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If you catch your partner cheating in a dream, it can mean one of several things. Maybe your mind or physical being has seen your partner and caught them in an act, but is suppressing it, for the sake of not upsetting yourself. This is very common because people usually try to repress memories in hope that if your mind doesn’t allow it to exist, you really will believe that it doesn’t exist.
It can also represent the lack of trust you have in your partner. Maybe you’re afraid that they will, or that they are cheating so your mind creates a scenario where you can satisfy your accusations and satisfy your lack of trust in your partner.
Another possibility may be that you’re in a bad relationship, and you’re looking for a way to get out of it, your looking for a reason or a tangible accusation for you to get out of a relationship.
Either way, it’s only a dream, and if your partner didn’t cheat on you in the “real world’ then it shouldn’t be of much concern, but the idea of a cheating partner should raise the question of how you view your relationship with them.
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I had a dream that i walked into a room and my fiancee told another woman he wanted her to give him head. He didnt know i was walking into the room. I broke up with him in the dream. In the dream he kept apoligizing to me and trying to get back 2gether with me. What does this mean?
There’s one aspect of your partner you currently do not trust 100% yet. He may be spending time with woman that are friends which worries you to conjure up this dream of him cheating with another woman.
Does he hide things or truths from you in real life?
I had a dream that i went to a bar/video arcade and I was looking for my husband. I couldn’t find him anywhere but I knew that he was supposed to be there so I called his cell phone and he wouldn’t answer like a hundred times and finally some girl answered and said that he didn’t want to talk to me and he was with her now. I was so upset! I couldn’t believe it.
I saw a vision of this girl in my dream. She was very tall and blond and very thin. After about a week when I had finally decided to move on, I got a call from my husband saying that he had been out of town and that everything was fine and he wanted to know where I was. He just kept reassuring me that everything was fine. But, I woke up so I don’t know what was going to happen. What the hell does that mean???
Dreaming of a partner cheating in a relationship always ties back to one’s own insecurities or a certain trait in the partner that is inherent and will resurface only to make your life miserable.
Seems like you are very dependent on your husband that you looked everywhere, and called multiple times.
Seeing how you describe the girl as “very tall, blond, and very thin” sums up your insecurities in the relationship; and will be likely to dream of future boyfriends, lovers, or husbands cheating on you from time to time.
Am I a cheating partner if I dream about another girl rather than my girlfriend? What does it mean when she is not always on my mind, instead it is of an old flame?
To think about past memories is never considered cheating, and chances are that your partner does the same without feeling guilty about it. There’s no harm in fantasizing as that’s how the mind works.
But i fthe dream keeps repeating, it might mean that you are falling oit of love with your current partner and wish you were still with your old flame. I had a situation where my boyfriend sleep talked, and i was sleeping in his arm and he kissed on my forehead and said “I like the dress you were wearing” I asked which one, and he said the green one ( while kissing my forehead) and I dnt have a green dress…the next time he slept talked asking this person if he can give her a massage…saying things which when I told him he admitted but denied the ladies issue…you ar eno longer in love my brother
i had a dream that both myself and my partner cheated on each other…but with each other? I consciously knew it was cheating, but it was with my partner, and I didn’t feel guilty…this dream has reoccured
Your true desires to cheat resides in you. It so happens that your mind made it easy for you (where you felt guiltless) by substituting your current significant other into the dream.
You are sitting on the fence of cheating on your partner. Chances are that you are tempted by opportunities that arise in front of you to become the cheating girlfriend.
hi dreammaster, i had dream that my husband left and didn’t tell me anything. then i found out he went and got married. i heard from this lady i went crazy and i was crying but then i was like forget it im gonna get married too. but my heart was still hurting me, his new wife was fat and the one i was going to get engaged with appeared to me dark skinned guy like he is from Somalia but anyways then out of nowhere it was like a flash appeared in my dream.
then i was walking in a path full of people and he came out of nowhere he was like hi and i was in shocked and said hi back to him, and then i was like is this true that u got married. and he was like no i just went away and then he goes that he loves me.
so i decided to call off the engagement secretly and told him that i love u too and we walked with each other holding hands and smiling in the path of people, what is that supposed to mean?
i meant to call off the engagement to cancel it. sorry
Try to find out if your husband is lying to you, then confront him. Give him a chance to change.
