please help.

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  64. i had two dreams last night. in my first dream, i cheated on my boyfriend and they guy i cheated on him with came to beat him up & i woke up in a panic. the second dream i had was him cheating on me. he works in an office and he had an affair with a girl in his office and he told me in my dream that he slept with her and was honest about everything. i was totally heartbroken. what do these back to back dreams mean?

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  65. I had a dream that I was standing next to my boyfriend and there was a shower… then out of no where this guy walked up and they started making out right in front of me. I grabbed him and said your making out with a dude. He responded what??? Oh I though it was a chick… he seemed out of it. Like drunk or on drugs. What the heck does this mean.? lol

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  66. My husband is in the military, I woke up this morning at 5am and he had already left for work but I hadn’t heard him leave but I went back to sleep. I dreamt that for some reason we were being intimate and another man walked in. He told me to turn around so he can do anal, I said NO and sat down trying to cover my self so he turned to my husband and said the same thing. My husband turned around and offered up his behind. I was sitting there watching a man have anal sex with my husband and he was enjoying it and excited. The nastiest part is that I was upset in the dream but still let me husband hold me. I woke up feeling disgusted, betrayed and confused. Any insight on what this dream means would be very helpful.

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  67. I had a dream that there were lots of people at a party, in a sort of feild and i was there with my boyfriend, we were all drunk and he snogged another girl right infront of me, when i was upset and crying he said it was just a kiss and was really casual about it, then in a completely different place i ended up kissing another guy when my boyfriend was there, and he was with a girl who he kissed aswell, we both told eachother and were upset but didnt break up or anything.

    I’ve had dreams of me cheating and him cheating all the time! With girls i recognise and people i dont and the same with guys.

    ..the thing is i am in an extremely happy relationship?! We trust eachother 100%, i can tell him stuff, about my family for instance that i’ve never told any of my closest friends, i am so in love with him, so why am i dreaming this; it completely eludes me…

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  68. Hi DreamMaster
    My girlfriend told me about a dream she had the other night.
    she dreamed she was kissing Sylvester stallone (take ‘kissing how you like’ and she found a suicide note from me. she then found me on a bridge and we both tried to jump off together.
    Is this just a random dream or does it mean shes after someone more ‘physical’ but is afraid I’ll be hurt me, and by jumping off she agrees it was bad?

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  69. my girlfriend got a dream that we fought and later we got back to each other..
    the next night i got the same kind of dream that i fought for some misunderstanding and again later things got proper…
    what does this mean ???

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  70. Could someone help me out please???

    I have been having dreams about my husband cheating on me. It is kinda weird do describe because in my dream I never really ´see´ the actual woman he cheats on. But, he admits to it very easily. Saying stuff like ´Yes, I cheated on you, we need a divorce´. In my dream I am begging him to stay with me. I am crying my eyes out while he sits there, not caring at all. Laughing, almost. I see him going inside a room in the Barracks, to go have sex with someone. (Again, I never see with who, but he is open about it and tells me what he did with no shame).

    What does this mean??? In all honesty, I have more trust in my husband than he has in me. He ALWAYS checks my emails, texts and all that stuff, and I have NEVER done such a thing to him. I let him go out with friends, give him all the space he needs. While he doesn´t approve those things for me. I can´t really believe these are trust issues on my side… Help me please????

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  71. I just had a dream where I was around a few people and my husband, I was “willing” to share him with another girl as long as there wasn’t sex (I know very silly). I then walk in on him and her going at it (but only lasted 2 seconds before he ahem… did his thing) I then walk out furious, and give him the cold shoulder and proceed to make him feel extremely bad about it, then I woke up crying my eyes out. We’ve been together for years now, and he’s never done anything like that, in fact he never wants a 3-some with another girl, and hates porn. I know I found one of the rare men, but this dream just makes me extremely upset. Why would I dream about this since I’m not even paranoid? We used to work together and he got quite a bit of attention from the ladies, they would tell me to tell him he’s sexy or whatnot, then I’d say “I will let my husband know” because I had a hint of jealousy, but even then when someone would hit on him, he’d have me take care of them b/c it made him uncomfortable. I just really want these thoughts to go away, I’ve never been happier in my life and these types of dreams ruin my day and sometimes up to 3 days because it’s stuck in my mind! He’s someone I want to grow old with, but I’m even afraid of that because I think about what life would be like without him and I want things to just stay how they are. Most couples fight over money or lack there of, but we never fight and hardly even have an argument, we’ve never fought over money, or even the 3-some we had while we were broke up about 5 years ago (it was with another man, which I regret) we laughed about it several times, but inside I still feel like I betrayed him (it was their idea, him and his best friend *who he doesn’t talk to anymore b/c he got involved with drugs*) AND there was alcohol involved. I only remember sleeping with my husband though. I wonder if this has anything to do with the dreams, I’ve had them more then once but not all the time, and every time I wake up crying and clenching onto him. I just can’t stand the though of sharing him, so I have no idea why I would dream about it. And on top of it all it was on our anniversary, so I’ll be in a so-so mood today.

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  72. I had a very disturbing dream last night that my Husband was having an affair with my Mother. I had found erotic notes that my Husband had written for her and when I confronted my Mum she confessed without any real emotion or regret. The rest of dream was me watching them have sex and crying hysterically!

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  73. I have a dream almost every night that my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex. I have caught him spending time with her before and talking to her behind my back, the dream is always a different scenario but its always that he is cheating on me or leaving me for her. we have a great relationship and shes moved away recently and im almost positive that they no longer keep in contact with eachother but it was hard for awhile she was obsessed with getting him back and even had him sent to jail on bogus charges twice just to prove a point among many other crazy things. But I want this dream to go away for good i love him and i dont want to wake up every morning thinking about him being with her.

