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If you catch your partner cheating in a dream, it can mean one of several things. Maybe your mind or physical being has seen your partner and caught them in an act, but is suppressing it, for the sake of not upsetting yourself. This is very common because people usually try to repress memories in hope that if your mind doesn’t allow it to exist, you really will believe that it doesn’t exist.
It can also represent the lack of trust you have in your partner. Maybe you’re afraid that they will, or that they are cheating so your mind creates a scenario where you can satisfy your accusations and satisfy your lack of trust in your partner.
Another possibility may be that you’re in a bad relationship, and you’re looking for a way to get out of it, your looking for a reason or a tangible accusation for you to get out of a relationship.
Either way, it’s only a dream, and if your partner didn’t cheat on you in the “real world’ then it shouldn’t be of much concern, but the idea of a cheating partner should raise the question of how you view your relationship with them.
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I had a dream that i walked into a room and my fiancee told another woman he wanted her to give him head. He didnt know i was walking into the room. I broke up with him in the dream. In the dream he kept apoligizing to me and trying to get back 2gether with me. What does this mean?
There’s one aspect of your partner you currently do not trust 100% yet. He may be spending time with woman that are friends which worries you to conjure up this dream of him cheating with another woman.
Does he hide things or truths from you in real life?
Dreammaster,
I have had this same dream for years however the version changes with the same outcome. In real life my husband is currently in Afghanistan for 7 months and this is our 6th combat tour. We have been married for 16 years. I have dreams that wake me up and occur both while he’s deployed and at home. These dreams usually end with me finding out he is cheating on me with several women. The most recent dream I found out he had a facebook page and when I went on it I found pictures of girls he was with and when I asked him if he was cheating on me he said he had only slept with one of them. As far as I know he has never been unfaithful in our marriage and I have been faithful as well. Why do I keep having these dreams?
I had a dream that i went to a bar/video arcade and I was looking for my husband. I couldn’t find him anywhere but I knew that he was supposed to be there so I called his cell phone and he wouldn’t answer like a hundred times and finally some girl answered and said that he didn’t want to talk to me and he was with her now. I was so upset! I couldn’t believe it.
I saw a vision of this girl in my dream. She was very tall and blond and very thin. After about a week when I had finally decided to move on, I got a call from my husband saying that he had been out of town and that everything was fine and he wanted to know where I was. He just kept reassuring me that everything was fine. But, I woke up so I don’t know what was going to happen. What the hell does that mean???
Dreaming of a partner cheating in a relationship always ties back to one’s own insecurities or a certain trait in the partner that is inherent and will resurface only to make your life miserable.
Seems like you are very dependent on your husband that you looked everywhere, and called multiple times.
Seeing how you describe the girl as “very tall, blond, and very thin” sums up your insecurities in the relationship; and will be likely to dream of future boyfriends, lovers, or husbands cheating on you from time to time.
Am I a cheating partner if I dream about another girl rather than my girlfriend? What does it mean when she is not always on my mind, instead it is of an old flame?
To think about past memories is never considered cheating, and chances are that your partner does the same without feeling guilty about it. There’s no harm in fantasizing as that’s how the mind works.
But i fthe dream keeps repeating, it might mean that you are falling oit of love with your current partner and wish you were still with your old flame. I had a situation where my boyfriend sleep talked, and i was sleeping in his arm and he kissed on my forehead and said “I like the dress you were wearing” I asked which one, and he said the green one ( while kissing my forehead) and I dnt have a green dress…the next time he slept talked asking this person if he can give her a massage…saying things which when I told him he admitted but denied the ladies issue…you ar eno longer in love my brother
i had a dream that both myself and my partner cheated on each other…but with each other? I consciously knew it was cheating, but it was with my partner, and I didn’t feel guilty…this dream has reoccured
Your true desires to cheat resides in you. It so happens that your mind made it easy for you (where you felt guiltless) by substituting your current significant other into the dream.
You are sitting on the fence of cheating on your partner. Chances are that you are tempted by opportunities that arise in front of you to become the cheating girlfriend.
hi dreammaster, i had dream that my husband left and didn’t tell me anything. then i found out he went and got married. i heard from this lady i went crazy and i was crying but then i was like forget it im gonna get married too. but my heart was still hurting me, his new wife was fat and the one i was going to get engaged with appeared to me dark skinned guy like he is from Somalia but anyways then out of nowhere it was like a flash appeared in my dream.
then i was walking in a path full of people and he came out of nowhere he was like hi and i was in shocked and said hi back to him, and then i was like is this true that u got married. and he was like no i just went away and then he goes that he loves me.
so i decided to call off the engagement secretly and told him that i love u too and we walked with each other holding hands and smiling in the path of people, what is that supposed to mean?
i meant to call off the engagement to cancel it. sorry
Try to find out if your husband is lying to you, then confront him. Give him a chance to change.