If he continue to go about his old ways and vices, then it is time to let him go. There’s no need for you to be stuck in a situation that only makes you sad until you really have no more options when years pass by.
Ok this one was a strange one but one of those that felt so real. It’s a long one too!
My boyfriend and i are currently flat hunting as the one we’re in in small. We found a flat (which is the exact flat we live in) and proceed to make arrangements to move in. With all of our things in boxes i look into the hallway and see a gilr standing with my boyfriend. This girl looked so familiar but not someone i know in real life. She told me that she is moving in with him and that i should really clear off and get out of his life as no one likes me and he’s been trying to get out of the relationship for ages. She told me his family hate me! Then i had a real sence that she was his sisters friend. As i looked to him for comfort, he turned and way and shuffled his feet!
I decided i needed air so i went to walk outside and there where people sat on the steps. I felt like i knew these people but again i didn’t in real life and the steps felt like our steps but there were many of them and we were on a hill! Just then a little badger the size of a cat runs through my legs, i pick it up as it’s so cute but then it starts attcking me!
Then… (told you it was long) in the next instance i’m hiding in a run down out house with no roof behind the building where i live in one of the flats and this girl and my boyfriend in the flat above. I’m sitting on tall grass which is damp looking at the stars being comforted by a girl i don’t know but again feel like i know very well.
I woke up feeling like my heart was breaking and in tears and i’ve not been able to shake the feeling of dread and heartbreak all day. It’s made me feel so upset i’ve been vomiting all day!
Please help me with this one, i’m usually good at interpretting my own dreams
Your heart may not be ready for change or moving because you are allowing outside things to influence the way you feel about your boyfriend. He may not be necessarily experiencing all these negative things, and yet these dreams are making you sick to your stomach.
Talk to him, and see how he feels about making these changes to your lives together. If you are going to be living together in the new place, make sure he understands that you don’t want to see any baggage that may upset you in the future.
You still have a lot of uncertainly in your relationship. Air out the dirty laundry in the open in order for you to get a good nights sleep without worries.
hi dream master me and my husband had stupid fights then it got too serious then now i came back and is staying with ,my family while he is back home thinking about whether he wants to make it work or not… my best friend had a dream that she was in this big empty room and she was on the phone talking to my husband telling him the following that he is selfish and is wrong for wanting space from his wife and that he is not going to find better if he dont come win her back. what does this mean?
and i forgot to mention he stood silent and didnt respond to a word i said.
Your dream is trying to help you determine how you want your husband to respond if you were to have some space apart for a while. It is unfortunate that you see him as unresponsive to you nor your friend.
Sometimes it is important to re-evaluate why stupid fights are occurring all the time. Do you think it is healthy to fight all the time?
oo i forget 2 metion last night i had a dream that i was in a little airplane with my aunt and my cousin taking me to the airport,but the little airplane was flying over the streets and eachtime the little airplance crosses the street,we see explosion ,lightning ,and fire eachtime we cross but then i got to the airport safely and i made it so i could see my husband and live with him ,what is this mean
Obviously you love your husband very much. No matter what the challenges are now, you are willing to work it out with him. Even the dangers of explosions, lightning, fires and various disasters cannot keep you tow apart.
Talk to him. If there are things you suspect of him, ask him why. And how you can help to change that aspect of him.
hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months.. i love him dearly and he said he felt the same he would always include me in his future plans. untill one day i seen his ex girlfriend and she claimed she is still with him well on and off. it hurt me i confronted him he denied it and said she still loves him to ignore her so i did but i kept bringing it up and callin him at work which upseted him to the point where he was like i need space dont call me or anything if i miss you ill call you if i dont i dont.. it hurt me.. so i didnt call him or anything
and yesterday i had a dream that i seen his ex girl friend and she told me she is with him and i told her i was also and she started crying and told me she is going to leave him wat does this mean?
Your dream is leaning towards how you want the situation to play out if you were to confront his ex girl friend. No matter what happens in the dream, the situation is not going to change by itself. Plan on finding a new boyfriend who will be more honest.
hi dreammaster,i have two more dreams that i would like u to tell me the meaning,i had this dream 2 days ago that i was in the mosque and i told my aunt that my husband dosent want me anymore and i started to cry, and my sister in law dreamed that me and my husband was getting married again and we both are happy,i hope these dreams are a good meaning cuz i love my husband so much
Everyone is sadden to see you upset over the turn of events as if your husband had ripped your heart out.