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  74. This morning I woke up out of a dream in tears and feeling very anxious… I can’t remember the dream but the part I do remember is haunting me..
     My boyfriend and I were laying in bed at my parents house and I turned to him and said maybe we shouldn’t do this anymore(as in being together)… He just said well whatever it’s up to you all calm and carefree… This answer made me mad so I questioned him, you won’t suggest trying to work it out, fight for us… He looked at me and said you know I’m going to cheat on you again!!! I felt very anxious the dream went fuzzy and I started asking what why what do you mean… He said I’m telling you i am going to cheat on you again… Like warning me, leave cause I’m gonna hurt you again clearly I don’t care… Pls interpret… Thank u

    P.s… For two yrs I have had dreams of him cheating, or telling me he doesn’t want to be with me

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  75. I dream my husband is cheating on me but he doesn’t know who I am. I try to get him to come home but this other woman (can be a stranger or my a friend) won’t let him. I am so sad and distraught in my dream that I want to kill them both and I try to. I am not a violent person in real life, I am calm but after losing my Mother I am petrified of losing my husband even though we weren’t even together with my Mother passed. I often awake being angry with my husband even though he’s done nothing wrong. Another problem was that in our early years of dating and living together my husbands ex would always try and worm her way into his life and now I am a bit paranoid about her even though my husband reassures me but she’s gone as far as friending his sister so that I look insecure. I know my husband loves me but my dreams disturb me and I want this to stop once and for all.

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  76. I’ve dreamt for 3days stright now. The first night was about me walking into my house and seeing 3 women in the shower and my husband was in our bed with 2other women. He opened a strip club and stayed there all day and night and cared more about the stripppers than me and his daughter.
    Second night was that he found out he had a baby with someone else.
    Third night was that same baby but now that we would pick her up and take care of her…. what does all of this mean?

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  77. I had a dream that my boyfriend of 2 years cheated with a girl he has cheated on me in real life with, in the beginning of our relationship.

    I have had several but this one stood out because they got married, a quick marriage from court/chapel. Even I was shocked because it was something he would never do. In my dream he was still with me , we were having a casual date and then tells me he is cheating and he then goes to pick her up when I was still in his vehicle, and he was being very affectionate towards her, and they are telling me theyre plans and how much they want to be together.

    What does it mean? I know he loves me so much and always says it was a huge and stupid mistake on his part for doing it once but he will never do it again.

    Am I just scared? What was with the marriage part and he being affectionate with her in front of me and telling me their plans???

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  78. My husband is in the military, and i keep having dreams where he has a girlfriend & divorces me. He was in a different country stationed for 2 years without me. i never heard from him. I had a dream he came home to me but he brought a girl who was his girlfriend in the dream and he paid no attention to me, only her. then he left to go to Vegas with her. i was heartbroken in the dream but never questioned him. While he was in another country, i had a dream he died. the rest of the time i had dreams where i’d be by him but there was something that prevented me from actually having him or feeling the love from him i needed. what do all of these mean?

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  79. i have this dream that my girlfriend is leaving me. its not always the same conversation or setting but she’s been leaving me everyday for a week now and im always devastated after she tells me in the dream

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  80. I had a dream that my boyfriend was talking to a girl he previously played me with in the past, yes he has cheated but I forgave him. Anyways. The weird thing about this is that my boyfriend had a dream we were walking and a guy passes by and we locked eyes and I couldn’t stop looking at him, so he broke up with me thinking I cheated on him. We are both in a long distance relationship, he’s away for college but we talk about me going out there and starting new lives with each other. Anyways what does this mean? Both Dreaming of breaking up, the same night!?

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  81. I had two dreams in one night of my boyfriend of six years cheating on me. The first dream we went to his co workers house. We sat on her couch then out of no where they started kissing right in front of me. I got up and took her by the hair and yanked her off of him then I slapped and punched my boyfriend in the face as I was screaming and crying at him.
    In the second dream we were at his house with his brother in law and some random girl who was a minor I don’t even remember her face. But after a few minutes we were watching tv and she went and sat on my boyfriends lap. I don’t know why but I ignored that. Next thing I know they’re having sex right in front of me and his brother in law said dirty dirty boy, that’s when I got up shoved her off and started slapping him and punching him while he did nothing! I yelled at him saying she was a minor and I could put him in jail and then I was crying asking him we just had sex if you wanted more why didn’t you just come have sex with me instead of her? I was getting my stuff together to leave and he was telling me to hurry up and get out

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  82. So I every once in a while I dream that my husband is cheating on me. It is always with a different girl and always different scenarios in this reoccurring dream. But one thing that stays the same, I always confront him in the dream and he always chooses the other woman.
    Cheating is apart of both of our past with each other. But we are currently seeking marriage counseling and trying to work on things. What does my dream mean?? Me dreaming this about once every two weeks is really starting to drive me crazy!!!

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  83. I had a strange dream last night. I was with my girlfriend in a hotel room and her phone started ringing and she answered it and I heard a man asking her at what time he could go over and she immediately told him not tonightAfter I told her you’re cheating on me and she says I thought you knew. What does this mean?

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  84. Hey, well me and my bf have a pretty long while together. Im pregnant and recently I found in his old phone things I didnt like.it seemed as if he was still with another girl in the first week of our relationship but he claims he had broken up with her before. There was pictures girls would send him almost naked. He would text these girls for while but stopped. I dreamed that we had gone to a clinic/mal/ school type of place and I found pictures of him in bed with another girl and my cap came out in the background, meaning he was with me. We went through alot of arguing and got to my house. I live in the back side of the house and my mom couldnt offer him a ride to his house so I told him I would walk him a little. My friend and my little brother followed but werent out the house yet.When we went outside, there was a car on the st with a guy that said hi to me so my bf pulled me to his other side. Then I looked to the other side and saw a guy getting off another car with a shotgun and started shooting aall the houses around . My bf and I hid behind a car so it wouldnt hit us. I started praying and woke up.