If he continue to go about his old ways and vices, then it is time to let him go. There’s no need for you to be stuck in a situation that only makes you sad until you really have no more options when years pass by.
Ok this one was a strange one but one of those that felt so real. It’s a long one too!
My boyfriend and i are currently flat hunting as the one we’re in in small. We found a flat (which is the exact flat we live in) and proceed to make arrangements to move in. With all of our things in boxes i look into the hallway and see a gilr standing with my boyfriend. This girl looked so familiar but not someone i know in real life. She told me that she is moving in with him and that i should really clear off and get out of his life as no one likes me and he’s been trying to get out of the relationship for ages. She told me his family hate me! Then i had a real sence that she was his sisters friend. As i looked to him for comfort, he turned and way and shuffled his feet!
I decided i needed air so i went to walk outside and there where people sat on the steps. I felt like i knew these people but again i didn’t in real life and the steps felt like our steps but there were many of them and we were on a hill! Just then a little badger the size of a cat runs through my legs, i pick it up as it’s so cute but then it starts attcking me!
Then… (told you it was long) in the next instance i’m hiding in a run down out house with no roof behind the building where i live in one of the flats and this girl and my boyfriend in the flat above. I’m sitting on tall grass which is damp looking at the stars being comforted by a girl i don’t know but again feel like i know very well.
I woke up feeling like my heart was breaking and in tears and i’ve not been able to shake the feeling of dread and heartbreak all day. It’s made me feel so upset i’ve been vomiting all day!
Please help me with this one, i’m usually good at interpretting my own dreams
Your heart may not be ready for change or moving because you are allowing outside things to influence the way you feel about your boyfriend. He may not be necessarily experiencing all these negative things, and yet these dreams are making you sick to your stomach.
Talk to him, and see how he feels about making these changes to your lives together. If you are going to be living together in the new place, make sure he understands that you don’t want to see any baggage that may upset you in the future.
You still have a lot of uncertainly in your relationship. Air out the dirty laundry in the open in order for you to get a good nights sleep without worries.
hi dream master me and my husband had stupid fights then it got too serious then now i came back and is staying with ,my family while he is back home thinking about whether he wants to make it work or not… my best friend had a dream that she was in this big empty room and she was on the phone talking to my husband telling him the following that he is selfish and is wrong for wanting space from his wife and that he is not going to find better if he dont come win her back. what does this mean?
and i forgot to mention he stood silent and didnt respond to a word i said.
Your dream is trying to help you determine how you want your husband to respond if you were to have some space apart for a while. It is unfortunate that you see him as unresponsive to you nor your friend.
Sometimes it is important to re-evaluate why stupid fights are occurring all the time. Do you think it is healthy to fight all the time?
oo i forget 2 metion last night i had a dream that i was in a little airplane with my aunt and my cousin taking me to the airport,but the little airplane was flying over the streets and eachtime the little airplance crosses the street,we see explosion ,lightning ,and fire eachtime we cross but then i got to the airport safely and i made it so i could see my husband and live with him ,what is this mean
Obviously you love your husband very much. No matter what the challenges are now, you are willing to work it out with him. Even the dangers of explosions, lightning, fires and various disasters cannot keep you tow apart.
Talk to him. If there are things you suspect of him, ask him why. And how you can help to change that aspect of him.
hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months.. i love him dearly and he said he felt the same he would always include me in his future plans. untill one day i seen his ex girlfriend and she claimed she is still with him well on and off. it hurt me i confronted him he denied it and said she still loves him to ignore her so i did but i kept bringing it up and callin him at work which upseted him to the point where he was like i need space dont call me or anything if i miss you ill call you if i dont i dont.. it hurt me.. so i didnt call him or anything
and yesterday i had a dream that i seen his ex girl friend and she told me she is with him and i told her i was also and she started crying and told me she is going to leave him wat does this mean?
Your dream is leaning towards how you want the situation to play out if you were to confront his ex girl friend. No matter what happens in the dream, the situation is not going to change by itself. Plan on finding a new boyfriend who will be more honest.
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