You are seeking out the approval of your husband’s side of the family to help mend the relationship. It would help you tremendously to be nicer to them, and have them accept you fully.
I am losing my mind. I dream almost everyday of my wife cheating on me. I keep going online for answers and most say because you love them so much so you get afraid that they might leave. I dont seem to love her much anymore because I have been catching her lately emailing guys. These guys would call her when I am not home and seems to me she tries to hide it for me. I just caught her a few days ago with a guy who has been having phone conversations with her for about a year and a half. But the last email stated, I’m married now, sorry but we can not go longer. I had an argument with her about it and she said it was nobody. After the argument went on for hours she confessed that she has been talking to him long and did not seem to gain interest. If she had no interest why did it take so long? This also reminded me about a year ago where she had a relationship with one of my friend. She was going to marry him, but he went to Afghanistan and said that I was just some guy who was around at the time. I felt like crap after treating my friend this way and we are never friends since. A few months after being with me she still tries to have relationships with him. Her goal was to meet him in person. She also stated “he means a lot to me, it is very important if I see him.” I was angered and gave her a chance to be with me or him a friend to her at the time. After telling her this, she lied that she is going to sleep just to talk with him about a few hours on the phone, somehow my skills I inherited told me that she was trying to get back with him. Ever since this dilemma, there has always been 3 dreams, of her cheating, military callback with neverending combat experience, or getting chase by man-eating zombies. These dreams continue everyday of my life. I need help.
As long as she’s married to you, she won’t cheat. But these are some serious situations that can easily cause any man to dream about their wife cheating on them.
It will be hard to change her, but you can change until these dreams of infidelity, combat, and zombies go away by themselves. Change the way you interact with her. Spend more quality time with her where she’s no longer thinking about anyone else but you.
Once you have moved on from your old habits, you’ll become more desirable to her and many other people. Then these semi nightmares won’t plague you in your sleep anymore.
In my dream my boyfriend and I went to the doctor because of a positive pregnancy test. There I found out I was having twins. My grandma showed up to congratulate me. And I left to go to my friend Irmas house. When I walked in she told me my ex husband had been there and she walked in on him and a girl I went to highschool with having sex in the bathtub. Im very much in love with my boyfriend… what does it mean?
No lover or significant other is cheating in this dream. Whatever your ex husband is doing is the least of your concerns. Continue to focus on loving your boyfriend, then your ex husband will be out of sight and out of mind.
i had a dream tht my boyfreind and my best friend are havng sex?? what does that mean
What are the qualities that you feel that your best friend has that makes her attractive to your boyfriend? As humans, we all want things to change rather than routine. Do you feel that your relationship is getting to a stage where it has become routine without the excitement? That will sometimes cast doubt into feeling out what your better half really wants, and keeps your mind preoccupied with the worst cheating dream scenarios even though it may never occur.
i had a dream that my boyfriend had cheated on me and left me for the other girl.. and then today he just told me he had a dream that he was cheating on me, killing people and then killed himself because i left him…. what does this mean?? please help!
Your relationship may be coming to the point where each of you are not enough for each other. Has the excitement gone away, where you have to think of something else to keep yourself preoccupied?
Try talking this out with your significant other, and see if both of you can move forward thinking more of each other and less other other people.
i had a dream last night, ” my lady friend called me and said ” hi! i called ur boyfriend and asked him to come to see me… and i was hearing from the mobile that my boyfriend was talking… later on my boyfriend called me and i was hearing them laughing while playing computer games… In my dream i saw them together in a room, in one bed. But my dream never showed me if they had sex. what was the meaning of my dream?
People don’t necessarily need to have sex to constitute cheating. When your significant other is sitting next to you physically, but their mind is thinking about someone else, that’s a form of cheating.
Your dream is telling you your feeling, and it may be time to confront him.
Alright so Ive always had strange dreams.. Sometimes i remember them and sometimes i dont.
They’re always vivid as if its really happening.
And alot have come true.
But this one was off..
I dont remember how it started but basicly I was naked wrapped in a shawl, and i wasnt aware that i was naked until half the dream later.. There we’re few random moments in the dream that didnt feel like they meant anything so ill leave them out…
But in the dream i went to a young womans house and we had fooled around and she made sure i was dressed before i left.. But the strange thing is my boyfriend ended up picking me up from this girls house.