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  85. I had this dream that my husband had this friend that look like solange ( beyonce sister) and she was secretly in love him. He and I was not aware of that tho. So my husband and I was at a cook out of hers because she invited us. At this cook out she kept dropping hints, like singing songs and ect. So when I was not around her and her friends all gang up on my husband and started flirting with him and asking him why didn’t he get with the soloange look alike instead, telling him that she was in love with him and telling him they don’t see what he see in me. My husband stood up for me and had some choice words for them and told them that he love his wife and he isn’t going anywhere because he wants me. The soloange looked alike heard what he said and ran off crying , I saw her not knowing what just happen and went to comfort her. She than told me what happen. I felt a little mad, than happy that my husband stood up for me than I forgave her and told her its best if she dose not contact my husband again and my dream was over. What was that dream about?

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  86. Hello Dream Master ok so this morning I woke up from a strange dream it started off innocent enough with a couple of my friends and I talking and acting really foolish but we decided to go to another room and we all split up looking for a good room and when I opened the door I found my girlfriend on top of this guy I’ve never seen before both of them naked and she looks back at me while she’s on top of him continuing on top of him until they’re both finished and she asked me as I stood there made and disgusted what the problem was and as soon as she said that I flew off the handle. I woke up before I did anything to bad but this is the decline time I had a dream similar to this what could this mean

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  87. I had a dream that i was with my friends at college, and my boyfriend was living with me. He came in to give me something, i cant remember what it was. But a pretty girl i knew came in and left with him, but as they walked away they held hands. So right away i confronted them that it was not okay. And they didnt understand why and then i woke up. He has cheated on me before and lied about it. What does this mean?

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  88. I had a dream that my boyfriend and I were in my room and he walked out for a few minutes. He had left a small black bag on my bed and when i opened it to see what was in there i found a used condom tied up. When he came back to my room i started a big argument with him and he said it was a 1 time thing with someone that we actually know in the real world. Since I’ve had that dream its been messing with my mind. What does it mean? =/

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  89. i keep dreaming that my fiance is cheating. it is always with a friend, relo or his ex wife. most nights i wake up crying and am really angry with him. in the dreams he cheats, i catch him and he acts like he doesnt care and most of the time leaves me for another women. it started when i was pregnant with our son and now our son is 7 months old abd i had one last night

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  90. My dream is that my husband put some of my clothes in the spare room I asked him why then I saw him decorating our room, then we went down stairs and he said their is the rest of your clothes, packed just leave this house.( But he keeps telling my kids in Real world) that I’m planning to leave. I don’t understand, yes we are going through a ruff patch, but if I leave I’ll leave in my own time.. Yes he has cheated in me with another… Still have contact, no I don’t have sex or make love with him cause of this… I have left him last year for 6 weeks, he came after me.. I don’t feel anything… So this dream must be true then

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  91. i just had a dream my boyfriend was cheating it woke me up so a fell back asleep and guess what i had the same dream….and i did this about 2 or 3 more times and now im awake and cant stop thinking about it

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  92. Hi. My husband was unfaithful to me in the beginning of our marriage, with porn, and trying to start relationship with other females. Yet “supposedly”, no sexual intercourse. Well about 8 years into our marriage i found out that he had slept with a close friend of mine. I forgave him, and we are tryng to work things out. I recently had my 10 year anniversary, and i keep having this reaccuring dream , that he has been cheating on me for years , with a mistress. His family knows about it, and he just dosent seem to care. His demeanor is like, well its your choice to stay with me or not. Kinda like with a shrug. I get so angry. In the last dream I tried to let the mistress know, i wasnt mad at her, that she had to much ahead of her to be in this situation. Than I walked out and left him. I was actually relieved when I did. Just angry that he was a snake and lied and snuck again. He has not been unfaithful lately, its been about 2 years. This dream is so tormenting though, because i feel like im reliving the emotional anguish , over and over. Please , whatever advice you can give, will be greatly , appreciated.

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  93. Hello so I’ve had dreams before about my boyfriend kissing a girl infrobt of my face or telling me he likes another girl to my face
    Rightnow I am pregnant and well I feel that he is not intrested or happy but he tells me he is and he tells me loves me.
    last night I dram I was in a room and there was a black girl in bikini and she went to lay down with him and GE started ti kiss her body and I was crying begging him not to do it buxt they left to the other room and had sex then we would go and walk threw my alley and i would see my dougyter and tell my boy friend that she had a sickness abd he didnt even care and then i woked up he

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  94. I live in a different town Monday through Friday, but go home to the house I share with my Fiance on the weekends. We love eachother to death, and I have no reason to believe he’s cheating on me. When we first met, he was getting a divorce because his ex cheated on him. I helped him move out of the home they shared (she moved out a year prior), & unfortunately I got to see a lot of the pictures/letters/cards/tokens of love that they shared. It was unbelievably hurtful to see how much he loved this girl. I have been insanely jealous of her ever since. Again, he gives me SO much attention & love – and I can honestly say anything he could have ever done for her, he’s done for me ten-fold. He’s been very good to me. We still sleep in the bed that he shared with her – their marital bed. He has told me we’re going to go buy a new bed, but we’re always so busy, &keep putting it off. I have a lot of resentment about it though. Now that you have some history – on to the dreams: Every single night when I’m with him on the weekends (or longer periods of time), I dream of him cheating on me with her. In my dreams he knows that I see him, but he’s holding her, and loving her, and leaving me to be with her. I cry and scream, and hurt, and he doesn’t care – he just leaves with her.

    I don’t know what to do. These dreams are wearing me out, and they’ve been going on for a very long time.

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  95. Hi I’m pregnant and I have been having dreams of my boyfriend of 9 years cheating & having sex. I walk into a house which I know and see this girl putting on her top and him with his pants down in shirt off. And the girl calls to someone that I know what does it mean…. We have 4 children and one on the way….
    What does it mean?????

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  96. i had a dream(more than twice) that ive fallen with a man(i dont know who) and we had a relationship together and i am very happy with him but i have a husband thats why i keep the relationship a secret(of course), and i keep crying at the near end of my dreams… in reality/real life, i have a husband but i dont love him, we are almost 2years now but nothing is happening between us and i dont feel like i can ever love him,(its an arranged marriage)… im really afraid that maybe my dream represents the future, i mean, that maybe i will fall in love with someone else.. and to be honest, maybe there is a part of me that looking for someone and be free from my marriage. i dont know anymore. im not in love with amyone right now and i never have fallen in love with anybody in my entire life..

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  97. I had a dream that me and my boyfriend moved to a new city and I met this girl who soon became my friend. Later on I had noticed this girl standing out side of our home talking to my boyfriend ( not the girl who became my friend, a new one) and she was telling him how since they go to the same school and since they get good grades they should try to be together.I screamed he’s my boyfriend! But yet it was though I wasn’t even there and he continued to say I would like that! Then I had went threw his phone and he had sent sexual pictures to this other girl I had known from our old city! It was cartoon animated pictures of characters having sex!! She then responded your crazy you know… then the girl who I had made my friend at the beginning confessed my boyfriend had mentioned something about her boobs. I have been cheated on many times by this man but he has promised he has changed but dreams like this make it worse:(

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  98. I had a dream my husband was spending too much time with a female and I didn’t like that. I told him he had to stop talking to her or else I would kill him. I ended up finding out she wasn’t just a friend, he was cheating on me so I shot him in the leg. I didn’t want to kill him so he could still feel pain…. What does this mean?

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  99. I keep having a dream of my husband going with or being really close to his ex wife.
    For example this one dream was her spending the night at our house and instead of sleeping in our bed with me he went to sleep in the room she was in I went in there but they weren’t doing nothing they weren’t even facing each other.What could that mean?

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  100. I’ve been dreaming like 2 nights about my boyfriends ex-girlfriend. Her and I obviously dont get along yet he and her are still close and still text. It kind of bothers me but I dont eant to tell him who he can and cannot talk to.
    Anyways I had a dream that he was laying on the couch with her and gave her a peck on the lips. And at that exact moment I walked in. He seemed to be mad at me in his dream because as soon as he saw me he started kissing her more like to.try to make me jealous. Then his ex- girlfriend told my boyfriend to stop cause he would hurt my feelings, but by this time i had already ran upstairs and started crying.
    I know in my heart my boyfriend would never act like this but my dreams tell me otherwise. But theres something about his ex I can’t let go for some reason. Anytime he talks about her I immediately get upset.

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  101. Ok so (In ‘real life’) This girl, who was my boyfriends friend, hit me because of rumours that weren’t true bla bla bla. My boyfriend did nothing about it and is STILL good friends with her. She goes over his house & stuff like that & i know hate is a very strong word to use, but i hate her.

    So in this repeating dream, I run away from home & go live with my boyfriend & his mum. About a month passes & i go to work, coming home late. In the dream i was used to just walking into my boyfriend’s room because he was usually asleep by the time i got home from work. So i walk in his room to find him in bed with the girl that hit me, She gets up with the sheets around her & starts abusing me & hitting me. So i quickly grab some of my stuff & run out, his mum following me & soon after my boyfriend.

    I have had this dream so many times, it feels so real, i end up waking up & crying.
    What does this mean?

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  102. Last night I had a dream that i am crying because myhusband cheating at me and he want to separate me and he choose that girl. What is the meaning of that.

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  103. Hi!
    I myself have been having recurrent dreams of my spouse either leaving me or cheating. The one dream I had he was leaving and the only explanation he would give me was that he couldn’t “put up with this anymore”. He would not explain what he was putting up with. I kept begging him to talk to me and he wouldn’t, I was extremely upset and tried following him to see where he was going but lost track of him. In the cheating dreams I never seem to catch him in the act but somehow I find out that he indeed was cheating, either he tells me himself or a friend tells me or I just “know”. I have been having these dreams WAY more than usual over the past few weeks, they are upsetting. We do have things going on in iour personal life so these dreams are probably a part of it, he hasn’t cheated that I know of but I have caught him having inappropriate conversations online. Most of our problems are because of my son and our finances.

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  104. Hi. I had a dream that I walking in on my partner and he was having sex with another woman. He ran out after me but I wouldn’t give him time because if how upset I was. In the dream we were at some type of gathering and it was someone that we don’t know but she was what I think it he thinks as his ideal woman. After I found out he said he was leaving me for her and after the weekend he decided to come back home. I woke up and horribly went back to sleep in the dream and he was awful. Treating me bad, not helping me to believe that I had reasons to trust him after I was telling him I was having troubles with everything. It just felt so real and now I can’t get it out of my head.

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    • If he is with you and loves you, YOU are his ideal woman.
      Don’t fret, don’t ruin a good relationship by getting suspicious if there is no reason to.

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  105. Hi, I had a dream that it was our wedding reception and my boyfriend invited his ex. So he told me he wanted a beer and when i went to go grab it for him he disappeared. I went looking for him and bumped into his younger brother and i told him not to call my bf cus i knew he was looking out for him. So i found my bf having sex with his ex and i told him i was pregnant and that this was our wedding completely freaking out. and his ex is just sitting there laughing. I ended up in the car with him where he tells me he’s leaving me for her and i end up hitting him. thats when i wake up.