Then as i was getting ready to leave he asked me if i was sleeping with her. I denied it . Then woke up to the phone feeling as if i was missing something.
Can you or Anyone tell me what this might have meant.
Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and had been with woman before i met him now im really confused.
Your own fear of cheating on your boyfriend is being manifest from your past experiences with women. If you are hiding that aspect of your life from your boyfriend, then this dream may be a recurring one. Bring your past into the open if you are not hurting anyone.
I had a dream where my husband left me for some younger wome, then the night after (yesterday) I also had a dream about him, but now he was with an ex-girldfriend and my daugther at Disney. Finally today I woke up really mad because in my dream he had told me he had more chidren. I’m really confused!!
Jane, your mind is creating scenarios to help you deal with your own insecurities. These insecurities may stem from fact that you don’t know everything about your husband’s past relationships, and your own fears of growing older.
I have a dream that my “guy” friend calls me over to his house, tells me to come down in the basement, and then we lay there and just cuddle….next thing i know i wake up and he disappears and his baby’s mom is sitting there looking at me, she always asks the same questions, “who are you? who is she?” and he always gets up and disappears i’ve had this dream twice now, and it’s starting to get on my nerves because i NEVER remember dreams..it’s upsetting me..
Katrina, who’s cheating who when you know that your friend comes with baggage? Your dream is trying to help you determine whether you can handle or be involved in his baby’s life.
My boyfriend has been having dreams of me cheating on him he wakes up upset I tell him that Im not cheating cause Im really not. He always tells me thing like “if i ever catch you cheating, or i dont know what i would do if you ever cheated on me” we have been together for 5yrs im getting to the point of the accusations are really upsetting me. I have dreams that he chooses other girls over me i dont know i really want it to stop
Spend time with your significant other getting away from the day to day routine that is boring you both. The sense of doing the same thing again and again everyday will prompt the mind to play tricks on you with what-if dreams of insecurity, infidelity, cheating, and hopelessness.
The truth of the matter is that both of you are not doing enough during the waking hours to simply have fun.
OK I accidentally posted my dream where it doesn’t go…any who I always have dreams thy my husband cheats on me with my cousins friends and even my sister.its starts off me and him could be all loveable how we usually are but then a friend or cousin or my sister gets there and he checks them out and I start getting pissed and he starts having sex. Like today we were having sex then all of a sudden we were looking at some girls with big butts and he started saying how he would like to hit it then its weird but I catch him doing a fridge then my friends and so on its nasty and it makes me cry when I wake up cause doesn’t hide nothing from me. Besides when he’s checking out a girl. But I don’t know if I’m insecure of myself and that’s why I’m having these dreams? Help me please cause they occur a lot!!
If your husband during the waking hours has not in any ways acted the way he does in your dreams, then you should not have anything to worry about.
What is troubling is the frequency and the recurring theme of your dreams about your husband cheating on you. It is easy to point the cause to insecurities, but the images of him poking big butts and a fridge over you is crazy unless you are colder than a cadaver.
Hi, I had this dream that me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for year and he is also in prison for life. I had a dream that he got out and we got married. My thought’s are telling me he will get out and we will be married onday. What does this dream mean?
Linda, if your boyfriend is away in prison for life, try your best to forget about him and move on. That is the reality.
If you keep dreaming about the past and future while avoiding the present, you will turn old and eventually die without having lived your life to its full potential.
Do things to better yourself.
Every dream i have about him, we are always together. One dream me and him were at our wedding reception dancing and another dream, we were at the alter. Am i going crazy?
It is normal when you miss a person when they are not there. Your mind will create dreams full of beautiful stories for you based on your desires and what you want.
However, you are crazy for not learning to let go.
Hi! i had diffrent dreams that my husband cheats on me all the time. Some time i see the girls face that i never see be for in my life. I even feel like if is really happening to me. I start to cry in my dream and when i wake up im crying in reall life. so, the next day i ask him if he is chating on me to tell me. what dose this mean? can it be true? could it be a sing? what? please help me?
Are there tell-tell signs during the waking hours that your husband could be cheating on you that prompted you to dream of seeing him in the act of cheating? Is your husband generally an honest person or prone to dishonesty? Based on the true character of your husband, you can easily tell if your dreams have any truth behind it.