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  106. My boyfriend had a dream that me him and a good friend of his were at the gym working out. He saw me mesmerized and continually starting at his friend. He said the dream was in color and my face was red, but I could not stop staring at him. He said he looked at me and said hay wsup but I kept staring. Then I got mad and left. What does that mean?

    Thank you

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  107. hi in real life i love this now ex but we’re still meeting up. i am fed up he hasn’t commited to me and wont be my boyfriend. he keeps asking me to change first before we become a couple again and i dont think its fair of him to say this. its been a year and a half since we have both been single but we still used to spend almost every day together up until 5months ago when i had to move house. he ignored me for 5months. no contact. i thought it was over, anyway, about the dreams i have had lots of him being with other women sometimes my friends other times people i dont know. im fed up of it and feel he is using me for sex. as far as i know hes not with anyone else now and is keen on seeing me still. i dont want to be on my own anymore i want to be back with him. also a dream last night is about my ex he is dead in the waking world but in the dream world i saw he took drugs after surgery and died! what does this mean! as in waking world its not how he died! thanks

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  108. I dreamt that my mum slept with my recent ex boyfriend who I am still very much in love with. I was so mad and upset. I became verbally abusive towards her. She started proclaiming they were in love. She had never actually met my ex in real life.

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  109. Weirdest dream ever! I had a dream that an alligator was climbing up my wall and I looked up and saw it over my head. Hurriedly, I jumped up out of bed, ran out of the room, closing the door behind me and began banging on the door across the room from me. The door was locked and my husband finally came to open the door. When I stepped in, he was unclothed and my mother was on the bed undressed as well. I started telling him about the alligator and he responded, “Okay honey, I’ll go check it out in a minute… let me finish up here.” (finishing up meant having sex with my mother!) He didn’t try to put me out of the room or anything, he was going to have sex with her right there in front of me and I began screaming at him and then he shook me in real life lol, asking me if I was okay and that I was dreaming. My mother and I have an excellent relationship, but my mom and my hubby don’t quite see eye to eye on a lot of things. Not sure if that would help the interpretation, but thought I’d throw that in there.

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  110. I keep having these dreams of a friend of mine. I am attracted to him but I have a boyfriend I’ve been with for over to years and I live with him as well. The dreams are sometimes sexual but there are ones where we are just holding eachother and being cuddly. I don’t know what they mean or if they mean anything at all. They are really starting to bother me now…

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  111. I Dreamed that my husband was cheating on me, I sort of knew it but never admit it to my selfl, until I seen a couple pictures of 2 different women. I told him that he needed to stop it, and I didn’t want him to see them anymore at all, to ignore them, and he told me he couldn’t do that, that he needed to tell them instead of just stop and ignore, I notice myself go very mad and take the pictures and my dream ended….PS the girls in the picture where just normal girls no stripper looking kind or model…

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  112. My best friends husband had a dream that he and I had sex nad he said it happened for a long time. Then after he told me that he stated that he wanted to have sex with me in real life? I told him we couldnt and he said he knows but he doesnt want me to say anything about it or look at him differently. What does that dream mean if he wants to make it reality? How do I tell her?

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  113. I have been having this dream two nights in a row that my boyfriend /baby father jazz been cheating with this girl that I see walking down the street everyday and I caught them outside kissing eachother and I beat up the girl and hit my boyfriend /baby father in the face……what does this mean?

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  114. 1st
    Seemed like she had just finished sex with my friend.Actualy what I saw which pained me is my friend just released himself whilst I was watching(i.e he just released his sperms into my wife’s womb whilst watching but I ddnt say anything.thats the end of the dream
    Now my wife is few months pregnant with our second child. Could this have a link, the child not being mine but friend’s. Any way whats the meaning of the dream.

    2nd
    Its like were walking together(my wife and I) from the sea into some unfamiliar paths in the wilderness(forest). The path ,was at some point tarred, narrower, steep slope. An around us was thick vegetation so it was really in the forest that we do not know. So I have to move faster ahead of my wife intending to see whats ahead if its fine, my wife had to follow at her own pace slowly. Whilst I was waiting for her, I saw her walking with a stranger guy and the way they were talking to each other made me suspicious that the guy is proposing my wife, to my surprise my wife was not mad at the guy. So when they approached me, the guy went his way and my wife come to where I was and I asked her who that stranger was? She started telling me stories, that the girlfriend of that guy is in the UK and this and that. What breaks my heart is my wife was entertaining this guy yet she knows that I am around, why ddnt she tell the guy to leave her alone, koz not so many African man like us enjoy seeing their wives enjoying company of other men.
    What could be the interpretation of this dream?

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  115. I am always having dreams that my husband is cheating on me either with an ex of his or someone at his work place. In the dreams he is always leaving me for this girl, we have a child(in real life) & in the dreams but he doesn’t care and that isn’t enough to stop him. I can tell him about these dreams and it seems to me as if he is just blowing it off… I want to know if these dreams do mean something and if I should be concerned.

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  116. I had a dream that my boyfriend was outside with all his friends and his ex shows up and im in the car talking to.my.friend and then he starts kissing his ex in front of me what dose that mean….

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  117. One more thing to add, I had intentions to go find someone to cheat on him with, but when I got back to the house party he was already with some other chick, so I didn’t go through with it. Ive never cheated before, why would I be thinking that way?

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  118. I just woke up from a dream where my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years cheated on me. He has two ex girlfriends, but he is my first serious relationship. I don’t think he would cheat on me in life but Ive had similar dreams before. Ive never seen the first one, whom he claims he ‘loved’, so I imagined her small, pretty and nice. I liked her in my dream until I found out she is his ex. We were all three at a house party (weird because we never do things like that) and ran into his 2nd ex (who I know is not very attractive in life, but was even less attractive in my dream). He was talking to her right in front of me and they went upstairs and hooked up in the bathroom. I was crushed. He came down assuming our relationship was over and seemed fine with it. I did not want to end things, but he didn’t seem to care.
    It seemed so real and I woke up in a sweat and really upset. I’ve never wondered the meanings of dreams before, but this one is bothering me. What could this dream mean?