I have dreams all the time, where i see my boyfriend deliberately flirting, chatting up and trying to get sex, or having sex with random girls right infront of my face. Like he wants me to feel like i mean nothing to him at all. Sometimes, but not always, his friends are in the dreams too, where he is trying to pick up a girl or pointing out hot girls that he would like to bed. I’m not one for having dreams but i have been having alot of dreams like this, all the same but different senarios and girls everytime. Please tell me what these mean, I’m starting to really think about it, its really quite depressing.
When a person is lacking in activities or hobbies to preoccupy their time, they will automatically think and dream about what other people are doing which may or may not be any of their business. Please keep that in mind.
Do you ever feel that you two are not evenly matched in the relationship? Is he doing more stuff on his own, and simply enjoying life? You may envy him, but when your feelings become contempt, you will know the relationship is over. Don’t let your feelings get to this point of being cancerous.
Hi! i had a dream the other night that i was cheating on my husband. with my husband. yet i felt guilty in the dream even though it was himself i was cheating on and with. .we were on a date and i snuck of to meet my secret lover in an alley to cheat and it was him. started cheating and felt absolutley horible afterwards and went back to the date feling guilty. what does this dream mean?
In your cheating dream, your mind is helping you satisfy the urge to experience something different and bring more excitement into your life. Only to find out that you really love your husband, and it would kill you internally if you did cheat on him in the waking hours.
Don’t cheat on your partner for the sake of cheating. Make sure the person you are cheating with is worth it. Otherwise you will end up being back in the same spot with nothing changed, except a wreck relationship with your existing partner.
I constantly have dreams of my husband cheating on me. This last one really bothered me because I cought him cheating and went crazy and fought the girl, and he ended up filing for divorce. In the dream, I didnt want a divorce. In the real world, my husband doesnt give me any reason to believe he is cheating, but he has lied to me in the past and I have been cheated on with every man Ive been with. What does this mean?
It is not healthy to have recurring dreams of your husband cheating on you. If these fears are unfounded based on the real life scenarios, you may need to occupy your life with the things you like to do instead worrying about your husband every minute of the day.
An unoccupied mind will always think about what other people are doing, and what they are thinking. Avoid this pitfall, and simply focus on yourself.
In the dream I was sitting downstairs with my partner, when he left abruptly, saying he had to get a drink. I sat on my own for hours and he never came back, so I searched the house for him and found him in bed with another girl, who turned out to be a real life friend of his. I had an argument with the girl, then my partner tried to break up with me, I cried and begged him not to. What does this mean?
I had a dream the other night, (i have just found out that i am pregnant with my 2nd), that i was going into early labour, around 15-20 weeks early. The hospital was a supermarket, and the checkouts were the cubicles where people were being seen to.
i went into the cubicle and had the baby really quickly, i didnt get to see the baby as they took the baby away. It was a little girl, i wanted a girl for my first and want one now for my second. i walked round with another lady who had just had her baby to go and look at other newborns. I realised that my child wasnt with the others. I then went to look for my partner who was sitting in the canteen with a woman that i knew but wasnt too keen on. I shouted athim and asked him what was he playing at being with her.. he looked at me and walked off. a little while later my mum turned up at the hospital, i asked her ifshe had seen my baby then the nurse turned round and said, im afraid your baby died.
what does this mean?
I also had a dream a few days later that my partner was cheating on me with one of my good friends. he was putting our 5month old son to bed whilst i was in the garden having a cigerette. i happened to walk in wondering what was taking him so long, and i slightly looked through the door and he was kissing my best friend. they were both naked and (i think ) about to have sex. He opened his eyes and looked at me.. he didnt seem shocked, and he didnt say anythin. I asked him what he was doing, and he didnt seem to think that he was doing anything wrong.
The rest of the dream seeemed to revovle around me constantly asking him why he was doing this to me, our child and the new one on the way. He said that we should still live together but not be together, as long as i could handle the parties and late nights he’d be having, that could wake our son. My friend also didnt seem to think that there was anything wrong with what was going on.
I woke up feeling really deceited, and it really got o me and shocked me.
wat does this mean?
I have dreams of my husband cheating on me and when I catch him he tells me he doesn’t want me anymorrrr and I commit suicide.