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  119. I keep having dreams that my husband is cheating on me. At first it was a blur to with who but after a couple months of these horrid dreams I find out it is my “best friend.” this is very angering because it happens every day to the point where I can’t sleep. One of the dreams was last night, we we came to our home the kids were playing and we got into an argument. All of a sudden my “best friend” appeared and I caught them kissing. So I obv flipped and they told me they have been fooling around for a long time and they thought it was okay . All my dreams are so visual and so painful and they are all of him cheating with her. What does this mean ?! Is he really cheating on me with her?

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  120. Hello Dream Master, My boyfriend said he had a dream two woman approach him. one of the woman told him I was cheating with her boyfriend. In real life I wouldn’t dared. I too also have dreams of him cheating sometimes with his daughter mother what is going on PLEASE HELP…

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  121. i keep having this same dream over and over again and for the life of me i cannot figure out why.
    My boyfriend and are are sexually active but not into group sex or anything of the sort. In my dream we are laying down on the bed of my childhood bedroom and kissing. he sits up on top of me and out of the corner of my eye the door opens and in walks this tall white girl with red-brown hair and a sweater ontop, but my own blue town around her waist. I was completey taken back by it in my dream, but my boyfriend beckons for her to come closer. I ask whats going on and he says that we are going to have a threesome with her and her name is Leslie. I immediately say no, as I have no desire whatsoever to share him with anyone EVER. but the girl comes and sits behind him and takes her town off and he leans his head back against her chest and moans. I say I gotta go and head for the door and as I head back he is full on pleasuring her and kissing her. I go into the bathroom and begin to cry. When I decide I’m going to go back in there and put my foot down he and she are completely going at it and he looks up at me and moans and keeps going.

    Each time i have this dream its the same scenario but in a different place, a different girl often but always by the same name. I know no one of his past named Leslie nor my own. When I told him about the dream after 4 months of having it over and over again he got rather upset and kept reminding me that it was just a dream but i keep having flash backs of it, Like where I’m standing at the doorway just watching him and Leslie. What the heck could this mean? It’s driving me insane.

    I know Im not looking for excuses to not be with him because this is the relationship I’ve always dreamed of. And I’ve had this dream when we’re at our happiest and when we’re going through and rough patch.
    Help me pleease decipher what it means!

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  122. I’ve been having these dreams every night or every other night.
    Not always the same scenario but same concept.
    Either my boyfriend is cheating right infront of me and doesnt care that he is doing and just laughs about it.
    Or I go through his phone and see that he is “sexting” other girls and, like the others, he doesn’t care and starts laughing

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  123. Dear Dream Master;
    I had a dream I had walk into a room where my boyfriend was having sex with another girl. I then ran out. I was horrified. My boyfriend was chasing after me trying to apologize. I’m confused of the dream because my boyfriend is a honest and trustworthy person. I should know when a guy is cheating because I have been in two relationships already where both guys cheated on me but one of the signs of them cheating on me is when I dreamed of them doing it. Could my boyfriend be cheating on me?

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  124. Hello dream master. My girlfriend keeps having dreams of me leaving her. We have two kids together and when it comes to the relationship I talk about our kids and us as a whole yet she talks mainly about me leaving her in her dreams for a girl I have no feelings toward. What does this mean?

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  125. I dreamed that my partner and i had a baby…he told me he wasn’t ready, so i excused him from all parenting duties, because i wasn’t getting a abortion…we still remained together..than one day he cheated and had another baby but this time he was,at the hospital with this other girl try and be a dad, he even let his other 2kids know about it and be there also… please help Me figure this out

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  126. I had a dream that I was at my old house where I grow up in and my girlfriend was having sex with another girl right outside my room. What does this mean?

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  127. I had this girl in my dream 10 times.
    the tenth was her talking to me somewhere;probably in a gym.
    And I had a dream that I was in a new home last year.
    But what I really want to know.
    Is this girl thats in my dream in this world?
    Is she really in this world?
    Is it going to happen in real life?

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  128. I had a dream me and my boyfriend were getting married and all o a sudden some girl he knows started kissing him and rapped her her leg around him. They were drunk and I was confronting him about it and he would just laugh with her in front of my face. So I told him “oh I’ll do it to then” and went to look for someone. I woke up sooo mad. What could this dream mean??

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  129. In my dream, we are in a public place and I have my hand on my husbands lower back, then this very familiar looking girll comes up and says “oh is she coming with us?” And then I start trying to hit my husband. I start chasing him and all of a sudden were at my job, I’m still chasing him and he goes to the time clock as if hes “clocking out”of our relationship. I’m on his back hitting and biting him and he is laughing at me for being so upset, telling me he and this girl are in love.
    this is the 2nd time this week I’ve had this dream, and I also had it last year with the same girl.

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  130. i have been having this dream where my fiances ex come over to his mothers house and he sticks up for her, cooks for her and seems so happy and when he is with me he is very depressed what does this mean?

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  131. I just woke up from yet another dream of my boyfriend of 7 months cheating on me. This is the 5th night in a row. This time I had a dream that he gave out his number to a girl I don’t like & I know for a fact he would never like her. However the dream still bothers me. I know my boyfriend loves me & he never gave me a reason to not trust him.. But these dreams are still bothering me very much. I know I still have trust issues with him but why am I now after 7 months starting to have dreams?