My sister thinks my husband in real life liked her. When she was the one instigating things in his head by saying things to him e.g (wedding day) why are you marrying my sister… you should marry me (apparently as a joke) and talked about the enjoyments of sex telling him that I am only like her friend so its ok for them to talk about erotic sex.
Now after a year I am having a dream of my husband litterally having sex with her, publicly. Its truely disturbing… I was just passing them in my dream and woke up before I reacting to anything in my dream.
I had the strangest dream that my boyfriend eas talking to someone else about sleeping with her in an explicit nature while mr and him were on the phone. She told him that he should have stayed with me. Then I saw him in a strange place and it didn’t even look Like him but it was and we began to argue I asked and he told me he had been with 5 different people during the 2 yrs we were together and that would do whatever he had to do to get some! He just told me a couple days ago that he slept with someone else while we were split up but wants to work it out now. What does this dream mean? Help please!
I had a dream last night I caught my boyfriend cheating. Then he confessed he stopped loving me months ago. He broke up with me. It was the most real dream I have ever had. I woke up crying and shaking.
What does this mean???
i had a dream in which a friend who i didnt kno (he was high on sleeping drugs) came in my house to sleep and we let him and told him to sleep in my room. but then me and my girfriend started playing naughty and he was peeking and he saw my girl topless and i felt so jealous about that! after that we asked him to slep in the living room and when he was leaving the room he got on my bed and told my girl to go sleep with him whenever she wanted. and that got me pissed!!! so i tried to get a knife that i always keep under my bed for safety when she told me she had taken it and put it away… so i got a remote control and followed him as he went in the living room and threw it at his head, i was picking a fight but he didnt do anything. and then i asked him angril. how would u feel if i was flirtin with ur sister, and he replied that his sister admired him or something… but then i chased him outside but he transfored into a white guy in a black leather jacket,then i went back in to check on my gf and she was there with another friend of mine who had just got there, he was talking something about a gun or something, then i went back outside to check on the other guy and neighbors and my grandma were kicking him an punching him and then, i went back inside and didnt find my girlfriend anywhere! i went outside to look for her and she was comiing down the street riding her bike with my friend who was riding his bike! i asked them where they had gone as i started to cry and my gf said they had gone to the pond…(that pond has a lot of sentimental value to us because thats where we would spend the first days when we started going out) and then i told them in a sarcastic way “no its ok go to the POND again” an thats when she started crying and told me “no im going to my house to get something” and thats when my friend was telling me something about his phone getting connected or something like that and then i woke up
Hi dreamaster! im having recurring dreams of my husband leaving me for another woman, a few months ago he had an affair in real life and we are trying to work things out he is good to me and is always with me now, i still have the same dream every time the he comes out of nowhere and tell me the he is going to stay with her because he is more happy it feels soo cold when he tells me and in my dream i feel like is someone died crying so much and feeling jealous and epmty in the end i have someone else the wants to be with me and marry me and i stay with him just to make my husband jealous, when my husband cheated on me without me knowing yet i dream the he was cheating on me can this be the same like a prediction dream or me my mind because i dont fully trust him yet? please help!
hi dreammaster i’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now and last night i had a disturbing dream that i was at a friends house, which i clearly did not know who they were but i left to kitchen for a min and all the girls were in the bathroom and my boyfriend walked in and showed them his penise and i walked in the bathroom very shocked that he did that i was so mad and i asked him why he did it and all he kept sayin was “caused they asked me to so i did it”. but the dream went on and we were having a cook out and at the end of the dream he showed me a pic of a girl he has a crush on what does this mean????
I had a dream tonight, I was at work, got off work and got into my husbands big white truck (he doesnt have). We were driving and he was telling me about this girl he was dating (and i seemed to know about her) and I was getting upset (and knew i always got upset when he talked bout her) anyways, he gets mad at me for getting upset and says something like “Look, dont get mad, I dont want her any more than you – I kiss her and give her oral but I haven’t had sex with her. I like doing both things equally for her, just as I like doing them for you.” And I got upset and tried the whole time to pretend I wasnt and finally I said “can i see her?” and he goes “sure, get my phone out of my pocket” and that made me more upset to know he carries a photo of her around. Anyways I got the phone, I was upset, so upset I ended up waking up. I tried to fall back asleep to see her, but I couldnt. My nerves were too crazy.