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  132. Hi dream master,

    Lately I’ve been having several dreams of me catching my boyfriend cheating on me. In one dream we were skyping with eachother and he must have forgot that I was on skype because I saw another girl in his bed and then in the dream I knew he was cheating on me so it made me very jealous and upset. Another dream I had I was looking for him and we were at my old elementary school and when I finally found him he was in a car with another girl in the passenger seat and his bestfriend and a random girl as well in the backseats. The next dream I can’t remember exact details but I knew he was dating another girl behind my back and I knew who she was and he told me all these horrible things about her and how he wanted nothing to do with her but in my dream I couldn’t get past it so I sent him a text message breaking up with him because I couldn’t forgive him for cheating on me with this other girl. She was blonde and very pretty thats all I can really remember. What do you think?

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  133. I’ve been seeing my new boyfriend, Rob, now since April 2011.
    While we met I was already in a relationship for 2years with Ant, but it wasn’t going strong and was soon coming to an end.
    Although, I ended my first relationship, I still had feelings for my first boyfrie
    d so I continued to keep talking to him secretly from Rob. One day Rob found pictures and textes Ant and I had which got him really upset. Ever since then he always brings it up out of the blue and reminds me how much I had hurt him and our trust and he says he wants to forgive me and trust me again but I hurt him so much by what I did.
    Now I just had a dream, Rob and I were together and I noticed he had a pink and white phone with him so I picked it up and started to go throw the phone. At first he tried to stop be but I had already saw a text between him and his ex-girlfriend. And I saw he said “I love you” to her while we were right there together inperson.
    I woke up sweaty and had a really bad pain in my stomach and I started to cry. I felt the hurt I put him
    in and I regret it so much. I just don’t understand why I dreamt this, so I can feel what I put him threw?
    Please, I need feedback..I am very confussed on this.
    Thank you for reading.

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  134. I keep having dreams that my husband is giving his ex girlfriend money and sneeking around to see her I’ve been having this dream alot lately what does it mean

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  135. Im having dreams of my fiance cheating on me 4 or 5x a week, I dream several things where he has cheated on me on my wedding day with my mum, Hes cheated with my sister, My best friend. Iv dreamt lots that he cheats on me with his ex, everymorning i wake up feeling as if iv just had my heart ripped out i cry almost every time i dream of him cheating, Its getting out of control and im now checking his phone facebook emails ect i cant trust him simply because of the dreams im having, Ill tell him what my dreams are n he explains how he would never do this and how much he loves me, cant wait to get married and have kids ect and i feel better then at night am too scared to sleep incase i feel like this all over again. Because of these dreams im getting less confident in the bedroom more insecure i hate him touching me seeing me naked, im now on anti depressants and i seriously need help with what all this means. I love him so much and too feel as if hes cheated almost every morning is killing me. what does this mean and what should i do?

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  136. I had this dream last night, its a bit long but it felt so realistic. My boyfriend is away training for work and ironically I was thinking about how much I trusted him while he was gone right before I feel asleep.

    In the dream he comes back from training and I meet him in a pub. We have a drink but he walks off and goes missing. I go into the club’s garden and see him kissing another girl and stroking her hair. The girl seems really familiar but I don’t know her. I shout at him and then walk off. I ended up going to a supermarket with my mother and try ringing him but have problems with my phone. He calls me and does not seem apologetic on the phone at all! We end up fighting again and I tell my mother who tells me to go talk to him.

    In this dream my boyfriend does not live with me but instead lives in my very first boyfriend’s house (Who used to cheat on my all the time) and he even had his family! He is nasty to me and three guys and the girl he cheated on me with was there and they start being very nasty about me. I sit with my boyfriend’s brother who comforts me (who is actually my ex’s brother) on the staircase away from everyone.

    My boyfriend tried to hug me and completely changed, saying he wanted to try again and he was very sorry. I try to kiss him but said I couldn’t now he cheated on me. He shrugs not that bothered and I leave the house totally upset.

    Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship and so this dream has rather upset me. It does not make me not trust my boyfriend but I am curious as to what it means. Sorry for the rambling!

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  137. I dreamt that I was in a room and I was listening to a guy masturbating in the room next to mine… The guy was saying stuff but all the sudden he came out of the room and it was my husband he was naked and he told me he was making a lot of noise.. We talked and all the sudden he told me that a guy friend asked him why when he was msturbating he spoke the name Melody… So i got weird and asked him if he knew any girl name Melody… He got all nervouse and i asked him again to swear on his daughters that he haven’t cheated on my… So to that requeast he got all teary and coulnd’t swear… I got all mad and he conffesed… He cheated on my on April with Melody… I dont understand!!!! So much detail!!!! What does this dream means??!!!!!!! I’m going crazy!!!!

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  138. i had a dream that my boyfriend was at my house, then he walked over to my step-grandmothers house, then came back to my house && told me that he was with some girl and that he had had sex with her, and was giving me all the details. then he leaves and goes back to my step-grandmothers house and my best friend comes over and we walk down to my grandmothers house, then my boyfriend walks outside and i went inside and beat the shit outta the girl. then i woke up.

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  139. i’ve had a dream about my botfriend cheating on me 3 times and every time he is looking at me but he never stops having sex with the female in the dream, what does this mean?

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  140. I had a very bizarre dream this morning. In my dream I saw a music video of a one of our prominent popstars. But the artist was performing oral on men and women. I walked into the music video and then began to explore this “world”(not sure how to describe it). The deeper I went the more passionate the sexual acts became, then finally came upon a room where I saw my girlfriend with another man involved in very lustful and passionate intercourse. As she climaxed I woke up. what does this mean. I’m totally freaked out because it felt so incredibly real. What worries me is I had a similar dream with an ex and found out that she really had cheated on me. I’m not jumping to conclusions right now but would like explanation as to what this could mean psychologically.