Anyways – I do trust my husband with women, I know he wouldn’t cheat. So, my thoughts are this means something else – Im just not sure what it means. Maybe, although I know he wont cheat I am still scared? I dont feel worried though, even when he goes and eats with girl colleagues. He is very open with me. Anywyas, I am totally lost. Please Help!
Ok so I am VERY confused about this dream. I have been with my fiancee for 7 years and we have 2 beautiful children. I also have a best friend I have known for like 10 years. Ne who my dream was that my boyfriend ended up leaving me for her, thats not what gets me though in real life thy actually hate eachother and have for years. I dont get why he would leave me for him in his dream and the thing thats most messed is that they both had no remorse at all and even kissed and everything in front of me even when i was crying so bad. I need to understand this dream please I am very confused and lost it has totally ruined me. Thanks.
In twelve days it will be our 10 year anniversary. 10 years ago I dreamt I woke up to use the bathroom and my husband was having sex with a female on my sofa. I woke up angry with my fist inches from his face and I was on top of him. Last night, I dreamt I was getting some kids (don’t know the relation-I am only 30 and mine are older than the kids in the dream). I went towards my bedroom and there was a woman wearing my husbands shirt, soaking wet, performing oral sex on my husband. He didn’t know I was watching but she did. The dream switched to me drowning in a river in India then it switched back to my husband climaxing. I burst through the door and proceeded to beat the girl and kicked her out of my house. I put my husband (who by the way is extremely strong) through my coffee table. After I beat him stupid he told me he had filed for a divorce. I woke up feeling crushed, betrayed, confused and crying for thirty minutes. I trust him. I know he would never cheat. He has never given me a reason to doubt him. We have 4 kids and I have only seen 1 relationship that could even hold a candle to mine in 10 years. I asked him had he ever had a dream like that and he said yes and he woke up angry with me. He knows I wouldn’t do it either. I think we work so much we just miss each other.
I had a dream that my boyfriend of 8 years had a baby on me with his close friends girlfriend. In this dream, I searched for this other woman and found her. I held the baby that he created with her and everything! We had a fight the nite before, and i went to bed mad at him. By the way, we don’t have any children yet. Pls help me understand. Also, i noticed a rubber missing out of our stash but i haven’t approached him about it as of yet…..
Me and My boyfriend are planning to move in together, we’ve been together for 2 years now. but recently I’ve been having dreams that I catch him cheating in our house with one of his female friends (he has loads). Its never a specific girl, I just know its one of his friends. What do you think this means?
I had a dream where I was having sex with a celebrity (Pharrell) in my room. he seemed slightly disinterested. When I left he went into the bathroom with a pudgy blonde woman and was having sex with her as well. She was using food to arouse him and he wanted to use a scissors. When the woman rejected the scissors he acted as if he was possessed and chopped pieces of her hair off. At that point the blonde woman was afraid and began running down a hall and I woke up. IDK what this dream means at all ! please help.
I woke up crying this morning after having a dream about my boyfriend picking up an old college classmate of mine, and bringing her home with us. He took her to his room, and they had sex while I sat on the couch, furious. The next morning, I tried to confront him about this, and he just told me to be quiet, and that we had already discussed having a three-some (which we have, in real life, possibly after being together for a few years). I got so angry in the dream that I stormed out of the door, and woke up with tears in my eyes.
After calming myself down, and telling myself over and over that he doesn’t want to cheat on me, and that he is a firm believer of a monogamous relationship, I fell back to sleep, and had another dream where I was angry at him in a high school setting (we did not go to high school together). He had a friend of mine (not a real one, just a dream one), and together, they tried to talk to me on some steps, trying to make me feel better. Once I had calmed down, they hugged me, sitting close around me, and things started to progress into a three-some type of situation, and before too long, he started to have intercourse with the strange “friend” right there in front of me, in public. He never looked at me, or discussed what he was about to do, just went to it. In the dream, I got up, beyond angry, and walked off. Then, I woke up in tears again.
We’ve only been dating for 8 months, but I know that he does not believe in cheating. He also never offers me information. Most of the time, I have to ask him questions to learn anything, even things about his past, or about him personally. Is dreaming of him cheating in front of me a manifestation of my insecurities about how he doesn’t tell me things? Of how sometimes, I feel like he is lying to my face with how he doesn’t offer the truth?
I really hope to not have another one of these dreams. They really suck,
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