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  141. I had a very vivid dream last night that my partner left me for another woman. He told me in out flat that he was leaving and he couldn’t pay me anymore maintenance cause he needed it for his new girlfriend. She was a 16 year old scouse girl who worked on the sunbeds in his gym (he’s recently become a gym fanatic)

    He turned up at my house with 2 of his friends to get his things and I had a bit of a breakdown!! The weird thing was I was talking to myself in my dream. I knew I was asleep but I was telling my conscious mind to remember things from the dream like names especially of the girl.

    Further on in the dream I had calmed down and accepted he’d gone and gone to his house to discuss our son but when I got there it was no longer my current partner it was my 1st ever boyfriend who cheated on me a lot!

    I don’t know if I’m confusing old feelings with insecurities about myself! Now my current is at the gym all time and I’ve not long had a baby! But it was a very tel very vivid dream 🙁

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  142. in my dream, i was with the girl i like , we were sitting down eating at a restaurant. all of a sudden she got up. when she was about to hit the exit door , a guy came in. she held his hand , hugged him, and kisses him. the kiss lasted long. after they kissed, she looked at me and then they left. my relationship with the girl in real life is more than friends, less than lovers.

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  143. My boyfriend of 4years was asleep right next to me while I was awake watching a movie, He sleep talks and he said ” lets go F*** some girls”. does that mean he is cheating?

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  144. My dream for some reason me and my gf were stayin at a hostel, of some sort no idea why and id come home to the hostel from work (odd) and my gf was sat with a just a pleasant looking fella, you kno sort of bow tie material, guy looked like he wudnt harm a hair on anyones head. spoke to him was well mannered and pleasant just as he appeared. so i gave her a hug kiss n said im off for a shower. whilst in bathroom could hear someone in the hostel (WHY A HOSTEL!?!) having sex. what was funny was the whole hostel was rocking like a caravan but only handful of people about was actually noticing, other people were just gettin on playing pool, relaxin and having fun as if nothing was going on. so only a few people walking past muttering “someones having fun” with giggles and stuff on which in the dream i myself found amusing. until i realised it sounded like my significant other.
    so i was tearing through the whole place looking for her couldnt find her anywhere, in dream world about 45 mins passed of looking until i found her sat alone outside. I mentioned about the sex act and asked if she had anything to do with it in which she denied, but i could tell there was a lie. so i pushed it and asked again to which she cracked up and nodded her head. To then i replied being rather upset “you f***ing bitch who with?” she then replied the pleasant guys buff mate (LOL).
    at this part i woke before gettin to tear him a new one. I post this here because ive read ^^^above and i really had no idea i had any doubt over her until this raised the issue. Ive been with her for 4 years and never questioned her loyalty as she has never given me reason to do so, i have no idea why this dream occured :/

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  145. I dreamt last night (and sev other times) my husband married another woman with children and moved them into our house. The woman is big and unattractive to me but yet he has sex with her and seems to enjoy the relationship with her more than he does with me. I still live in the house as his primary wife but he gives me no attention and its like I’m slowly being replaced. In other dreams, he cheats on me and never apologizes for it or denies it when confronted with it.

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  146. I had a dream that me and my ex girlfriend were back into the same room talking. A black guy walked in and she walked out I stayed and spoke with the guy. After a brief moment he left and I waited around for them to return. When they didn’t I went to the room and caught them having sex. They got up and she went to the bathroom to brush her teeth and they were talking and laughing as i stood at the door talking to her. She was still nude.

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  147. I dreamt about my bf cheating on me however he does not look anything like the one i’m with now. In the dream, he cheated on me with this girl whom I also saw and talked to as well but she doesnt know who I am. I was really upset in the dream and took off. When I came back I thought he would be there waiting/searching for me. But he did not. Then at one point, he promises that he will break up with her once everything (there was a competition of some sort in the dream) is over.

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  148. i get dreams about getting married unexpectedly, like my mom kind of cheating and forcing for marriage or its like i am getting married with my relative with whom i had crush in my childhood.

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  149. Hi i had a dream last night where my husband’s brother trys it on with me while we are all helping him sort out his first childs bedroom, but my husband walks in seeing this as im fighing his brother off, my husband pulls me away down the stairs on which looks like my parents house, with my husbands shouting ‘ you always want more than what you have got, you are never happy with what you have got’ his brother then shouts back ‘ what about those 7 black girls you slept with!!! Then i felt all upset going mad at him about all the time and money i had saved to get married, he just stands there as i push him asking him why? i gave him the chance before we got married to tell me if he ever slept with anyone, but he just stands there smug as if his proud of what his done and does not care the next minute we are stood in france where we had our honeymoon and im asking him about all these women and he said they are silm and then remember looking at myself in mirror checking out my body trying to understand what more does he wants from me! I then go on saying how he made out we didnt need to go to the gym and rings them because we do not use the gym anymore more but in his hand he flashed a joint card with him and this girl on ( did not look like anyone i knew) I then wake up feeling i cant look at him.

    I then woke up!

    Close to crying as i write this 🙁

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  150. Hello, I have had several dreams in the past and I woken up to my fist imbedded in the sheet rock where a head board should be. The most recent one me and my lady were helping out with some type of remodeling project somewhere with another guy. While I was working on something ( can’t remember what) in the living room she walks out and picks something off of my work price, as I turn around I notice she is topless and the guy too ( he has been since the start of the dream) startled I ask her why she is topless completely furious and she responds “well you weren’t next to me” filled with anger I heap the man in headlock and ask him something ( don’t remember) but he responds with a smirk and I stab him with a key from the keyring in my hand. Immediately I wake up once again punching the wall…. I am left after these dreams full of adrenaline and not able to fall back to sleep for atleast an hour or so. Is this a sign or just a bad dream it drives me crazy for that hour or so I can’t sleep ?

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